Booking days, weeks and even months in advance? Seriously?

I don't know where I'll be tomorrow let alone next week. What's more, who says I'm gonna be in the mood come the time of a pre-booking.

Is pre-booking wise....not to mention cost effective?

only makes sense if one has a business trip, vacation or something that is planned well in advance also.  Yet, life happens...  the trip could be cancelled...  The boss might go...  so it can not be a solid booking.  I find 2 weeks for advance screening is enough.

Days or weeks, sure. If you want the best women AND you want a desired time slot (I prefer her first appt of the day. I don't like to follow any dudes, so to speak) pre-booking is a must for me.

I travel a lot on business and book out anywhere from a few days to a few weeks in advance. I'll give the provider a window of a few days  when I can see her. Then when I arrive in the city and my business schedule is all set, I'll contact the provider and set a firm day and time. Easy peasy

You are working with a regular or a few regular girls. I planned my schedule through mid March and I couldn't be happier and I am sure women appreciate knowing ahead when possible too. Especially with a regular.

Way in advance especially if I am looking for a certain girl and I want to make sure she is available. Otherwise stick to the girls that you can call in an hour and good luck you might only be the 6th or  7th guy that was there today.

It is also respectful of her time.

MM

A month is a bit much for me to take a guy seriously, because as you said shit happens. I normally ask for 2 days advance, because I won't do same day or last minute, but many providers will. How they screen, I haven't a clue, because it takes most hookers 2 or 3 days to even bother responding to refs.

If you can't commit to that, then perhaps you and her just aren't a great fit.

Hello there,

It really depends on what you want out of the session. If you are looking for an hour or two of playtime, yes that could be difficult, especially if it's driven solely by when you're in the mood.

I'm at the point where I'm booking 3-5 weeks in advance (due to only having one or two days a week free, plus travel). But I am booked mostly for evening dinner dates. There is an excitement and anticipation that builds over that and once together you will "get" into the mood.

Then again, if you are regularly horny, then booking an hour weeks in advance with someone you really want to see would still be fine. Most likely you'll just be horny- especially if you hold off for a day or two prior- plus, since it's someone you're excited for, it'll help mentally get you there.

But again, it all depends on the provider and what you're looking for and when. Lots of women won't book if it's a week or later. Some won't book if it's within a week.

Writing this I'm beginning to feel like the answer to every question on this board is "it depends." LOL.

Kiss me,

Kate

Months in advance is a bit much, but days and weeks, sure. It allows time to plan and anticipate the meet. I like to make sure I have plenty of time to get ready so I'm not rushing around, flustered before the knock at the door. Appts are also nice because we do have lives outside of providing. We may have plans or personal business to attend to. Some of us, live by a schedule, makes it easier for me . Spontaneous get togethers are exciting if we've met before and if there's enough time. If I've never seen you before, I defiantly need more time to screen.


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I generally try to book way in advance becasue my hobbying is always in conjunction with business travel which is planned at least three months before. Since I already know whom I want to spend time with,  I try to book as early as possbile in order to then  juggle meetings and flights.  It works for me and I am glad that I have special friends for whom that also works. Rarely have we had to cancel or postpone.

Sometimes, it's the opposite.  Meetings go over time.  New projects come up.  Shit happens.  In fact, mostly shit happens!  It is easiest for me to do things on short notice if I know about a change (cancellation) in my schedule that day or, maybe one day in advance.

However, when someone (either someone I've seen before or even someone new) is touring and gives several weeks notice, I do let them know that I might be trying to contact them during their stay and narrow things down to likely times.  I don't confirm anything until I know I can commit.  I sometimes miss out because their schedule fills up, but I don't want to mess up their schedule, either.

I prefer it if clients give some notice rather than on the same day, but to book months in advance is a bit much.

I am with you on this. I won't book that far in advance without a deposit...end of story. Guys who even book the day before are known to "get called out to work," or some other bs, so I don't take anything as gospel until they show up.