As a female monger I get plenty of no replies, tho it's gotten better over the years. Bottom line is not to dwell on it and to move on to someone else. I figure those knuckleheaded providers that are either too rude or too stupid (or both) to even bother replying are bullets that I've successfully dodged. After all - who wants to spend time and money on someone like that? Not me!
At one time I was an active hobbyist. Since I have retired and, obviously, gotten older, I hobby maybe three of four times a year. When I initially contact a provider, I honestly disclose my age. I do this because I assume that some ladies would not want to see someone my age. I really don't have a problem with that. However, I have found that I get a response to maybe 1 out of 5 inquiries. My question for the ladies is this: If you are not comfortable seeing someone older why would you not respond and how old is too old?
Your question really isn't directed at me but my preference in men is 35 n up ( although sometimes I'm flexible with younger ) usually I wouldn't respond to the younger men because I feel like I feel more of a connection to the older gentlemen with the way my mindset is ( an old soul )
I’ll pull out one of the last remaining hair on my head.
But I bet I’ll be bald by the end of this thread …🤷🏻♂️
that age is the only factor when it comes to them not responding.. I am 41 yrs old.. Been in the hobby since I was 21. Many times I also don't get a response.. Some of the girls are plain disorganized. Some may have policy not to worry about responding when their dance card for the week/ month is full..
That being said lets face it.. It's kind of uncomfortable saying NO for some people. I revel in it, but that's just the sadistic me. LOL.. It's much easier to respond YES and ignore the NOs than actually say... "Hey...buddyboy. for whatever reason we aren't a good fit...".
Just like anything in the world, it's game of numbers...
As a female monger I get plenty of no replies, tho it's gotten better over the years. Bottom line is not to dwell on it and to move on to someone else. I figure those knuckleheaded providers that are either too rude or too stupid (or both) to even bother replying are bullets that I've successfully dodged. After all - who wants to spend time and money on someone like that? Not me!
Yep !! Not dwelling on it is the key.. Sometimes people just need closure of a hard NO before they can mentally move on.. I used to be like that in my younger days.. As I got older I learned it was better to reach out to providers with complete understanding that the girl many not even respond. When you factor that in your initial inquiry, it makes the moving on much easier.
it is a question of fitness for the kind of activities you will be engaging in. Absent information about that, providers can only make assumptions based on the state of health of the general population that are your age. No provider wants to have a customer die on their shift. It ruins the session for both of you.
I do not state my age. I just say, " . . .I'm over 60 but I have been a gym-rat for 40+ years, am muscular and physically fit. It will be interesting to see if you can keep up with me. Lol" I have never been refused a session and everyone has invited me to return. I just shift the narrative off of age with this line onto whether I'm in shape to have a vigorous session. Try it, but only if you can back it up. Obviously, if someone says this and then shows up shuffling across the threshhold, she's going to be pissed.
I will either not respond or just send a kind message saying my preference m that I'm not interested
I don’t have any age restrictions, and care for a 72 year young disabled VET on an everyday basis. Not responding is rude. I just inquire about medical conditions & I am certified in first aid, cpr & AED. I will be 44 next month & to me age has never mattered as long as your an adult & respectful.
The oldest client I have seen was 91. Walked with a cane, cute as a button, 420 super friendly, super super funny, super sensual and could STILL could get it up and do the doo (cowgirl only) and always had a great time when we saw each other.
So, just goes to show ya...age is a number.
that 4 out of 5 are concerned with age. Might happen on occasion, but 80% seems unlikely. Must be some other reason.
If you have a pulse and preferably over 30 yrs older you're warmly welcomed by me.
I've never had an age maximum.
At one time I was an active hobbyist. Since I have retired and, obviously, gotten older, I hobby maybe three of four times a year. When I initially contact a provider, I honestly disclose my age. I do this because I assume that some ladies would not want to see someone my age. I really don't have a problem with that. However, I have found that I get a response to maybe 1 out of 5 inquiries. My question for the ladies is this: If you are not comfortable seeing someone older why would you not respond and how old is too old?
Dont really care if you are older. It's about spending time, caring for each other for a set time, learning about our likes.
I dont think that old... is too old.
I love my older lovers!
I don't even ask age unless it's under 25. Then I have to ask more questions. I dont discriminate though. Everyone can have fun as long as they pay and are respectful.
Age is part of the value spectrum for me! If a woman is hot and performs, I don’t care about her age! However, the value has to be there! I see a few older providers from time to time in the $300-400 range. They may be overweight or have some droopy skin, but most of them can provide excellent bbbj and sexy, fulfilling sessions! Would I pay $600-800 to see these older providers? No. I save that for the sexy young things! However, I still get the hankering for a milf session every so often! I know I e seen providers over 50, but not sure how much older than that-don’t ask, don’t tell!
Age is part of the value spectrum for me! If a woman is hot and performs, I don’t care about her age! However, the value has to be there! I see a few older providers from time to time in the $300-400 range. They may be overweight or have some droopy skin, but most of them can provide excellent bbbj and sexy, fulfilling sessions! Would I pay $600-800 to see these older providers? No. I save that for the sexy young things! However, I still get the hankering for a milf session every so often! I know I e seen providers over 50, but not sure how much older than that-don’t ask, don’t tell!
You posted in the wrong thread. This thread is asking providers what is the oldest client they will see. If you want to comment on your age preferences (or lack thereof) for providers from your perspective as a client, go to this thread:
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https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/what-is-the-oldest-provider-you-will-see-1000701?page=1
biker_gene,
First of all, I see guys 18 & older. Secondly, If you had retired then you wouldn't be contacting PROViDERS anymore.
Lets start t his game where for every meaningful response you get a dollar from every monger on this board...
This is my interpretation of what CurlyW-NatsFan was saying.. or maybe it’s just my interpretation from my experiences. If she can make money, she’ll do what she has to to take his money.