Apologies if this has been addressed before.  Guys, I'd really appreciate it if you'd not comment because I would like to hear from the women.

I'm not the best-looking or most athletic-looking guy on the planet.  I've lost a lot of weight over the last year or so.  I'm still pudgy.  I'm working to lose the rest of the weight, but it's gonna be the hardest of the weight to lose.

I've seen pics of many, many stunningly beautiful women in the Cincy/NKY area (Tobi, Petra, Callie, Sidney Starr to name a few,) and I just wanted to get your views on seeing men who are nowhere near the Hollywood heartthrob level in terms of looks or build.

Good for you and congrats on becoming a healthier individual! Honestly I do NOT care about looks with my clients. I care about the type of person they are. I know many will say we do not care as long as we are getting paid, but not true. I always hope that I am meeting friendly, and respectful individuals. Walk into my room ready to have some fun, be happy to see me and the rest will fall into place.

 Honestly I can find something attractive in most people, men and women. If I meet someone for the first time and they are smiling, confident, and cheerful, I find that attractive.

 Keep up the great work and thank you for your lovely compliment.

That's what this hobby is for, and why you pay more for top hoes than attorneys per hour.  Girls are used to obese guys drooling and slobbering on them.  You think losing that last 8 pounds is going to make you attractive?  NO.  You still have to pay.  Eat more pizza & drink more beer.  You're not getting a discount or better service because you left the cheese off the burger.

You're a riot...and you honestly appear to believe your own drivel!

It's not based on looks. If you have a great personality than anyone's beautiful.

Plus I don't think us women go for all the looks, it's more you men who go crazy over who's beautiful or not

Dude, its the fatness of your wallet, not your stomach, that the gals care about. You havent figured that out yet????

at M&G's who musta weighed at least 500 pounds, you know the guys who cant  stand up straight and have to lean against cars or they'll fall down and wonder what goes on during a session, I figure the ladies must get on top and thats even if they can find the guys member

I have had some of the best sex, best dinner conversations, and most enjoyable times with very average looking gentleman.  (of course looks are merely subjective on my part, but you get the point....)  

Not to worry, just relax and enjoy yourself!

.....they'll treat you like George Clooney when you look like Dustin Hoffman.

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If you want to lose weight to get yourself healthy and live longer, then go for it. Do it for yourself.
But don't do it because you think the providers will like you more! As crude as you thought honeydoodoo's comments were, it is the truth!

While some providers may be picky, most don't give a shit what you look like. If you are clean, respectable, and have the proper "donation"

... the original poster's name is 'Dude'.

Calling him 'Mangina Boy' is stupid and infantile.

He's asking a legit and thoughtful question to the ladies of the forum.

If you don't like it... SKIP IT!!

Geez... what's wrong with you?

Serpius

... the original poster's question is dumb and infantile.

Majority of us (male and female) want to lose weight and bashing the ones that want to lose weight is thoughtless on your part.

When the ladies state in TER forums that they want to lose weight, do you bash them?

He's asking a legit and thoughtful question to the ladies of the forum.

If you don't like it... SKIP IT!!

Geez... what's wrong with you?

Serpius

I've only fucked ONE fat fuck and that fat fuck was a whole lot of fucking fun LOL!

I have amazing friends of all shapes and sizes.  I put much more value on how a person treats me than their size or aesthetic .  I would much rather spend time with a sweet, respectful & appreciative man who is 500 lbs any day, than a "hunky" guy with a 500 lb. ego.  I am only speaking for myself, but to me, your size is irrelevant.   It is much more important to me that you are kind and considerate.  Happy Hobbying and I hope you find someone who appreciates your inner beauty!

How many Brad Pitts do you think pay for escorts? A few, but not many which means we mostly see average or not so great looking guys. Who cares...we are not perfect either. Just because you pay us, does not mean we are somehow more worthy or attractive than many of you. We just put a tag on our ass.





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I have found that younger women are still much more interested in looks than those who have lived a little.

It's not really suprising though.

Civie women over the age of 30 do not care either.  I usually go for men who are average to pudgy.  Obese would be out for me but so is skinny.  Skinny is not attractive because then you have a guy's hip-bones digging into your thighs.  And if I want to feel like I am fucking a woman, well, I will fuck a woman.

So don't worry about it too much.  Just keep yourself happy and healthy.  Pudgy, bald, average, athletic...  women do not care as much about your physical appearance.

 

Posted By: CincinnatiGuy

Apologies if this has been addressed before.  Guys, I'd really appreciate it if you'd not comment because I would like to hear from the women.

I'm not the best-looking or most athletic-looking guy on the planet.  I've lost a lot of weight over the last year or so.  I'm still pudgy.  I'm working to lose the rest of the weight, but it's gonna be the hardest of the weight to lose.

I've seen pics of many, many stunningly beautiful women in the Cincy/NKY area (Tobi, Petra, Callie, Sidney Starr to name a few,) and I just wanted to get your views on seeing men who are nowhere near the Hollywood heartthrob level in terms of looks or build.

They just don't know what they are missing

It doesn't matter who you look like. Make sure you have bathed and have no funky odors. You have the donation ready to give. You are fine.

... understood that I was responding to HoneyDumbDumb, not you.

Serpius

Posted By: CincinnatiGuy

Posted By: serpius

... the original poster's question is dumb and infantile.

Majority of us (male and female) want to lose weight and bashing the ones that want to lose weight is thoughtless on your part.

When the ladies state in TER forums that they want to lose weight, do you bash them?

He's asking a legit and thoughtful question to the ladies of the forum.

If you don't like it... SKIP IT!!

Geez... what's wrong with you?

Thank you.

I guess I was in one of my moods when I posted.


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Posted By: meetkera

I've only fucked ONE fat fuck and that fat fuck was a whole lot of fucking fun LOL!

There are some hot hot men I have to say that I have had the pleasure of spending time with .
Some I have on my guest list to my M&G who are gorgeous I  have to have some of them sometime too. LOL! I have met some men who were  obese they were clean polite treated me with respect and dieting . Shame on you Boo for throwing stones This hobby is not for people who are piggish and who as you state drooling and slobbering you make people out to be something they aren't . Sometimes an undesirable person slips in who does describe what you mentioned but are not serviced and they don't return unless someone lowers her standards. Please don't berate someone who is losing weight . People who keep it healthy who care about themselves are attractive .  

Angela

I like seeing men who are at least someone in shape, you don't have to be exactly hollywood like, but out of the 300lb range is my preference. Good for you, lots of ladies see bigger men, so seek and you shall find.

In all honesty, a gents looks don't so much matter, than their personality, & how they treat a lady. I have found time & time again over the years, that the "average" guy is MUCH more respectful of women, compared to the gents who know they look good. The one's who spend half their life in the gym, & know they look good, are unfortunately usually a**holes(not all, but more often than not). The gents who can hold a conversation, are respectful of the ladies they see, & partake in good hygiene(regardless of their looks, or weight), are more appreciated than the latter.

Posted By: CincinnatiGuy

Apologies if this has been addressed before.  Guys, I'd really appreciate it if you'd not comment because I would like to hear from the women.

I'm not the best-looking or most athletic-looking guy on the planet.  I've lost a lot of weight over the last year or so.  I'm still pudgy.  I'm working to lose the rest of the weight, but it's gonna be the hardest of the weight to lose.

I've seen pics of many, many stunningly beautiful women in the Cincy/NKY area (Tobi, Petra, Callie, Sidney Starr to name a few,) and I just wanted to get your views on seeing men who are nowhere near the Hollywood heartthrob level in terms of looks or build.