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Do you think if there is discrimination or racism in escort services?sad_smile
marcogalindo 1674 reads
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I am looking for advice from an experienced gentlemen , I hope you can find a spot to help me. I am a 24 years old man and I am planning my next trip to Europe and I would like to have some great time with beautiful girls, probably in Germany and Netherlands.

I want to ask you if you consider if there is racism or discrimination in VIP or Top Escorts located in Europe, I am from a small country in Latin America and my skin color is in between black and white, you know I am like a typical Caribbean, Latin American man with black hair color, and 1.71 meters of height. I am not rich, but fortunately I have a good job, I god studies and currently I am working as an engineer in an international company.  

To be honest I really want to have a good time with this European ladies that are not common in my country and that otherwise I think it would be impossible to meet.  

Any recommendation and comment is welcome. Thank you in advance.

I was 20 when I started mongering. Now I am 40. So I got 20 yrs of experience in this world..

 
Like you, I am not white either. I am of East Indian origin.. So I can understand where you are coming from..  

 
Let me tell you something.. There is racism everywhere.. But in this day and age, in 2021, for every 1 that is racist there are 10 others willing to see you and accept you for who you are as long as you are clean and polite. So put on your rubber, and hobby on ! Don't worry bout all the other crap.

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Yeah I think you got my point, thank you very much for your advice sir.

Which countries are you visiting?   Also it isn't only tint level, many people react to ethnic characteristics.    
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There once was a touring "Latina" I saw here in Minneapolis.  Yeah, she was from South America, but her ancestry was from Italy.  

I am planning to visit Germany and Netherlands. I can say that I’m a typical Latin American gay (think on Mexico, Peru, Honduras) ,brown skin color, dark hair, 1.71 m of height.

Posted By: lester_prairie
Re: It's going to vary by country
Which countries are you visiting?   Also it isn't only tint level, many people react to ethnic characteristics.
Another good example of why TER Profile field "Ethnicity" (a very poor substitute for "color") needs to be replaced by TWO new fields: (1) Complexion using IMAGES NOT ADJECTIVES and (2) "Country or Origin"  or "Cultural Background" or similar.
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/suggestion-and-policy-4/a-frequent-complaint-ethnicity-versus-color-14989
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/suggestion-and-policy-4/is-complexion-too-complex-for-the-review-form-15848
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/suggestion-and-policy-4/rgb-cmyk-pantone--use-a-color-chart-13492
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/suggestion-and-policy-4/many-suggestions-choose-all-that-apply-14540
etc..

And it is also alive and well in the escorting world.  Just like entering any unknown in life, expect the worst and hope for the best.

And I ain't no gentleman.
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brwl139 reads

As others have said, you're going to experience racism everywhere.

My advice is, that if you want to be sure that you'll have a great encounter, and you fear that your ethnicity may be an obstacle.  Declare your ethnicity proudly when you introduce yourself.

I am a big older guy.  And I always include that information in my initial contact with a new lady.

If they have a problem with it.  Fuck 'em.  If they don't.  All the better.  Fuck them. :-)

Have fun!

Posted By: brwl
Re: Escorts are people, and sadly, some people are racists
 
Clients are people too, and sadly, some clients are racists too.

Of course. Racism and discrimination is everywhere.  I've been discriminated against due to a disability that I have . Plus I was told while I was in Atlantic City, NJ to go back to go back to whatever Country that I came from.  

I spent almost 30 years visiting Asia. As a relatively large white guy (6' 1", 220 lbs) I was always a bit of an oddity there -- they all thought I played rugby, especially early on when very few westerners had visited smaller towns and remote cities. I met PLENTY of Chinese, Korean, and Japanese ladies who would NOT sleep with a white guy, and I imagine perhaps even more of them would not sleep with brown/black guys. This was particularly common in the late 80s and 90s but seemed to change over time. Thankfully, there were MANY lovely Asian ladies who only saw my money, or perhaps found how I destroyed their language to be funny. ;)

You will be fine in the Netherlands and Germany.  Those are both very progressive societies and very accepting of other cultures, especially latino. There is some discrimination for middle eastern and african due to their cultural attitudes towards women from those areas of the world, but you should be good. My recommendation is to try the FKK clubs in Germany where the ladies only care about your euros.

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