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Exactly!
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Cancellations happen on both sides of the transaction. For good reasons and bad. Trying to assign more blame to one side or another is just a huge waste of time.

If you see service providers in any form whether it be for healing, pleasure or fun - please, PLEASE be responsible enough to ensure that you can make your appointment with them or cancel a few days before hand. Our time is as valuable as yours and your wasting ours by not showing up to your previously scheduled appointment. Thank you.

I can't tell you how many times I've been stood up by a provider.  Whether  a provider or hobbyist we are all human.  At times we all have to cancel an appointment for one reason or another, but to be a "no show" or call 5 minutes before is seriously wrong.  The one time I've had to cancel a session I called a full 4 hours before and sent an email apologizing and trying to reschedule for the following week.  Ultimately it all worked out and we had a good time and I've seen that provider several times since.  However, I've also been stood up and/or made to wait in a parking lot for 2 hours until I got disgusted and left.  EVERYONE'S time is valuable.  (BTW, the reason I rescheduled was a 102 degree F fever and explosive diarrheal stomach flu that I wouldn't have wished on my worst enemy, well, maybe my WORST enemy, lol)

I always let the girl know way ahead of time if I need to change schedules.   I'm always courteous,  clean, gentle,  well groomed,  and I leave on time.  I shower twice a day and donate like a philanthropist.  This hobby has made me into a very good man.  
Come to think of it, I'm the perfect hobbyist that providers have wet dreams about.  

:D

I am again would irritate many of you and you will call me and idiot and lunatic  but i want to share  how it happening in other cultures not saying I willa ct the same - I am now  not Ukrainians and not american any more .. but  trust me please if wife will catch man  with other woman - she would ask him what  he is missing and will try to be better then woman he goes .. she would keep him with the best sex ever ...  it is why Russian wives the best sluts- we do not relax when we get marry to man - simply our men NEVER will stay with not sexual wife ... may be it is .. no humanly . but it is fact ..  so Russian men do not afraid to be cauth and be proud actually and wives would be - as ..put shame - what I am not doing to him  that he need go to toher woman ?? and she would do everything  and above of everything  to entertain him  
 even he is last  person in the village and  she is making more money then him .. he still is  a man for her ..man she wants to win ... because man do not afraid of her have no fear to be caught and is actually kind of proud that every woman wants him .. and ..OOOO women not let men  to go.. we have one saying  about married men and  their wives( not as I support it - I now am American but I keep those my cultural habbist as to sex to be  he best possible suka)
 so  woman says -
"wive is not a wall  and I can put her  down"
 but only one way she can do that - sex and love .. and yes .. some cooking and drinking with him too  
but I prefer now have him drink but I drive him around  .. love please men :) my men feel as they are on the heaven .. and sooo love me ..

-- Modified on 3/11/2014 11:55:33 PM

Yes but here in America if you get divorced you end up losing your house (she gets it), your kids, (she gets them) and at least half your pay.  Then we can't afford providers, never mind new girlfriends.  It's not fear, it's frugality.  
I know with absolute certainty that She'd divorce me in a hot minute if she caught me with another woman.  
Plus, not being satisfied in bed does not mean your are unhappy with the rest of your life.  It means you sneak around on the side for 40 years and hope you never get caught.

I have cancelled a couple times but always at least 24 hours in advance. I've had providers cancel via text/email in the middle of the night for a morning appointment, cancel while on the drive there and not answer when I get there.....Part of the game.

Cancellations happen on both sides of the transaction. For good reasons and bad. Trying to assign more blame to one side or another is just a huge waste of time.

I am actually grateful because they got me to get up and change out of my loans work and actually put makeup on and get ready then I am all the more likely to post an ad on BP and grab a quick even a half hour appointment it's better than.
me loafing around like I do the majority of the time but hey such is the way of the world for folks like me.
I had two cancellations on Sunday but gratefully they did
also help me because in expectation of their arrival I did get up and put the makeup on and then once I was ready I was ready to do another call even though they had cancelled
one guy was aggressively contacting me after my body rub post on Friday.
I had gotten stricken with a fibro attack
unfortunately ended up laying in bed on a muscle relaxer and was not able to produce anything that day even after my post I did try to answer the calls and prepare myself for future interactions with the responders
1 color in particular was very aggressive with making sure that when I am ready that I do call him first and foremost before anyone else and he did show his excitement to meet with me and was aggressive in calling me a lot afse do call from 430 or after as I cannot really talk right now and im in the middle of things.
meaning referring to my cell phone and doing this new circuit training routine for your glutes.
on the beach I did get it down pat and it is quite the circuit training routine and I'm totally pumped about it another day got it down pat I don't have to refer to my cell phone back and forth the next time that I do perform this training circuit for glutes
finally it becomes 7 p.m. I do text him and let him know hey I will start to depart it will probably take me some time to be there by 8.
one thing leads to another and I decide to call this recent encounter I head with a livery plate limo driver in my neighborhood home I befriended and he promised me I should call him when they need rides or help with errands
so I call him and I told him I have an errand to do
Here I am fake eyelashes makeup on all pretty much ready to go even have a limo I mean real emo live replay its no joke I can't mention the make and model but let's just say big time.
he happens to cancel the IA text when im old is enroute.
no big deal I threw an ad up on BP.
I have the limo driver hanging out and sitting on the couch so I threw the ad up and I act upon the moment and make things happen.
I procure an outcall to a Marriott in Boston
within minutes literally.
Plus you need to look at these things as opportunities when people cancel on you go ahead and put an ad up on BP and get yourself an appointment to make up for that lost appointment do not let them get to you do not let them ruin your good time and what you had been counting on and getting excited about whether it will money for your kids or money for a bill and you were getting pumped for it,
girl you go ahead and use real quick at up on BP and you procured appointments and you get her done girl.
you have the option to delete your ad ASAP after you procure your makeup appointment in exchange for this cancellation you had  .
don't let it get you do not worry about it and for the record.
I swear if you are dressed and ready and you have either a limo scheduled for you have your hotel or you have put a clean living down at your apartment.
don't matter if you were planning on making that 150 300 or maybe you are a courtesan
even worse if you are planning out and putting a lot of effort into a very pricey session and they cancel I do understand how disappointing this can be,
however.
I know for me when I have it in my head that I'm planning on working. and getting results and producing.
maybe it will not be what I had my heart set on but anything is better than nothing.
hell even if your computer and phone are broke walking out the door and aggressively approaching anyone you see and just throwing yourself into it and crossing your fingers and hope everything works out I will do anything but sit on my b*** and feel sorry for getting angry at people if I am planning on something and I need to make something I will not complain about it I will get it done.
and hey it may not be what is up to par for you.
the way I see it anything is better than nothing if someone cancels on you and there just is not anything else to do you can
and you have the option to throw it up on BP or worse go out and solicit yourself to someone at random you can find out in your immediate surroundings.
when you do go out and do things the old fashion way and basically solicit yourself an approach people on the street granted it's not going to be this big thousand dollar score.
but in the event that somebody blows you off and you are determined to make something happen and produce
its not even such a bad deal to sometimes go out and get into it and get in the midst of some type of chaotic excitement with some maybe possibly even what would be seen as low down and scary construction workers or whatever.
I want I'm found myself in a predicament where did not have access to a computer and everything was going horribly awry for me despite my efforts.
I had found myself living in hotels for close to two months in the month of July in August because the AC was out in my concrete highrise which absorbs the Sun like like nobody's business
anyways when the excursion finally ended I find myself very tired trying to pay for hotels as well as pay for my very pricey rent and utilities towards the end things weren't so glamorous and I was getting tired and I had to kind of taking more than glamours hotel. excuse me less than glamour. Motel.    
well all of a sudden I found myself over drying on my debit card with no money to pay for WiFi or post an ad and no money to go get breakfast up the street at Dunkin Donuts I was trying very hard but my apartment building expected me to produce the 1700 a month even though I showed them the receipts for the very expensive Rach I was paying to stay at nice places in Boston as well as extended stay for a week which is well over a thousand.
plus there's me and there's my dog and there's bars for transportation and help carrying things and it is what it is I ain't complaining but it is what it is point being.
find myself in a position where I just dog on it didn't have access to the Internet and things just weren't working out had no access to anyone to call but definitely needed needed needed to survive and needed some form of money like ASAP.
okay this is low down but I agree as we approached the Stroop of traveling construction workers across the hall you do know that contractors get rooms at the motel six quite often when they are traveling for contractor work,
strangely enough they were all young and very rock n roll and good looking tons of tattoos they even had a very small little hot pot and we're cooking some pretty damn good cool food in the room and just kinda having beers and hang out
well I managed to get in there and get everybody else out of the room and do an appointment with at least one of the guys and hey you know what it wasn't for Joel and it wasn't fancy but it was better than sitting there and feeling sorry for myself and panicking,   don't be afraid to take risks and when push comes to shove in your room between a rock and a hard place definitely continue to go out in produce it doesn't matter if it's not up to par making 150 or even 80 god damn it is better than sitting there and doing Jack diddly squat.
sure we all wish we can have that old rich guy that pays a 750 for 10 minute appointment in Las Vegas in a fancy hotel sure we all wish every appointment could be like that that's not reality for anyone not escorts or anyone.

Tell me how you REALLY feel about the subject.  
 
But the short message of "get off your butt, end up with more bucks than you started the day with", is a great idea.

I think we have a tie here. Angel and Serafima lol

Posted By: angelexotic
I am actually grateful because they got me to get up and change out of my loans work and actually put makeup on and get ready then I am all the more likely to post an ad on BP and grab a quick even a half hour appointment it's better than.  
 me loafing around like I do the majority of the time but hey such is the way of the world for folks like me.  
 I had two cancellations on Sunday but gratefully they did  
 also help me because in expectation of their arrival I did get up and put the makeup on and then once I was ready I was ready to do another call even though they had cancelled  
 one guy was aggressively contacting me after my body rub post on Friday.  
 I had gotten stricken with a fibro attack  
 unfortunately ended up laying in bed on a muscle relaxer and was not able to produce anything that day even after my post I did try to answer the calls and prepare myself for future interactions with the responders  
 1 color in particular was very aggressive with making sure that when I am ready that I do call him first and foremost before anyone else and he did show his excitement to meet with me and was aggressive in calling me a lot afse do call from 430 or after as I cannot really talk right now and im in the middle of things.  
 meaning referring to my cell phone and doing this new circuit training routine for your glutes.  
 on the beach I did get it down pat and it is quite the circuit training routine and I'm totally pumped about it another day got it down pat I don't have to refer to my cell phone back and forth the next time that I do perform this training circuit for glutes  
 finally it becomes 7 p.m. I do text him and let him know hey I will start to depart it will probably take me some time to be there by 8.  
 one thing leads to another and I decide to call this recent encounter I head with a livery plate limo driver in my neighborhood home I befriended and he promised me I should call him when they need rides or help with errands  
 so I call him and I told him I have an errand to do  
 Here I am fake eyelashes makeup on all pretty much ready to go even have a limo I mean real emo live replay its no joke I can't mention the make and model but let's just say big time.  
 he happens to cancel the IA text when im old is enroute.  
 no big deal I threw an ad up on BP.  
 I have the limo driver hanging out and sitting on the couch so I threw the ad up and I act upon the moment and make things happen.  
 I procure an outcall to a Marriott in Boston  
 within minutes literally.  
 Plus you need to look at these things as opportunities when people cancel on you go ahead and put an ad up on BP and get yourself an appointment to make up for that lost appointment do not let them get to you do not let them ruin your good time and what you had been counting on and getting excited about whether it will money for your kids or money for a bill and you were getting pumped for it,  
 girl you go ahead and use real quick at up on BP and you procured appointments and you get her done girl.  
 you have the option to delete your ad ASAP after you procure your makeup appointment in exchange for this cancellation you had  .  
 don't let it get you do not worry about it and for the record.  
 I swear if you are dressed and ready and you have either a limo scheduled for you have your hotel or you have put a clean living down at your apartment.  
 don't matter if you were planning on making that 150 300 or maybe you are a courtesan  
 even worse if you are planning out and putting a lot of effort into a very pricey session and they cancel I do understand how disappointing this can be,  
 however.  
 I know for me when I have it in my head that I'm planning on working. and getting results and producing.  
 maybe it will not be what I had my heart set on but anything is better than nothing.  
 hell even if your computer and phone are broke walking out the door and aggressively approaching anyone you see and just throwing yourself into it and crossing your fingers and hope everything works out I will do anything but sit on my b*** and feel sorry for getting angry at people if I am planning on something and I need to make something I will not complain about it I will get it done.  
 and hey it may not be what is up to par for you.  
 the way I see it anything is better than nothing if someone cancels on you and there just is not anything else to do you can  
 and you have the option to throw it up on BP or worse go out and solicit yourself to someone at random you can find out in your immediate surroundings.  
 when you do go out and do things the old fashion way and basically solicit yourself an approach people on the street granted it's not going to be this big thousand dollar score.  
 but in the event that somebody blows you off and you are determined to make something happen and produce  
 its not even such a bad deal to sometimes go out and get into it and get in the midst of some type of chaotic excitement with some maybe possibly even what would be seen as low down and scary construction workers or whatever.  
 I want I'm found myself in a predicament where did not have access to a computer and everything was going horribly awry for me despite my efforts.  
 I had found myself living in hotels for close to two months in the month of July in August because the AC was out in my concrete highrise which absorbs the Sun like like nobody's business  
 anyways when the excursion finally ended I find myself very tired trying to pay for hotels as well as pay for my very pricey rent and utilities towards the end things weren't so glamorous and I was getting tired and I had to kind of taking more than glamours hotel. excuse me less than glamour. Motel.    
 well all of a sudden I found myself over drying on my debit card with no money to pay for WiFi or post an ad and no money to go get breakfast up the street at Dunkin Donuts I was trying very hard but my apartment building expected me to produce the 1700 a month even though I showed them the receipts for the very expensive Rach I was paying to stay at nice places in Boston as well as extended stay for a week which is well over a thousand.  
 plus there's me and there's my dog and there's bars for transportation and help carrying things and it is what it is I ain't complaining but it is what it is point being.  
 find myself in a position where I just dog on it didn't have access to the Internet and things just weren't working out had no access to anyone to call but definitely needed needed needed to survive and needed some form of money like ASAP.  
 okay this is low down but I agree as we approached the Stroop of traveling construction workers across the hall you do know that contractors get rooms at the motel six quite often when they are traveling for contractor work,  
 strangely enough they were all young and very rock n roll and good looking tons of tattoos they even had a very small little hot pot and we're cooking some pretty damn good cool food in the room and just kinda having beers and hang out  
 well I managed to get in there and get everybody else out of the room and do an appointment with at least one of the guys and hey you know what it wasn't for Joel and it wasn't fancy but it was better than sitting there and feeling sorry for myself and panicking,   don't be afraid to take risks and when push comes to shove in your room between a rock and a hard place definitely continue to go out in produce it doesn't matter if it's not up to par making 150 or even 80 god damn it is better than sitting there and doing Jack diddly squat.  
 sure we all wish we can have that old rich guy that pays a 750 for 10 minute appointment in Las Vegas in a fancy hotel sure we all wish every appointment could be like that that's not reality for anyone not escorts or anyone.

I've had more NCNS's last six months than prior six years. Several very high profile gals included. I don get it. Never ever NCNS'd in my life

I treat escorts with the same respect as I do doctors. If I can not make an appointment I let them know as soon as I can. There are complications with communications some times because so much of this has to be done on the downlow.

I had one TODAY - ask what time works, girl says 5, I say "sorry, can't make that".  She comes back with "OK, how about 4:30".  OK, no problem, fits my time.  I left the parking lot of her hotel at 4:50 with no communication for 15 minutes.  If you can't make the appointment, don't make the appointment.  I always cancel once I know I can't make it, I never just don't show.

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