I had one recently. I asked in the LA Boards for a pampering session. What I really meant was, Here's a list of things I might be interested in, when I get there I'll decide. So be ready for it. Some days I want some PSE, or greek, or an amazing bj. Other days I just want a long relaxing massage. Or to put my head in someone's lap and take a nap.
We agreed on a rate, and I went over there. Both of us really enjoyed ourselves. It was very relaxing and I will repeat with her. So, for me, it's being able to script out exactly what you are looking for and if she agrees, you agree on a fee. No DRAMA!!!!I've noticed a few providers are offering custom dates. Any hints as to what
that is? Thanks
From what I understand, it simply means that if a provider offers multiple services at different rates, like say FBSM, BDSM, GFE, PSE, dinner, lunch, etc she will custom make a specific, unique package rate for all of your needs, but different women may have different definitions of those words of course. Always best to ask that specific provider how she defines that term, however, as I am sure there is some variance.
It usually applies to shoes or men's suits, however.
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A post-op tranny would have a "bespoke" pussy? It makes sense to me. Lol
Like this dude?
No.
It means like Denny's makes its pancakes and omalettes.
C'mon now ,you call that a dude,.that's just Caitlyn with the package .
We’re all very unique. I cater to those who are like minded. Eccentric individuals and I get along just fine. All my sessions are catered to fit each individual’s personal needs.
Custom dates
Low volume
High end...
The list goes on and on.
If it's not an agency or a pimped provider, most will customize to their level of comfort and size of your wallet.
Honestly, custom or bespoke dates cater to clients who are not concerned about budget. I plan all of my dates with an eye for each client's specific desires, but bespoke arrangements tend to involve more activities out in the world, taking trips together, upgraded suites or resorts, and more communication between dates. Instead of paying an hourly rate you will receive a quote for the experience as part of the booking process.
That’s what all top-notch providers do, in my experience. Those who do what you said are the ones I see again and again.
Usually a custom date depends on what the female has to offer.
I had one recently. I asked in the LA Boards for a pampering session. What I really meant was, Here's a list of things I might be interested in, when I get there I'll decide. So be ready for it. Some days I want some PSE, or greek, or an amazing bj. Other days I just want a long relaxing massage. Or to put my head in someone's lap and take a nap.
We agreed on a rate, and I went over there. Both of us really enjoyed ourselves. It was very relaxing and I will repeat with her. So, for me, it's being able to script out exactly what you are looking for and if she agrees, you agree on a fee. No DRAMA!!!!
I had one recently. I asked in the LA Boards for a pampering session. What I really meant was, Here's a list of things I might be interested in, when I get there I'll decide. So be ready for it. Some days I want some PSE, or greek, or an amazing bj. Other days I just want a long relaxing massage. Or to put my head in someone's lap and take a nap.
We agreed on a rate, and I went over there. Both of us really enjoyed ourselves. It was very relaxing and I will repeat with her. So, for me, it's being able to script out exactly what you are looking for and if she agrees, you agree on a fee. No DRAMA!!!!
Thanks!
Exactly that. I gave her a list. I made sure to get her consent on everything. She gave me a price which worked for me. We swapped some message back and forth to make sure we were both understanding. Only headache was parking at her location. But it's LA.
When I arrived, the massage table was out. Toys. She wore a cute outfit. Everything was how I wanted it to be. I've repeated but want to more, shame we are not closer.
Lesson learned. Communication! Make sure she knows what you want and is on board with it. The last thing a provider wants is an bad review because you had an awkward experience or for you to have an expectation she isn't comfortable with
Ussually Custom Dates are where you (The Customer) tell the Provider what type of "DATE" you want. And the Provider tells you (The Customer) whether or not she'll do it as well as gives you a price. I do that !!!! Text (609) 445-2359 or email [email protected].
And if a SP doesn't mention custom or bespoke dates, is there a general convention as to whether it's reasonable to ask if she would be interested? Although one could think my question could be somewhat odd, consider that negotatiating rates is generally seen as gauche and it's in this context that I ask the question.
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pℓєasurabℓє romantic єscapism"
I deem "Bespoke" as such:
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A tailored sensual encounter with your "Faux Girlfriend"
which is supportive of desires, needs and erotic affection.
Caveat: No Uncovered Coitus, No Greek, No C0F, No FIA
Angelina, your link isn't working.
.. you need to venture into SB world..
P4P is a poor platform for customization. Maybe at a very high end of the game, where providers are charging upwards of a couple of grand an hour, you can customize. You are talking about big money here for most of the people.
On the other hand the whole concept of sugaring is based on having a customized arrangement that is mutually beneficial.
I am brand new here and just wanted to explore around. Finding this topic was a pleasant surprise. The feedback from different perspectives is amazing. Thank you for sharing!
a generic one size fits all date?
I think it really just means crafted to what you like with a rate that is possibly up for discussion depending on what you are doing.
to custom-made suits or shoes.
I asked for a different sort of scenario to a provider I am very friendly that she didnt have the fee listed for it and she said she would work up a "bespoke" date/rate for me. This was 5-6 years ago and that was the first time I remember seeing that word being used in this lifestyle.
Here’s a caption of what a custom date is. This is from a young lady’s website in the “Investment’ page
“I do not have a set rate. Once we've discussed what type of experience you're looking for, we can come up with a specially curated package that we are both comfortable with”
There now you know