of arousal of the provider I'm with after the preliminaries (DFK, touching, co-ed shower, etc.), and if she's lagging behind my own level of arousal, I will do whatever foreplay is needed to catch her up to where I am. That could mean 30 minutes of DATY for some or merely whispering "brace yourself" to others. Whatever it takes to make it a repeatable experience for both of us.
Undressing each other in front of a mirror, watching our bodies doing the light fandango...getting naked and having her watch me caress her body....then the usual standard BBBJ, DFK, my mouth all over her body then to the main act...so yeah, I dig foreplay.....ok guys relax now.
the journey is more important than the destination.
A big YES on that one.
I simply can't understand anyone who doesn't want/need to engage in lots of DFK, DATY and generally playing around with a magnificent bod.
I love coming out of the shower and seeing her laying across the bed, wearing little to nothing, with a mischievous gleam in her eye. Then the fun begins. Most of the session is a slow and steady build up of extended foreplay and it's pure heaven!
it’s also fun to help her out of whatever clothing she’s wearing… for an extra-slow build up. 😁
I need calm and building foreplay or it just ain't gonna happen for me. Any provider who has DATY on her no list is automatically disqualified. My dick just wants my mouth to approve first. Plus eating pussy is probably my only real sexual talent. 69 is definitely my favorite position and I'd rather blow doing that than fucking.
Only thing I don't care for is DFK...hasn't really interested me since 8th grade
off the cake, the next person might not want a piece. Lol
Or you just get full and don't want the cake
Foreplay is not only essential, it is fun - it is a major part of the whole experience.
Slow and sensual encourages intimacy and gets the juices flowing. For me however, there is no hard break between foreplay and sex as I enjoy continuing the sensual aspect of foreplay through to the end of the act, and even after.
Passion drives the bus, and that is achievable even between strangers.
What's not to like. Foreplay helps me get my motor running. I love lots of oral both giving and getting . Kiss me and I melt.
When I could go multiple times in a session, I loved foreplay—lots of kissing the lips and body, lots of mutual touching, lots and lots of DATY.
Now that I’m old and a one-shot guy, foreplay is essential. I’m just not into the “clothes off, fuck” type of data. For one thing, I need time to get turned on, no matter how hot the lady is. And, it’s part of getting us mutually comfortable. Rare is the lady I’ve encountered who doesn’t appreciate some TLC. Just a couple of weeks ago I encountered yet another lady who was shy and retiring at first, but who responded quite well to a slow-hand approach.
In fact, sometimes it’s everything. There’s a lady I see occasionally for the exclusive purpose of eating her until she’s dripping wet. Sometimes the appetizer is perfect as the main course.
I've always booked longer than one hour sessions for this reason. A little chatting then a lot of foreplay. In my younger days, the longer the foreplay lasted the longer I lasted. And I'd still have time for a second pop. Now I'm a one and done and need a lot of attention to come to attention.
Everything is sex, whether or not someone is getting penetrated. Kissing someone's stomach or the back of their knees is sex. Oral sex is sex. Tying someone to the bed in an open-legged position is sex. Eye contact can be sex if you do it right, and same goes for cooking someone a decadent meal.
I wouldn't go so far as to say any single aspect of sex is strictly necessary, but some people are better lovers than others for sure.
I have an extended date with a lovely lady tomorrow night. The foreplay started with playful banter in our texts and will continue through dinner and into the room. That build-up is a trip worth taking.
Exactly! Enjoy 
