Wouldn't religion chit-chat be the mutual discussion of different customs and traditions within the various religions?  Actively praying or otherwise redeeming oneself in front of a client is something else entirely.  Are you from an area that is heavily religious or are you in a profession surrounding religion?  Do you bring it up or ask questions?

Huh, weird.

Best,

Kate

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The lady who taught me this business was very clear on this point: Never, ever discuss religion or politics with a client, at least on the first date.

These are subjects that are highly emotionally charged, and almost everyone has a strong opinion about. I was told that you risk losing business by discussing either one.

People come to see escorts in order to enjoy themselves, not receive a sermon... or to be reminded of why they should be feeling guilty.

And politics... that can ruin anyone's good time!

Personally, I say stick to the fun topics and leave the guilt and unpleasantness outside the door. But that's me...

Next to showing off pictures of my wife and kids, talking to a provider about religion and/or politics is the last thing on my mind. Really, what are people thinking of when these things happen? There should be an official code of conduct or something.

Now there are two loaded subjects, so to speak.

OK, so do I hear about religion while in the sack?  All the time.

Usually it is just a mention of a church the lady finds meaningful or discussion of some custom.  Less common are discussions of deeply held beliefs.

I have also had deep discussions on important ethical-religious subjects, such as why monotheism has led to intolerance or how the Holocaust should help guide ethical behavior to prevent hate and violence towards others.  I have often found the ladies I have come to know well to be informed and thoughtful.

Politics? Well that is for another thread.

The key point here is that at times I have formed deep relationships with women where we have discussed many things indeed.

is one or both of us screaming "Oh God, Yesss!"

Quit talking and put your money where your/her mouth is

I find that religion and the hobby work well together!

I've never understood why the topic of religion needs to carry the burdon of guilt, but topics of sin don't... Why are so many people afraid to talk about God? It's not as though you can hide from him simply by not discussing him! And for the atheist, why typically is it so uncomfortable to discuss something that you don't believe is real? It seems most people can openly discuss any world religion that they don't believe in themselves without apprehension, but if "Christianity" is brought up, then then they, either feel hostile or guilty, why is that???
 

I have been known to call upon *God* (or a higher power if you will...) during certain times during a session... ~

And for me, sex is a part of my spirituality...so I speak it in one form or another during every session.

xoM

I just tell her I have the "Key To Heaven" and she has the "Lock"

Re:Religion chit-chat during sessions.

New at this and after reading reviews here I finally contacted a delightful lady.  A big downer, however, was getting unsolicited views on politics, religion and a graphic description of what happens in an abortion of a fetus at 10 weeks.
 My socialization has been to let someone finish talking and then politely change the subject.  Someone mentioned in another post about the hobby being empowering, which is true for me.  This kind of talk has the opposite effect, however.  More like a hostage situation.  MMDV (My mileage did vary).

I once had a provider tell me she was a church secretary just before she went down on me. Kinda kinky--I kinda liked it.