if you're what I call the "typing TER billboard" please don't reply as I don't care to hear your promotion of TER.. yes I know it's "great"  and we should stick to reviewed ladies (as if those reviews can't be fabricated, manipulated, or influenced somehow)

some providers think it's ok to misrepresent themselves by advertising either fake pics or pictures that were taken when they were prom queen. It's not Ok. What's worse is  the client who actually - true story - pays the girl a "cancellation fee" for cancelling on the girl due to her actual description not matching the girl from the photos when he meets her. This was AFTER having driven for hours to see this girl. People like this guy need to grow a pair. If she willingly decided to trick you into seeing her then the last thing she deserves is your money.  

even reviewed girls aren't exact representations of their advertised photos using the same photographs month after month, year after year. providers, is it really that hard or expensive to take recent photographs of yourself? How much money do you make? How much of that have you spend on new hoes? How about new photography of yourself?

Here's a tip: pretend your an editor at a glamor magazine and you need to have new content prepared MONTHLY or else you'll lose readers. The more new content you can churn out on monthly basis, the happier your readers will be. Get the picture? And if you're aging and don't feel recent photos will do you any justice, then hey, that's just the nature of beast. hope you've saved your money!

This has fun written all over it.

I still have dibs on the beer and popcorn concessions from the "Realistic Expectations" thread.

And you show up with some excellent advice.

I do...I DO !! and Existentially speaking...

In the spirit of what your talking about.

This is one of my pet peeves as well.

On average I receive about 37 to 50 applications a month. On our website we state very clearly what our requirements are. Especially the part about NOT being interested in those with previous experience.

Eliminating the independents who apply anyway and speaking "strictly about the one's who have no experience", about half of those women send me photos which clearly fall into the "misrepresentation" of reality category.

My favorites are the women who were Penthouse / Playboy or *gag* Hustler hotties ten years ago and are still trying to hump that lame horse. In such cases something Eminem said seems rather apropos "You're too old, let go, nobody listens to techno.."

Then we have people in our industry who if it wasn't for Photoshop they wouldn't be in business. Yes it's my personal value system however I don't care what business you're in, one must have integrity. Which is why other than hiding faces for security reasons and identifying marks (like tattoos) we don't photoshop. What you see is what you get and in my model of the world that's the way it should be.

If anything your post is a commentary on our society. In a twisted sense one would expect this behavior from providers "as a group". But almost half of the the never been in the business women coming through our door, basically lie from the get go.

Existentially speaking... what does that say to you ?


Sincerely,


Lee Dreams
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and while I personally think you (Lee) sometimes takes some of these commentaries for a bit of a marketing spin, I do appreciate the rest of the spin. Especially on this one. There is nothing original. The hobby/provider world really is a microcosm of civvie life if we look past the veneer of P4P.

a resume. Just, we seldom get caught, while the provider's paddy is very soon apparent.

Yes Sir...get right on that. I will have to start booking a photographer on a monthly basis to get some new material. Now, while your giving away valuable tips,...any suggestions on what type of images you'd like taken? We are here to please!!!

Or will camera phone images suffice? You let me/us know so we can hurry off and get it done.

I agree...DO NOT PAY THEM!!@!!!!!!!!

Ugh- totally hate that ladies do that! It makes it very difficult as a legit and upfront provider to convince hobbyists that my pics are real and that I am who I say I am. I take all my own pics but that is because I'm an erotic photographer and super picky. Tho running back and forth from camera (on a timer) to pose a million times makes me dizzy to say the least. I totally agree that having pics that are well representative of you is very important in this biz. Why deal with the stress booking out your time when they will walk away when they see what you really look like? Not me!

Is Lee saying all the escorts on the site do not have any experience at all and at least 50 are banging down the door each month to be taught by Lee?

won't hire a girl that does have experience, especialy indies since they want to get on the site so bad and they are not welcome or appreciated?

Yet can honestly offer an experience that is totally fulfilling to all mens fantasies when the "newbie" ladies are brand new and just getting into being a hooker?

then gives his web address? first I've seen an agency do on the GD board.

sarcasm. you would think it has gotten old by now.

it's your type of attitude that gives your industry a bad name. If you haven't taken a look see, you will see how cheap your industry appears for the most part. Your profession can be romantic  and prestigious. but it's not even close. it's the red light district on pixels.

how many manicures a month? how about shoes? do you know how many photographers there are out there who are willing to take your photos for next to nothing, if not nothing? have you even bothered to really look into the matter or are you just afraid the real you won't pull in the bacon?

your running a fuc@king business. act like it.

Who hasn't dreamed of making a date with that ultrahot PSE on EROS, only to get there and see the she more closely resembles a warthog!  Odds are, one of these ladies is really going to look like her pics at some point.....even if she is an under cover vice cop.
It's the fun of the hunt,the unknown, the randomness, the trying to make chaos orderly.  You seem too worried about actually getting what you paid for!
Get with it man!  This isn't about fair, or right, or false advertising.  It's the game, man, the game.  Don't use TER, only use EROS, and only pick ladies you have never heard of, or whose pics have been the same for 5 years.  It's a sporting event, not matchmaker.com!

He was talking about driving to a long distance only to open HER door and find the B & S.

No chance for a "peephole" to save the day.

Oh and "How far do these girls think they're going to get by using fake pics in the first place? It's the worst possible business decision period."

The answer? Millions and millions are made each year doing exactly just that. Please stop the niativity.

"women coming through our door, basically lie from the get go."

Is that from beginning to end girls lying? Pretty sad commentary.

Working for you might be a strain to "Eat, Drink and Be Merry".

If a ladie opens the door and she isn't comparable to her pics I MAY BOLT.

It wouldn't work for the 'behind the door' lurker.

Reviews don't always help with fake pics unless it's gross misrepresentation. I think having reputable AGENCIES that have their own photographer would be a solution, but the legal climate in the US is not very conductive to that.

"That's what they make peepholes in doors for." Peepholes are unidirectional.

There was no sarcasm at all. I was asking your advice...sheesh. Although monthly does seem a little much if nothing has changed. We are here to please and this is what I get for trying to do something someone suggested.

Oh and I am doing fine thank you for asking. You have a great day cliet77 and take it easy...I was only trying to make my business better with your sage advice.

I have a whole new attitude on this board and am trying to be more agreeable and give the men what they want...what's wrong with that?

I think that we all belong in this red light district on pixels..you included as you are a willing participant as are we all. And I agree wholeheartedly that current and tastefully romantic images are a great idea...

maybe you can find some of which you speak so us ladies can get a good idea and do something about it? Sorry you're in a bad mood and that you took my post the wrong way. Must be my bad.

Now Sins, client77 does not like the use of sarcasm...he has a valid point and I have very respectfully asked him to give us ladies some examples of what he likes and while he is at it...maybe point us toward some very lovely photographers that we can use...what do you think?

no worries.