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Dude! That link is so foul!
GaGambler 1025 reads
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but RT actually makes a valid point for a change, and if this had come from someone besides a known troll people might have taken this more seriously.

The "trap" for many escorts, strippers, drug dealers, or even bartenders who make quite a bit of money at a young age is that they always feel they can fall back on it, and they do think "why should I suffer at a low paying job?" Many people who make this kind of "easy" money at a young age also think it will last forever with the typical arrogance and feeling of immortality that come with youth.

I would suggest that you forget what a board troll RT (both RT's actually) is, and consider what he's saying, I doubt the "young ladies" are going to see this in themselves, but I bet some of us "old folks" will.

Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 2682 reads
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2 / 53

Ya know I was talking to a neighbor today (blah, blah, blah).  Whether was quite enjoyable so we enjoyed a few hours outside:)

But as he was telling me his story we both came to the mutual conclusion that some temporary suffering in life is necessary for success.  Believe me I know because my first boss I wanted to kill.  But now I owe that little Nazi fuck a big thank you.  Had it not been for him I would have stayed in that shitty job for far too long.  

And as I am wont to do it occurred to me "how many Providers are missing out on future opportunities by not struggling enough in the present".

Allow me to give you an example:

Take a 21 year old gal who is working as a waitress, living with 3 roommates and driving a 10 year old car to pay her way through (insert you school of choice here).

By the time she is 25 or 30 will she not have more fortitude, courage, strength of character and dare I say it intelligence (shhhhhh!) than a Provider who makes easy $$$ while sleeping around?  

Freely spending $$$ because she knows she can pick it up next week.  Thinking the Hobbiest will always want another taste (sort of like a drug dealer thinks about the addict - hmmm, interesting).  

Knock it all you gals want but there is something to be said for Strength of Suffering.

Something to think about ladies.  

Have you suffered enough?

 
RT

ResidentSmartAss 810 reads
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4 / 53

Ladies, if you feel you're not getting all the suffering you need, have we got a deal for you!!!!  The unabridged thoughts of ridgetucky in a classy coffee table book, complete with illustrations.  If you act now you can get the companion audiobook narrated by Ridgetucky himself!!!

Or you can schedule a date with him and get all this torture out of the way in one immersion session.  

smh

 

 
Posted By: Ridgetucky
Ya know I was talking to a neighbor today (blah, blah, blah).  Whether was quite enjoyable so we enjoyed a few hours outside:)  
   
 But as he was telling me his story we both came to the mutual conclusion that some temporary suffering in life is necessary for success.  Believe me I know because my first boss I wanted to kill.  But now I owe that little Nazi fuck a big thank you.  Had it not been for him I would have stayed in that shitty job for far too long.    
   
 And as I am wont to do it occurred to me "how many Providers are missing out on future opportunities by not struggling enough in the present".  
   
 Allow me to give you an example:  
   
 Take a 21 year old gal who is working as a waitress, living with 3 roommates and driving a 10 year old car to pay her way through (insert you school of choice here).  
   
 By the time she is 25 or 30 will she not have more fortitude, courage, strength of character and dare I say it intelligence (shhhhhh!) than a Provider who makes easy $$$ while sleeping around?    
   
 Freely spending $$$ because she knows she can pick it up next week.  Thinking the Hobbiest will always want another taste (sort of like a drug dealer thinks about the addict - hmmm, interesting).    
   
 Knock it all you gals want but there is something to be said for Strength of Suffering.  
   
 Something to think about ladies.    
   
 Have you suffered enough?  
   
   
 RT

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 838 reads
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5 / 53

Whether is becoming established, screening people, being afraid of LE, dangerous guys, abusive people, other girls who bully them, fallen appointments, fear of being caught...
If all the above doesn't build character and strength.. I really don't know what does..  
And by the way... some of us are also paying our way through school in a more non traditional way (providing a service to the fine gentlemen in this community).. In my case I am paying my way through grad school...

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1037 reads
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6 / 53

and shitting threads.. That is your forte.

Here is the thing. A lot of providers have already gone through a lot of emotional, and even sometimes physical trauma. Some of them end up being here (in the business) because of the trauma in the first place.  Yes, some of them come from a balanced, happy family, but a lot of them don't and already have baggage they are dealing with.  

We all have some struggles, some trials and tribulations we will face in life, at some point...I know I have my own.. I knew a gal back in the day who had her mother in mental institute. Tell me that's not hard on someone.

-- Modified on 3/10/2014 11:14:13 PM

GaGambler 957 reads
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7 / 53

As Curly pointed out, his forte is posting about shit and piss, and his other posts are usual simply troll posts without any merit at all.

This post, while it may trivialize the other challenges your chosen vocation comes with, does have at least a basis in fact that might have been better received if anyone but the OP had made it. It would still be received rather harshly from most of you ladies that  have quite a bit of life experience and rightfully resent anybody claiming that you "had it easy" but it does accurately depict at least some hookers lives. We all know the "party girls" that spend everything they make on Chanel, Versace and Jimmy Choos. They may not be the majority here, but it would be less than honest to claim they don't exist.

inicky46 61 Reviews 838 reads
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9 / 53

Second, I call bullshit.  What about the girls who are using the money to pay their college bills?  There are lots of them.  Not all young hookers are as dumb as you think.

nahtynikkey See my TER Reviews 829 reads
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10 / 53

Wait...you actually think that a boss that was too hard on you was a "struggle"....lol, poor man. Just because a provider currently is making good money(or maybe she isn't, and is still struggling, but less than one would working a 9-5), does not mean that she has never been through any down's or struggles in her life. I entered the hobby at age 24, and had already been through more trials and tribulations than some people will ever encounter in a lifetime..by the age of 30, that had doubled.  

Those who are handed money and never have to work for anything, are the one's who miss out on life's trials and tribulations...which are actually necessary to build character and teach one life lessons..without them, one will be stuck in the mind frame of a teenager forever.  
Posted By: Ridgetucky

   
 But as he was telling me his story we both came to the mutual conclusion that some temporary suffering in life is necessary for success.  Believe me I know because my first boss I wanted to kill.  But now I owe that little Nazi fuck a big thank you.  Had it not been for him I would have stayed in that shitty job for far too long.    
   
 And as I am wont to do it occurred to me "how many Providers are missing out on future opportunities by not struggling enough in the present".  
   
 Allow me to give you an example:  
   
 Take a 21 year old gal who is working as a waitress, living with 3 roommates and driving a 10 year old car to pay her way through (insert you school of choice here).  
   
 By the time she is 25 or 30 will she not have more fortitude, courage, strength of character and dare I say it intelligence (shhhhhh!) than a Provider who makes easy $$$ while sleeping around?    
   
 Freely spending $$$ because she knows she can pick it up next week.  Thinking the Hobbiest will always want another taste (sort of like a drug dealer thinks about the addict - hmmm, interesting).    
   
 Knock it all you gals want but there is something to be said for Strength of Suffering.  
   
 Something to think about ladies.    
   
 Have you suffered enough?  
   
   
 RT

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 899 reads
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11 / 53

You, your neighbor, and probably your country cousin as well have the wrong understanding of that suffering for success thing. So forget everything you know except what you learn here on the board and you'll be wiser.

Start with Curly's post on this thread. Already read it again? Good! Now go back and read it one more time. Let this be the first lesson on your education about "suffering for better understanding."

And no lip, fool.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 747 reads
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13 / 53

is that just because providers make relatively easy money sleeping around, that their life is void of any struggles.  And I disagree with that statement..

And you are 100% right that they should make wise decisions with the "relatively" easy money. Save it for retirement.. Invest in education instead of just blowing it off on stupid stuff..  

Tucky is struggling with words here.. Usually he is pretty smooth. Especially when he posts about pissing and shitting stuff...

Cosette 948 reads
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14 / 53

that would get us into a philosophical discussion on what amount of suffering is ok, and well that would be depressing...

Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 965 reads
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15 / 53

that job I had with the Nazi fuck.  After a couple of years what I learned was this..........

1/2 of the situation was my fault.  

I was not detail oriented and I did not exhibit enough enthusiasm in the workplace.  That made people think I was lazy and/or did not like the job.

So when I tried to transfer to another department within the same company the HR person gave me some good advice which I will give to you.   (VERBATIM - WHICH MEANS WORD FOR WORD)

CLEAN UP YOUR REVIEW

Got it?  Good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 738 reads
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16 / 53

no shitting on Providers for me.

Let me tell you I am on a high fiber breakfast routing.  Oatmeal with raisins/trail mix.  

The dumps I take in the morning are FUCKING HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE.

If I shit on a Provider she would drown in a sea of shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

RT Out

GaGambler 817 reads
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17 / 53

No, of course there are two sides to everything, and early success is definitely one of them.  Like you I was just pointing out the one side of the discussion, Since RT is such a well known troll, it appeared that the actual valid point he was trying to make was getting lost in the stampede to call him stupid, and just like the other RT, he reverted to form before the thread was over.

Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 603 reads
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inicky46 61 Reviews 764 reads
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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 995 reads
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21 / 53

A lot of people never find a profession that suits them. Those who make a good living early in life gain a confidence that strengthens them when moving on to other challenges. And many times those second challenges have less to do with making money and more to do with making the world a somewhat better place to live. I'm not looking for an argument, just suggesting that there's two sides to early success.

Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 949 reads
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22 / 53

My freshman year in college the Resident Director of the dorm would have these casual meeting/chats in his office.

He was a wise old Army veteran.  

One of the things he said was this:

"When people smarter than you are talking the most intelligent act you can do on your part is TOO SHUTUP AND LISTEN"

Is that clear?

IF NOT PUT IT THIS WAY YOU -----(YES YOU COSETTE)------- ARE THE PERSON THAT SHOULD BE LISTENING!!!!!!!!!!!  YOU COSETTE NOT ANYONE ELSE BUT COSETTE NOT SUZY NOT JANE NOT LISA NOT SAMANTHA NOT MARY NOT STEVIE NOT STEVIES SISTER  NOT MARY'S FRIEND NOT LISA'S COUSIN NOT SAMANTHA'S ROOMMATE NOT THE NEIGHBOR NEXT DOOR NOT YOUR FIRST GRADE TEACHER NOT THE WOMAN AT THE LUNCH COUNTER BUT COSETTE.  ok

RT

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 705 reads
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23 / 53

...Chicken Curry and Naan. I aint even opening anything shit related.. I don't want to see my dinner on my keyboard.. Coming from RT... I ain't opening it.. :D

inicky46 61 Reviews 810 reads
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24 / 53

I had a chicken dinner earlier, too, but even Tucky's link didn't make me lose it.  It is pretty fucking gross though.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 851 reads
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25 / 53

The gal who chooses to have no money crap apt crap car.
She is no happier or easy life than an escort.
One may need and crave being in that life.
No one is smarter stronger or any more valid than the next due to external choice of employment.
I know I just wrote out a budget a friend helped.
It was 3,500 a month.
And I am logging in a note pad daily money made and or spent.
I think to make more you have to spend more.
Plenty packs of magnum plenty pack durex , regular lube, anal lube.
Fresh clean linen for bed plus tons a towels. Cabs to pick up drop off laundry, cabs to thetapist, cabs to vet.
Its not easy.  
I took advice stupidly from a male. Whom is in different line work. To try and save.
I got jan feb an march rent plus utilities plus lifes expenses, wax supplies spray tans mani n pedi supplies. All of which I do myself ahain in my struggle to save or create a budget.
I ended up pulling a back muscle. And now am back to ground zero.  
So for me, this is hard work. I reap the reward of hard work by living in  1700 plus utilities high rise ocean front.
I eat awsome. Amd spend alit energy gettin petfect for the work.
I cant believe youd think this is easy. Kissing guys you dont know or like. You cant even begin to explain this job is way harder than any other.
And rightfully so we get paid alot because lets face it. Turn tables.. guys. Say your 36 amd a 67 lady with cracked heels and hairy scary, walks in , pummels you twists you in positions that all involve you basically having the impact of some one over twice your weight repeadedly pummeling you.
Then wprse. What if they stole some the money back before leaving, on you, then go slander all your hard work by saying you freaked over half the money yoy just endured hell for.
Like my most recent review. Here for two hours I got him to believe I foynd him truly endearing. Which I am master of duh.
Then he took some the puny donation back. After that then goes and twist it around. And guts will see that and say geesh.
I never claimed I was sore. I said dont wanna do appt. He begged an say. Let me help you as friend get some thibgs done you mention.
I felt a 160 fbsm for 100 was fair cobsidering ride help and 20 for coffee ab laundry.  
We end up decide 150'
He actually took 20 out wr had spent on coffee and laundry !!!
I get to target it 130 not 150'
And this was the longest tiring bj an hj ever. He now can go say whatver he feel.
And yay. I have to sit back and smule and this is not stress free or easy yoy are rude to think that eay. You guts forget we are acting. We are praying you cum in five sec then leave early cuz in a rush.
Trust n believe every appt is hell for all us. The guts let it go thier fat ego heads after u tell them they rock. This guy thibks its a breeze and we dont work hard like any one else. If not harder

Blowing Chunks 915 reads
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26 / 53

He must've joined when I was out of the hobby for a bit. It became clear to me he's a troll when he posted that stupid "would you help a provider commit fraud " BS.  I laughed it off and played along, but this post he made some sense and has a valid point.  

Kinda makes me think too cuz ever since life became a little easier, I 'fucked' around too much  (both figuratively and literally).  I'm just looking at my stocks half the day and trying to do less and less and less real work.  Hey, I like booz, I like gorgeous women, and I like easy money. Not doing much of anything anymore cuz I need to retire due to my old age of 30s.  

Maybe I should thank this troll for reminding me that I need to kick myself in the ass and get a job as a waiter at that local Chinese restaurant.   I'll take down some orders from Pamela, Angela, Sandra, Erica, and Rita for Mambo, I mean, combo #5.  

:

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 756 reads
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28 / 53

Inicky you're right. Most women that we tend to come in contact with in the biz are using their chest while playing chess. This is a larger part of the plan.    That is what the girl that is at Duke University is telling you. For most this is a means to an end.

Posted By: inicky46
Second, I call bullshit.  What about the girls who are using the money to pay their college bills?  There are lots of them.  Not all young hookers are as dumb as you think.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 642 reads
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29 / 53

See how easy it is and fun. It aint! But hell if it means I can make 3 month rent and foid in less than 2 week if I do feel so inclined. Which is well over 6 grand. I may be down for cpunt few weeks after duh but hell. I wouldnt quit this for a job working for less or down grade my living style and shopping habits.  
But good thigh highs ate 50!  
Yes thigh highs!  
Until this god forsaken site was part my carreer. I was better off, I didnt even know what agent provoca hoo was.
Now instead ov a work ensemble for 100 its 600
And finding discreet hotels or incall locals.
The thpusands you piss through gettin that one luned up. And sweat and work
Bet all ladies hete may have had ten or more incall appt in five yeats and that in itself is huge expense too.
Some mt clients seen me in over 7 diffeteadifferent incall appts in boston.
Had three in dorchester, now four on north shore since 2010
All that is work. Any job is work and for me.I dont make or work enough to build a savings.
Bills food rent. Done.
No eay am I taken extra calls to save.
Anything happens to me I will deal with that then .  
I manage to have nice apt but to do enough appt to actually save isnt possible.for me. And I am fine w that. Some peopke do this to get rich. To me its a luving. Its a way to make rent. I dont have strength to do any more than I do.
Nothin wrong with that eithrr
Plenty of people make just rent food and expense these days. Just cause Ihave an option to atress and make more doesnt nessesarly mean you have too.
I think I love most gettin to kinda loaf aroundvalot and do expensive hobbies. Gourmet cooking. Wow. That dam vita mix thing wad 500'  
Now I been dyin for cake mixer . Those are stupid expensive. I gotta ditch the gourmet cooking hobby and take up bowling.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 909 reads
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angelexotic See my TER Reviews 887 reads
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31 / 53

About sex or how to do this we also have hard time.
The more you study the artform better your " boss or bosses or slaves for that matter.
I find like for example offering greek. You work less. I advertised in particular last evening on bp I just eanted one out. Thats it. Dressed n ready livery pkates official limo driver on way. Really ! :-) being friendly and chatty is a plys sonetimes! So an out cancels. Too late I booked my limo ride and he is hete in two min. So I day cool no prob! :-)  
I post and the first caller calls we go marriot. Appt five min ! :-) this kid never did anal he was two sec! :-)
Then got the limo driver for a quickie and made tad more after we got hone.
And thats it 250 . Limo ride through boston. Both guts handsone dress nice , cool vibes, guys id like to hang with smart cute.  
Wasnt like work. And then had I not been as aggressive or no anal .  
Ypur job can at least for me it woyld be more work

inicky46 61 Reviews 887 reads
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32 / 53

I hereby rescind my "Welcome Back." You are a complete and utter tool. I hope you and RoddyTurdwell are very happy together.  It's no coincidence you both have the initials RT.
Out.

Blowing Chunks 751 reads
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angelexotic See my TER Reviews 822 reads
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34 / 53

We need the tiny extra hourly stipend to usr on attempting to regroup and recover after .
I know I take copious rest n relaxation recharge time.
You cant roll out bed ragged or tired lookin in this job like others jobs.
We have to spend alot our earnings.on up keep. Phpto shoot nice web site. Stayin in shape is dam expensive too. Wether you eat organic or not. Food thats cheap sucj

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 653 reads
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35 / 53

...when I consider how RT must view the women in the said life, I question his perspective. Now, I recently saw some rather absurd arguments by men on this board based on who had the most empirical knowledge of the private lives of hookers. I really don't want to revisit that kind of logic, and readily admit/brag/confess that my experience with P4P is much more limited than most men posting here. However... I question the validity of RT's point because I think early success a) cannot be a matter of choice, and b) is not a strong determining factor in future endeavors.

Everyone wants to succeed at what they do.
When a novice goes bowling s/he tries to score as many strikes and spares as possible.

Some people make wise career choices, and some don't.
And some have very little choice as to what they'll do.

Once on a career path, people will do as well as they can. Some will fail, some will make a living, and some will get rich.
That any individual would not give the effort his best seems foolish, but obstacles sometimes get in the way, and not everyone handles them well. And some obstacles couldn't be handled well by anyone.

So... Success or failure, early or late, is not totally in the subject's hands. It appears to be, it's treated as though it is, but the factors that determine one's fate is largely a matter of clockwork progression.

People with any sense realize this. Winners say things like, "I was lucky," and, "Things just worked out the way they did."

Losers, likewise, have sob stories of great unfairness.

In the end, of course, the winners have a lot more losses tallied up than the losers, but that's a different thread.

So suffering has very little to do with it really.
That notion initially referred to the artist suffering for his art, and soon became a subject of ridicule because it was misunderstood. What it meant was that to reflect life one had to know life, which meant knowing the painful aspects as well as the pleasant ones. You could as easily say that an artist must enjoy pleasure for his art. But that doesn't scan.

So I really think that RT's way of looking at the issue is skewed to begin with. That people get stuck in a profession because it pays off, for most people, is no tragedy. They labor at what needs to be done and at what rewards them financially. Very few people, percentage-wise, choose their careers with anything more in mind. They might come to Lomanesque ends, but that is just part of the clockwork started before they were born.

Tell a young person to go out and struggle but to not have too much success, and you'll get the same answer I'm giving you, only, hopefully, more succinctly

Blowing Chunks 718 reads
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36 / 53

Fortunately, I have a very strong stomach and there isn't much that can faze me.  

It's very nasty nonetheless.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 718 reads
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37 / 53

Try being nice to people and SUFFERING (rimshot) in silence.

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 821 reads
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38 / 53

Between growing up dirt poor, getting bullied all the time, eating nothing but rice for weeks during college, being in the USMC, and losing my child to a sociopathic ex, not to mention a recent stint at a fast food place (ugh!)  I think I've been through more suffering than just having a shitty boss.

Blowing Chunks 700 reads
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fanoftheo 771 reads
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40 / 53

He has a fucking lifetime subscription !!!!!

Did he really infer he was smarter than Cosette?

I think he is suffering from early onset dementia.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 923 reads
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MikeShanahan 941 reads
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42 / 53

"WHETHER was quite nice?" Yup you're an investment banker. Idiot.  

Posted By: Ridgetucky
Ya know I was talking to a neighbor today (blah, blah, blah).  Whether was quite enjoyable so we enjoyed a few hours outside:)  
   
 But as he was telling me his story we both came to the mutual conclusion that some temporary suffering in life is necessary for success.  Believe me I know because my first boss I wanted to kill.  But now I owe that little Nazi fuck a big thank you.  Had it not been for him I would have stayed in that shitty job for far too long.    
   
 And as I am wont to do it occurred to me "how many Providers are missing out on future opportunities by not struggling enough in the present".  
   
 Allow me to give you an example:  
   
 Take a 21 year old gal who is working as a waitress, living with 3 roommates and driving a 10 year old car to pay her way through (insert you school of choice here).  
   
 By the time she is 25 or 30 will she not have more fortitude, courage, strength of character and dare I say it intelligence (shhhhhh!) than a Provider who makes easy $$$ while sleeping around?    
   
 Freely spending $$$ because she knows she can pick it up next week.  Thinking the Hobbiest will always want another taste (sort of like a drug dealer thinks about the addict - hmmm, interesting).    
   
 Knock it all you gals want but there is something to be said for Strength of Suffering.  
   
 Something to think about ladies.    
   
 Have you suffered enough?  
   
   
 RT

MikeShanahan 903 reads
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43 / 53

"TOO shut up and listen," lol why you're really stupid.  

Posted By: Ridgetucky
My freshman year in college the Resident Director of the dorm would have these casual meeting/chats in his office.  
   
 He was a wise old Army veteran.    
   
 One of the things he said was this:  
   
 "When people smarter than you are talking the most intelligent act you can do on your part is TOO SHUTUP AND LISTEN"  
   
 Is that clear?  
   
 IF NOT PUT IT THIS WAY YOU -----(YES YOU COSETTE)------- ARE THE PERSON THAT SHOULD BE LISTENING!!!!!!!!!!!  YOU COSETTE NOT ANYONE ELSE BUT COSETTE NOT SUZY NOT JANE NOT LISA NOT SAMANTHA NOT MARY NOT STEVIE NOT STEVIES SISTER  NOT MARY'S FRIEND NOT LISA'S COUSIN NOT SAMANTHA'S ROOMMATE NOT THE NEIGHBOR NEXT DOOR NOT YOUR FIRST GRADE TEACHER NOT THE WOMAN AT THE LUNCH COUNTER BUT COSETTE.  ok  
   
 RT

inicky46 61 Reviews 756 reads
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44 / 53

Your pathetic rant at Cosette proves you are perhaps the biggest sick-o here.  Congrats on that.

ZoePiers See my TER Reviews 928 reads
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45 / 53

Posted By: GaGambler
but RT actually makes a valid point for a change, and if this had come from someone besides a known troll people might have taken this more seriously.

The "trap" for many escorts, strippers, drug dealers, or even bartenders who make quite a bit of money at a young age is that they always feel they can fall back on it, and they do think "why should I suffer at a low paying job?" Many people who make this kind of "easy" money at a young age also think it will last forever with the typical arrogance and feeling of immortality that come with youth.

I would suggest that you forget what a board troll RT (both RT's actually) is, and consider what he's saying, I doubt the "young ladies" are going to see this in themselves, but I bet some of us "old folks" will.

sophiaLA See my TER Reviews 1092 reads
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46 / 53

I was on a plane once and the flight attendant was trying to be sternly reasonable with a creepo who had clear issues about where his carry on luggage belonged. It ended like this…

FA: Sir all I'm trying to tell you is the lugga…
Creepo: SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! YOU THINK YOU KNOW BETTER THAN ME WHERE MY STUFF BELONGS? YOU LISTEN TO ME…LEARN SOMETHING LADY…(blah blah blah.)

RT Was that you dear?
Sounds similar to you losing your shit on Cossette. You are gonna teach her eh? She just needs to shut up and listen to you eh? Can you imagine having a real disagreement with him in person? I'd feel like I was in real danger.  

*slowly walking backwards towards nearest exit*  

Livewire.

About suffering: I read this entire thread so I must now have enough character to run the country. UHA! UHA! UHA!

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 583 reads
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47 / 53

...that we all go out and SUFFER. I don't know where I'll do that, but I suppose something will turn up.

2labman 26 Reviews 755 reads
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48 / 53

If you think providers should save their money since they won't be 21 forever, just say so.
If you think providing is an easy, safe way to make a pile of money and keep your self-respect, just say so.

Just leave the hate at home.  We don't need it here.

GhostWriteroftheDamned 677 reads
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49 / 53

He's a socially retarded, elitist pig dork; but he's got more money than God.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 815 reads
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50 / 53

And just like we all agreed on the very thing Dr. Phil can't do, we can't do either. Generalize one group of people into a bubble of life experiences, personal growth, where their hearts are at, and what life they've lived. A lot of ladies are here because life has handed them some tough times. Others are smart and take an opportunity when they see it to avoid unnecessary struggles. (Some struggles are unnecessary and can be avoided. That's being smart. Acting on knowledge to avoid massive school debt, pay down a house, get out of credit card debt, or recover from a bankruptcy can actually strengthen and build character as the person is creating these resourceful habits for the future.)

If you re-read what you said and what Dr. Phil said about escorts in a previous thread, they're polar opposites. You're questioning whether providers even have real life struggles, and Dr. Phil is assuming most escorts, if not all, have grown up in abusive or neglectful households. Let's say Dr. Phil is right, (and he isn't)... Then providers do would indeed have some struggles they've dealt with.  

At least you're discussing it and leaving it open ended because your inquiring mind simply wants to know, whereas Dr. Phil has set his (public) mind on his viewpoint and has made it a fact to himself.  

Remember, we all come from different walks of life. Some have lost jobs, been relocated, have had high expectations put on them causing them to pursue extremely expensive educations, etc. and are doing this to pay for those things. Some are doing this because they chose to and are perfectly happy with their choice in their career. There are ladies who are smart with this money, and some who aren't. Just like the general population. No matter how much you make, whether 30k/year or millions - each group of people have the ability to succeed due to good financial choices - and they also can end up going bankrupt because of poor money management.

There is not one person on this planet who has ever lived a life without struggles.

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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 622 reads
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Get his too TWO and TO right! Now DROP and give me TWENTY! ;)

ken_la08 1 Reviews 723 reads
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I know what you're trying to say, but you got it wrong.  I don't give advice though, because well, duh.

I will note, that what you and your neighbor were doing is aka as mutual mental masturbation - IMHO.

Plantation field slaves suffered a lot, but I don't think you're saying it created a great foundation for future success.  Under your theory, a lab monkey once freed is gonna really make something for itself.

Suffering is the wrong word.

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