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BigPapasan 3 Reviews 443 reads
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ResidentSmartAss 2470 reads
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2 / 33

First caveat, there are exceptions to every rule.

My experience has been that getting take out from a strip club as a form of hobbying is way more expensive than going with a professional provider.  If a primary concern is economics, go with a pro.  On the other hand, if you like the chase, well...the SC girls are good at giving you that experience.  

My exp is limited in the SC arena (on purpose)...but I have dabbled.  In the 2 instances I've run into, the girls are jealous, catty, drama-queens, etc.  Then there's the upsell.  Then there's the individual drama that eventually surfaces.  "Baby, my rent is due, can you advance me $$$ and I'll make it up to you next time we see each other?"  Granted, some providers can be this way also if you play in a certain context of the professional realm.  You might even say there is overlap between the SCs and this part of the pro world.  I've never had that issue with any of the pros I've seen, however.  I tend to stay away from BP providers and go with the well reviewed independent or well reviewed agency girl.  

Long and short, I think my second SC girl experience has finally helped me work it out of my system.  While I've managed to set dates with some really attractive ladies, and the sex is a lot of fun, it's just not worth the eventual hassles.  There are pros every bit as hot and the consistency of service delivery is much better from what I've experienced.

Additionally, I haven't spoken to a SC girl that seems to really get that there is a whole other world beyond the SC walls and the rate they want to charge (some w/o even offering FS) is extrodinary relative to some exceptional competition.

in any case, I'm curious if anyone uses this method as part or all of you hobbying?  

For me, I think I'm done with the SCs.  I don't need a third strike.

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 889 reads
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3 / 33

never was thinking about how we are different ? providers or just GF?  or just women who love have fun more then money ?..
 Very interesting and sad that you also coming  to a pro s .. so  all nice women also become a pro in this country ...  for me it is kind of sad .. to see how  the best women actually as you said would be cheaper .. then those who do not deliver ..
 it takes a  man to appreciate a woman not a pro but a woman and it takes a woman not to be pro nor one of those you talked about ....
  I bet you are thinking what the heck Ia m talking about ?
 I am talking about  European ways  that all .

inicky46 61 Reviews 797 reads
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4 / 33

Especially the picture!  I believe it was taken after you pooped but before you wiped!  What a unique marketing approach!  Best of luck with it, from Mooze and Skvirrel!
"Darlink! You vill now geev me tongue bath before licking mai fits.

HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil 804 reads
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5 / 33

ba·bush·ka  

Pronunciation: \bə-ˈbüsh-kə
Function: noun  
Etymology: Russian, grandmother, diminutive of baba old woman  
1 a : a usually triangularly folded kerchief for the head b : a head covering (as a scarf) resembling a babushka  
2 : an elderly Russian woman

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 406 reads
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7 / 33

When you book an appointment with an escort it's a business arrangement between two people and they both know what is going to happen.  When you start chasing strippers you are doomed to overspend from the start.  Add to that the drama that occurs when every other dancer in the club knows what is going on (trust me, they do) and it's just more BS than it's worth.  I like strip clubs but I don't go there looking for P4P dates.  I go to relax and have a few drinks.  Sometimes I go with an escort or maybe even a dancer from another club that I might be friendly with.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 800 reads
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8 / 33

...is that 1) you can see what you're getting close up and personal, and 2) the thrill of the chase.

But I've never found those advantages to be worth the cost. It's not like dining out, it's more like shopping at an expensive take-out deli. Good incall, out in this neck of the wilderness, is like a private room in a very nice restaurant.

Tonight I'll go to bed hungry. Unless I call out for Chinese.

Fridays117 27 Reviews 783 reads
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9 / 33

That I used to go to a lot but for various reasons have stopped.  The girls there don't change all that often.  Some of them have been there for years and years.  A lot of them are MILFs, none under 30. Kinda a low class club.  The place is more of a dive bar than SC.  What keeps this place in business is the "lap dances".  They have a curtained off back room behind the pool table where the strippers take the guys and for a "tip" give them BJ's and if the gal knows you and is into it, sometimes even FS.  Only catch is, you only have the length of the song on the jukebox to finish or the house charges you for another lap dance.  You are allowed to buy more than one "dance" ahead of time.  This is an anomaly in NY in this day and age.  Usually the house is paranoid about losing their liquor license, etc.  yet this place has been like this for over 10 years now, the house HAS to know, but the gals just churn em through one after the other.  When I first started going there back in 2001 it was a "normal" SC, where a lap dance was just a lap dance.  Fast forward almost 15 years and there are still 3 or 4 girls still there since back then that if I enter the bar will call out my name (kinda like Norm from Cheers).  Can't say that I've seen any of them outside the bar.  When I've brought it up, they come out with these extreme GFE prices that I pretty much laugh at.  These gals have been ridden hard and put away wet and have an extremely high opinion of themselves.  That's kinda how I went back to the hobby after marriage.  I was good for 2-3 years and just went to see some strange boobs onc in a while until suddenly, more than boobs were on the menu.  After partaking a few times I realized, that for the prices I was paying I could get way more and better quality... In a bed, in private!  So WTF was I doing there.  Haven't been back in 2 years except to drop in have a beer and say hi to old acquaintances.

1736687 15 Reviews 958 reads
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10 / 33

Did you just figure this out?

It took me years .. so I'm not too quick either..  I spent soo much in SC's on the chase.. It was fun.. but so many hours in VIP rooms.. about the time a big club in Myrtle Beach told me that the standard  VIP room was $800 an hour.. I decided that  I had to change my habits.. it went from fun to stupidity.. I always got HJ in the VIP room but through my pants so results very poor... ruined a good pair of pants in a Fl club when lipstick got all over the crotch.. got a real CBJ  at a club in Myrtle Beach. It was a shock and unexpected but the girl was super nervous about getting caught..

I am done with them now.. the girls have zero sense of what reality is.. intentional..probably.. a waste of time & money..

ResidentSmartAss 773 reads
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11 / 33

Posted By: josulli
Did you just figure this out?  
   
 It took me years .. so I'm not too quick either..  I spent soo much in SC's on the chase.. It was fun.. but so many hours in VIP rooms.. about the time a big club in Myrtle Beach told me that the standard  VIP room was $800 an hour.. I decided that  I had to change my habits.. it went from fun to stupidity.. I always got HJ in the VIP room but through my pants so results very poor... ruined a good pair of pants in a Fl club when lipstick got all over the crotch.. got a real CBJ  at a club in Myrtle Beach. It was a shock and unexpected but the girl was super nervous about getting caught..  
   
 I am done with them now.. the girls have zero sense of what reality is.. intentional..probably.. a waste of time & money..
Here's the thing...I've gone to SCs off and on for like 15 years.  I took a major break in the middle.  My previous time was never about getting laid and clubs where Im from were different then.  About 2 yrs ago went back.  One of the first girls I buy a dance from is this cute 20-something GND stunner that is totally my type.  We "hit it off" during our vip dance...trade numbers...and end up fucking (outside the club) for several months.  I only paid her the first several times.  After that, it became more like a fuck-buddy arrangement.  We just enjoyed hanging out.  I treated her well, nice dinners, took her on a vaca with me once.  In a way...this experience made my learning curve slower on attempt 2.  Number 2 was about the money during start, middle, and end.  

I never partook of anything inside the club.  Was always a take-out scenario.  

But, I've been propositioned by several other girls and the deal is always rough money-wise...I'll give you my number if you buy VIP dance from me for 1-hour...then...I'll meet you OTC if you tip me $$$$ tonight, etc.  

So...I'm with you.

ResidentSmartAss 635 reads
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12 / 33

I'm with ya...my first exp was something of lightning in a bottle.  That made me come back for #2 which is where I learned my lesson.  I sort of "knew" the lesson all along.  Just needed to do it first hand I guess.  My OP ask was more around if others "hobby" in this way.  For me...not sure I'll even go back to the clubs at this point.  The laws are so restrictive (no nude or even topless clubs in my area....the Midwest...all pasties and bikini bottoms, etc.)

Posted By: Bostonguy57
When you book an appointment with an escort it's a business arrangement between two people and they both know what is going to happen.  When you start chasing strippers you are doomed to overspend from the start.  Add to that the drama that occurs when every other dancer in the club knows what is going on (trust me, they do) and it's just more BS than it's worth.  I like strip clubs but I don't go there looking for P4P dates.  I go to relax and have a few drinks.  Sometimes I go with an escort or maybe even a dancer from another club that I might be friendly with.  

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 470 reads
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Pavliena See my TER Reviews 622 reads
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driver who just did not know meaning of babushka  word..
 or all russian speaking women never willl see you .. and by the way .. I am  your nor babushka not devushak nor jenjina .. so  sorry brake your dreams .. as to pic .....  everybody has different kind of imagination .. if it is what you did imagine ..
 I always wonder ... and it because I just never will see you ?? and such as you are ? you be making fun on me ?
  does it ever occurs to you how you do look ?? you do look  cheap  and mean and see only low mean same as you are hookers?? is it a image you want to have ? of looser .. who argue with  a woman ?

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skarphedin 660 reads
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15 / 33

There is just nothing like seeing a bunch of hot women and getting to pick the one that is not only hot but has something that  just grabs you by the balls....  

The instant gratification of getting that rush from her and then fucking right away? C'mon. Greatest Feeling Ever.  

That being said I would need a bucket of Xanax to survive if the tables were turned!!!

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 614 reads
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16 / 33

Self confidence and charm around women can  never be  learned by an insecure man , no matter how many degrees he has purchased .  
 
   If you could learn to pity , while laughing at men who see no stature in their own reflection  , they wouldn't upset you in the least .  
 
Heck,  if you booked some of them you would likely  find , most of them will act completely different when face to face .  More  like a mouse when cornered  by a cat , not like the rat who believes he's the alley boss , when protected by  his plastic keyboard .  

Posted By: Belebeu
driver who just did not know meaning of babushka  word..  
  or all russian speaking women never willl see you .. and by the way .. I am  your nor babushka not devushak nor jenjina .. so  sorry brake your dreams .. as to pic .....  everybody has different kind of imagination .. if it is what you did imagine ..  
  I always wonder ... and it because I just never will see you ?? and such as you are ? you be making fun on me ?  
   does it ever occurs to you how you do look ?? you do look  cheap  and mean and see only low mean same as you are hookers?? is it a image you want to have ? of looser .. who argue with  a woman ?

inicky46 61 Reviews 522 reads
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18 / 33

Sounds like the two of you were made for each other.  She is very smart.  So are you.  And she knows I drive cab, too!
Two of you look like this. No

inicky46 61 Reviews 558 reads
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19 / 33

I know, I know, I use this all the time. But given your post, I just had to...

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 443 reads
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20 / 33

Sometimes the chase and the drama can really be exciting. But too often there's the feeling that there's no payoff because the sex ends up being sort of uninspired. With an escort, after the booking, screening, scheduling, 2-call outcall and parking in a strange neighborhood ordeal is over, the business part is over. The rush of getting there is different. More anticipation about how she'll measure up to the fantasy she's instilled in your imagination via her pics and ad language.

The hope that you'll click and the the uncertainty can make the heart beat faster and either that'll be exciting or it will just cause anxiety. But if she's a pro, she'll be sufficiently calmed by the dropping of the envelope and know how to make the hour or two very special.

One thing that always amasses me about how people talk about the "falling for a hooker" experience (and a version of that feeling in myself) is the apparent lack of awareness at how skillfully a good pro is at creating the right mood and exerting the energy of maintaining it for the length of the session. Without appreciating her skill, focus, and heightened intensity during the session, it's easy to simply assume that she'd be at that pitch 24/7... If only you could have an exclusive thing with her. Impossible, of course, humanly impossible. But if she's good at creating the illusion, it's actually a testiment to her skill that you forget that and dream your dream under her touch.

SC girls can't really compete artistically with that in their setting. They dance and hook for a full shift, concentrating on the crowd or party more than being able or inclined to focus on one individual, and the money seems so much less to her than to you because she has to split it so many ways and invest so much in her costume, makeup, and such. So too much drama, too much pressure on her, too little reward for her effort. And then, of course, like you, she wants some diversion after work, so her lifestyle cam get a little frantic, very ecpensive, and emotionally draining. She's like a racehorse who's been run six miles just to get to the starting gate. A bit less of that dynamic with the escort

Back_In_Black 465 reads
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21 / 33

Race , its fan , lol ....

Posted By: sophiaLA
I can't…I just can't...

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 572 reads
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22 / 33

As long as they have fun  
I guess it is only one possible fun for them ? May be nothing more left. To keep life exiting as make fun of people any way I am glad that I keep even their rotten blood running see they can t stop think and talk about me
Too sad I almost you know crying and want to help. - just my russian ukrainian jewish gypsies german and italian better say cosmopolitan soul wants help but American mind stops me  
Poor men ! Aui aui aiu just it is an entertainment for them any way it is we for here entertainers ! I am one of the best seems that just can't control themselves a bit in their dreams and knowing that it not going to happened and for million they can t forgive me being soo selective.  
Virtual kiss you horny unsatisfied mongers !
Nobody I guess loves them :( so sad no love no happiness a ? Family hates hookers using them just for money up scale escorts refuse to see them what to do ? ! Ah post on the TER ok and why I bother talk to them ? Just from interest how far can go american low to middle class man in his illusions what the rest of the world is and by the way what women are out of this hobby and if not a wife  
Who knows what woman is welcome write me and meet me please do not contact me if you believe women are all hookers here and all what we need your money nope. At list I am different and I have been told that here just five may be women as I am find those if you are man .

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quadseasonal 27 Reviews 689 reads
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23 / 33

Unlike drunk little men with no self respect ,  I don't have a need to chastise women I don't plan to  see ,  while kissing  ass like a loser little dweeb  , with every  woman I hope to meet  .  
 
   You  are the male version of an  angry dyke shunned by beautiful women she yearned to love  , dumped by every reject  she held  for a week .  
 
   Yep , you got it right , I'm the confident guy on the right , holding  your pet that bit your hand ,  taller , more secure in my own skin , and more desirable to women ,  than any demented runt like you  
  could  dream .  

  You got game , I'm ready to play , give me a  few , while I write  an Ode to Mcinickunt  .  :-D
Posted By: inicky46
Sounds like the two of you were made for each other.  She is very smart.  So are you.  And she knows I drive cab, too!  
 Two of you look like this. No?  
 
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Papagayo 25 Reviews 579 reads
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25 / 33

I had the good fortune when I was in my twenties to have my all time favorite strip club girl take me home for the night. She let me have my way with here at least four times that night. In the morning I got up cleaned up her living room, did all the dishes in the kitchen and gave her a big kiss goodbye. We saw each other a few times after that but that is another story. Thanks Tracy Star.oxox

inicky46 61 Reviews 801 reads
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26 / 33

You've got about as much game as anonymousfool, and write only marginally more clearly. As for myself, I really have no need to reply to your idiotic ramblings. You are worth so little of my time, I'll just let this guy speak.  In the future, I believe I will dignify any of your posts only with simplistic posters.  It's all you deserve.


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inicky46 61 Reviews 489 reads
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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 566 reads
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GaGambler 528 reads
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30 / 33

and I skipped the babushka thing as well, I just didn't see the point of just one more asshole piling on about BlaBlablu's incomprehensible posts.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 749 reads
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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 604 reads
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You mean legit theater argot has become part of SC culture? This is a decadent age we're in. Makes you want to rethink cryogenics and sleep through it.

GaGambler 547 reads
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