Well, if it wasnt for my friend and your  dear friend Betty, She saved someones ass tonight.

Men- PLEASE REMEMBER TO CLEAR YOUR EMAILS FROM AND TO ESCORTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why would you save them !?!?!?!??!

Men- Please remember to clear all history trails on your computer ! WHY WOULDNT YOU!?!?!?!!?!?

If using IE- Turn off Autocomplete !! Disabling AutoComplete. This is when your wife is searching for Hyatt maybe, and your wife sees someone was looking for Heidi escort in Kalamazoo.

To disable AutoComplete, goto Tools, Internet Options... and select the Content tab. Press the AutoComplete button and uncheck the boxes. Press OK and then select the Advanced tab. Scroll down and just above the HTTP1.1 settings are two more checkboxes for AutoComplete

There is no need to keep emails from us, same as there isnt a need for us to do so.

Ive gotten 3 emails from women this past week. One posing as a wannabe escort in Meadowlands area, the others basically the same. I  dont answer them back. THanks to Betty for saving my ass on this one. It almost sounded legit til I emailed my thoughts to her first.

Dont be stupid and dont EVER think anyone else is.
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And dont pm me. I dont do vip..Email please if you are responding to this.



-- Modified on 1/4/2006 5:12:50 AM

...I like to go to the very edge of monumentally stupid...and jump.

see gals that are email only (with rare exceptions) so this isn't a problem for me.

hee hee.....   actually - everynow and then it is a good idea to clear everything even if you are not married... you never know who is snooping your computer....  it could be those who wish to thwart all evil doers..... and evil doing.... hee hee - including one's head!  

-- Modified on 1/4/2006 7:20:32 AM

Almost every escort I know has faced situations like this - the dreaded phone call from the irate spouse. A close friend of mine actually had the woman show up at the front door of her house - it seems that the pissed wife had hired a P.I...

As escorts, we will do EVERYTHING in our power to try to cover for our clients when this happens, but clients also have a responsibility to do their part, as well.

I've been working on an article about this very topic, but it's not quite done yet:

http://sex-work.org/pages/clients_corner/not_getting_caught.htm

If anyone has anything else that they think should be added to it, please drop me an email.

Morgan

I as well have one written in my yahoo group somewhere.. Its a  2 party system. You want me to be discreet.. you be discreet too.. You want me to be safe... you be safe too..

A wife emailed me asking questions about her husband emailing me. I cannot remember exactly what she stated in her email, but fortunately I read through her like a sieve. I responded by telling her I had no idea what she was talking about, but perhaps her husband was researching something and my site came up by accident. I also told her that my daughter (I don't have one, of course)has been told not to mess with my computer because she has done some pranks in the past, etc., etc. You get my drift. Anyway, I straightened it out but it was annoying and frightening. I always use this option button on my computer and erase my history before leaving to go outside the house or at the end of the evening before retiring to bed. Thanks for bringing up such a great subject, Ciara. Wink! Whoa! I feel like I'm thanking myself. I meant CiaraHasFun. :}

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 1/4/2006 12:19:23 PM

And, when going on redezvous - be sure to put your car where it will not be seen!  Make sure you have good cover - late night dinner meeting that actually does take place...etc.....

cash withdrawals - have some way to cover the withdrawal..... without arousing suspicion...  if you travel for work... hide extra cash there and chaulk up the withdrawal to business expenses.... etc.

ya gotta luv us...  we are actually little boys with adult toys....  hee hee....  or at least that is what we keep telling ourselves....

Guys, take some of the great advice in this thread.  Also, it pays to have a 'story' regardless of the precautions you may take.  Here's a real situation that happened to me recently:

I was seeing a particular lady for over two years.  Over that time I of course shared many details about my 'real life.'  Innocent things.  Trips I had taken, hobbies, experiences, etc.  Of course we also did many things 'off the clock' like dinners, movies, and the like.  Now imagine my horror the night a call came to my home phone (which I had never used to talk to her) from her SO who proceeded to discuss my 'affair' with my wife for over an hour!  Needless to say that was a very uncomfortable time for me.

So, bottom line - have a pretty darn good story ready and waiting should you ever get confronted.  I was able to cast enough doubt on this situation to not get caught - but I'm sure my credibility has been damaged should something else come to light.

Having a gf stay with me for a few days very soon, and as she'll likely be using my pc, need to clear/ lock a few things:

1) When I type "t" in the browser, TER automatically autocompletes!!! (yes, it's my favorite "t-beginning site") -- did disable autocmplete under tools; the Http1.1 settings on XP under Advanced didn't have an option for autocomplete on/off

2)  Have various photos of me scantily clothed, nude and some sex pics with a fave client with my alias name, of course, in My Photos.  How do I create a file that is locked/ password enabled only?

Many thanks!!  My prim/ proper/ conservative gf would die if she saw this (much like an SO)!!

on the planet... or at least gullible.  When married - I DID NOT HOBBY!  so what was my great sin...??  keeping pictures of playmates around... and reading Playboy and Penthouse.... go figure.  She wants a divorce - and gets it - I did not contest it....  to move out - and only 2-3 months after I move out... Voila - boyfriend and a boyfriend muffin in the oven....!!!  Talk about S.T.U.P.I.D.  Me not trust anyone now....  

which makes me perfect for this hobby...  Hey - think my ATF has sex with another guy?  wanna bet on that?  hee hee!  see  - it works out perfectly!

And be careful where you keep those condoms! My wife 's tubes are tied, so getting caught with condoms would be equivalent to shall we say, an admission against interest. They live a case that *only* leaves my office during playtime. Also leave your wedding ring in the ashtray of your car. Even if you forget to put it back on, you can always claim you were under the hood and didn't want to lose it.

Hobby safe,

pbroaddog

 do you remember the exhilaration of that beautiful freefall, or just the ugly "Splat" at the bottom? A wise man once said, the definition of stupidity is "Committing the same error over again, and expecting different results!" We're supposed to learn from our mistakes. Lol! Of course, some of us just don't give a shit!

...there hasn't been an ugly splat yet.

BUT stay tuned for news at 11.

) When I type "t" in the browser, TER automatically autocompletes!!! (yes, it's my favorite "t-beginning site") -- did disable autocmplete under tools; the Http1.1 settings on XP under Advanced didn't have an option for autocomplete on/off

Its there. Look again

Make a folder, put secret stuff in.. hit properties, hit hidden..

To unhide it later.

My computer
tools
folder options
view
show hidden folders * hit it *


-- Modified on 1/4/2006 9:42:15 PM

Turn off the ability to "switch users, then create a new user just for your visiting GF. Tell her its 'just for her'. make it seem special. Assign her a password and lock it so she can't change it. Change your own password to something she will NEVER guess... substituting numbers for letters in long words works well... example use Er0t1cr3v13w for you password while she is visiting... notice I subsituted numbers for vowels. Log in using her user namd and password before you remove her from the administrators grouop, and set up simple internet access, and little else. Then add her to the users group and remove her from the admin group. A word of caution, if you are using XP Home, any new user by default is an administrator.
Then, make sure anything you have saved for yourself is under the c:\documents and settings\your_user_name\My Documents folder or below... and she won't be able to even see this folder with simple Users rights. And, she will have her own "copy" of Internet Explorer without your bookmarks/favorites and history.

I just had a wife, who apparently just received the phone bill, call me up demanding to know who I am & why her husband was calling me so much!

Well, here's a tip if you don't want your spouse to see any forbidden phone numbers listed on your cell phone bill------>call your voice mail & use the "call back" option for one of your messages, but change the number (it should be an option) before it dials.  This way, the only number that shows up on your account activity is your voice mail.

If you don't have that feature on your voice mail, you can buy a calling card.

Above all, please be CAREFUL!! Have a NICE Day!!

key to my heart....
key to understanding
key note...
keyed up....
key of c-major...
key largo...
Key, Francis Scott
Key -stone state...



-- Modified on 1/5/2006 7:59:12 AM

You could be sweet, and create her own profile "just for her", and then password protect your entire ID.  Control panel; user accounts.

Remember
Innocent people have nothing to hide.. first thing she will think is

What is he hiding

Personally, mine is like that because I edit adult video, and have a computer literate child in the house.  Probably tough to top that as a good excuse (esp if it has to be true), but it's worked for me, although it did raise an eyebrow at first.

I've read some to say they should take their wedding ring off for their appointments with a provider.  Trying to figure out why?

Get another computer.  One that you take out when company comes.....  that way nuttin is there to accidentally get discovered....   With kiddos in the house... I bought them computers - keep mine locked down and viola - instant security... oh, and why would they not be trying to get onto my computer ?  Cause their computer is the latest and greatest - mine is old news....

Expensive - but it is peace of mind.

Buy Stopzilla. You can set it to delete cache, history and cookies upon every shut down. It's also a pop-up blocker. I have it and it does a good job, altho some popups still get passed it. Not many. But for what you want it for, it's ideal. http://www.stopzilla.com/

I installed WindowsWasher, a "scrubbing" product from Webroot.  I use it at home and on my office 'puter and like it a lot.  You can also set the level (depth) of the "scrub" ("bleach" yo remove all digital traces) and set the program to "scrub" every time you exit your browser.  Works for me!

Not keen on seeming so clandestine with the other username/ password, as it does raise a flag; and might want to show her personal pics, etc under my own real username.

Will prob hide my private pics, provider bio, and all the other X sites in a new hidden folder.

And still "TER" is coming up every time I type "T" in the browser!!  Surely she'll type in Time or Turks & Caicos and be repulsed.....!!  Will call tech support.....

I have had 3 women call me up
I give them a fictious website and tell them I sell an assortment of things at the flea market.