I meet an out of country provider visiting the USA for the first time a few months ago. I truly had a wonderful wonderful time with her. She is suppose to come back in a month or so. I am planning to see her again her and during our session this time, I was thinking of proposing to take her out on a multi-hour date on her off days here while she is visiting. She did tell me last time that she did not get to see much of NYC because she was working, and no I am not falling in love with this girl and I am not touring NYC with her. I would like to spend the a few hrs at the jersey shore with her because I think it would be a lot of fun for both of us.  

If she is a strictly business type, she won't see it that way.

That rate is probably the reasonable rate to go with for something like this.  I have no idea whether $1600 is a reasonable daily rate in your area.  Just ask..

Especially, if it is a day she was looking for work and had none.  

If the roles were reversed and "roleplayer" was the tourist and you really wanted to see the Big Apple, would you want to spend the day at the beach, any beach?  I'm no beach expert, but when you're sunscreened-up, lying on a towel, eyes closed, soaking up the rays, I don't see how the sea, sun and sand differ that much from "home" (European Atlantic, Mediterranean or lakeshore).  

a nice lunch at a nice restaurant. maybe go to some nice areas of nyc (perhaps a little shopping to spoil her a bit). and back to her hotel for a nice time until your 1600$ time runs out. I wouldn't push with the time. Yes you're being generous but to go past the allowed time might not sit well with the agency. I have never worked with an agency before so I wouldn't know much about how that works.  
4 hours is more than enough time for you to spoil her and show her a good time in my opinion. Going to the Jersey shore... I think you gonna spend way too much time just getting to the beach. You can use that time for other activities within NYC.  

I don't particularly see the generosity of that offer but wish you the best of luck.

Since it was her first time in NYC, I asked if she seen any major tourist attractions here and she said no "not much because she was working and her girl friend has been here before and did not want to do the tourist thing again." I don't want to do the tourist thing either. I am taking her to an island resort town in NJ because I had a lot of fond memories there. No we will not be laying on the beach. I was planing on some light shopping, claw game amusement park fun, great local sea food ( we only have a few hours ). I guess I can spend a few hours doing what she would like to do in NYC, but if that was the case - shouldn't she be the one paying me? Or at the very least, I would pay for all the visits and I am not paying her ( no sex of course ). But it kind of blurr the lines of what we are doing ? No?

I have had agency girls offer me to be their private client all the time. But I have never ask them for it. I think this would be a good deal for this girl if she did not go through her agency and pocket the whole thing. If she goes through the agency, they probably would want the full 8hrs ( eventhough at least 4hrs would be on the road. which I am not willing to pay). Not to sound selfish, this is really more for me and I think she would have a great time and also get paid. Also not sure how the agency would view me if she decide to go with the agency and I declined. Hmmmm

One more thing ... trapped in a car with your date for 2 hrs there and 2 hrs back.  The first 10 minutes should be easy.  Maybe even 30 minutes.  YOU might think you can keep things going for 4 hrs plus the 4 hours of shopping and playtime.  What if she can't?  That'll be an enjoyable ride.  

She has an agency, not a pimp. If she feels it's necessary to go through them on her "off day" that's up to her and of course you need to respect her wishes even if it blows your trip.  

If you want to drive out to the shore and hang out there, go for it! You don't need to pay her for things you don't enjoy doing too, and you're right that it may blur lines, especially if the money and the intentions aren't thoroughly understood by everyone involved. So, I also agree with you that you should expect to pay if it is about you to keep things cleaner for (hopeful) good times to come with each other. Mostly a side note, I've been seeing the same guys for years without a hitch because like you they're always aware of our mutual boundaries, and I hope you can have such a healthy and happy experience here too

why you had to let us all know that you aren't falling in love?

a lot easier with an indie. Anyway just haven't found one that I want to spend that much time with. Thks for all the inputs...

Regardless of his feelings he may or may not have for the chick. A NJ trip is just easily half the time he plans to spend with her. Id stay in NYC and he doesnt need to do the "tourist thing". He can take her to chelsea market or the highline or whatever and then to eat, then spoil her with some shopping then back to the hotel for some intimate fun.  

You look at it as a 50% discount, many girls would look at it as them losing $1600 if they didn't take it.

No offense. But you are so specific? You sound like a cop.
Anyway...
Don't go into a date with your paperwork handy.. Pig.
That's creepy..

he just sounds like someone who "isn't falling in love... "

Good one!

It means to give advice.  What you want is some advice.  It's a noun.
Next time I'll smack you wrist with a ruler.

your and not you?

Beating his meat in the corner.

I just hired a new head of security...do you like her..him..whatever?

Almost as tight as mine.

I think it's just elaborate roleplay...  
A dentist (IRL) playing a cop pretending to be a john pretending not to be in love.

Exactly: Unless she is dying to get to know you and loves making small talk, four hours in the car would suck for her.

I would no way take the deal.  

Yeah and being paid 50%...what a deal...no way in the world would I sit for 4 hours of travel in the car with a john that I don't really know...I couldn't do it with one I do know...well to be truthful I hate car trips. I would want to paid for that hell alone....lol

I would do it happily with a trusted client .

Don't over analyze...just ask her.

There are a lot of guys who drive like maniacs, and I'm strongly considering taking road trips off of my services. By the time we're done, I am ready to pass out from constant fear for my life - or limbs.  

Maybe I'll let you look at what I do.