I play guitar and I love uptempo rock and some contemporary country, but where sex is concerned I'm leaning toward a laid back, jazzy sound. I had an experience with a local provider who had a jazz station on while we were getting it on. The music matched our moves and our rhythm so much so that I stopped and said, "Damn this is great music for sex." She just giggled and said "That's why it's on...." Never gave it much thought before, and actually preferred the sound of sex, but that was nice and unforgettable.

One provider I saw had a rap cd on and I asked her to turn it off....that stuff is not music.

Here are some CDs that have set the mood. Call me a wuss, but I will take passion over just fucking any day.  Not that I don't get animal urges...but that's for a different post:

Norah Jones "Come Away with Me"  Her voice has an unusual sexy quality.

Sade "Love Deluxe" She is one sexy woman.

Enigma "MCMXC A.D." This is the one with the chanting monks. To quote a review, it is a "juxtaposition of the sexual and sacred...Enigma's MCMXC A.D. did manage to work a lot of people into a lather, both on the dance floor and behind the pulpit."

Delerium "Karma" If you like Enigma, you would probably like this.

B-Tribe "B-Tribe 5"  World beat music with a sexy edge.

I know these are older recordings and I am showing my age.  So be it.