If someone offered you an all expenses paid(minus dates)trip to a M & G would you take exception to these conditions?

A whole floor of a Hotel would be booked for the guests. You all would be together.

You would need to share your name to receive the free airfare to the location.

The guest list would be by invite only.

Your host is verified "safe" but YOU have never met him/her/them.

Your host will make it very easy for you to date while at the M & G but wishes NOT TO KNOW what exactly is happening and between whom.

The M & G would be scheduled to last for two days and three nights.

You will be free to roam about as you wish but the host(s) would love your company for two evening meals.

Would these conditions be considered offensive?




Donald Trump

Others by 5th ... I personally would not get past 2nd.

It os one thing to stay in private house for few days for a MG arranged by hosts I know, but this scenario is a bit farfetched.

Plus, if host is unknown, who can say they are safe?

Lina

To answer in order:

Yes as long as I either knew the host(s) or they were fully verified.  

Why would I care if the whole floor, hotel, or every other room on three floors were for all the guest?  As long as I have a clean room I'm happy!  Oh and it's paid for?  Who could complain?

Again if the person if verified, it really wouldn't be different than them purchasing airfare for me to fly to them.  If someone had a problem with this option though you could always let them book their own ticket, and then compensate them once they have arrived at the M&G destination.  I would say send them the money prior but with recent events, always better to be safe than sorry.  Once they are there, have them show proof of cost of said ticket and compensate accordingly.  

A guest list is a guest list.  I am sure the host(s) would make sure there was a nice mix of gentlemen and ladies.  I also think it would make it a more intimate event which I'm all for

If my host(s) is verified "safe" is no different than verifying a potential client, so again not sure it'd be a problem.  Hell most the people I screen for my parties don't know me until they arrive

Good that the ladies can work should they choose.  But really, why would anyone want to share their scheduled appts before hand?  I don't see the point of them doing so.  Not like people are sharing rooms and have to make sure to schedule around one another LOL.  If the guys want to share pillow talk after wards over a cigar, no different than a review.

2 days and 3nights, sounds like a wonderful plan

Being that the host(s) are paying for my airfare and room, I don't think a meal a day is to much to ask by any means!!  I'd hope we'd do more than just eat dinner together.  Maybe bar hop, see a show, strip poker, something all together lol.

I don't see how anyone could take this offensive.  I think the biggest problem any one would have would be the ladies and that is sharing their name.  But again easily solved by letting them book their own airfare and compensating upon arrive to ensure you don't send money that won't be used for a ticket.

I love the idea personally, but maybe I am biased

You might need to sweeten the pot to get the high-end hottie to come, but you'd get some local takers. The only rub is whether there would be enough "date" revenue to give up three nights? The meal thing sounds a little too much like BS and most providers will likely take it that way.

was in a Philosophy and Ethics class, and I had to give an answer.

Interesting you should mention that. I haven't had any difficulty with the Hobbyists agreeing to this but the ladies......... What are your criteria for "High End"? I would be inviting those whom I would like to meet. My dollar.....my list.

Help verify me???? LMAO

The list would be comprised of an equal amount of Ladies to men. With even some "personal choices" thrown in by the men.

I'm toying with the idea that people could arrive and bail when they wish. Leaning towards it actually.

Strip poker at any bar(hopefully the one in my room)you wish dear. I have history with POK(her)er.

Some have taken offense.

Yes you may be greatly biased.

I am much too independent to commit myself with people I don't know ,for days.
Plus everything has a cost, except the  expensive lessons I learned for free.
In case this is a surprise contest,if airfare,lodging and food is provided for a trip  to Paris,or similar, I would have no problem  providing my ID.
PM me with further instructions.
 

These grandiose ideas you have are just too impossible to achieve in the real world.

If you want to host a party then get realistic and shit or get off the pot. Lay off the LI teas and put a definite plan together as opposed to a fantasy fest where you are the puppet master.

"Nawlins" will still benefit.

but if the previous condtions were not offensive, the last two words certainly are.

In his own words:

You're fired!

Not now. Not ever. Under no circumstances.

I stand corrected. Just keep drinking,creating alternate personalities,and dreaming of fantasy M&Gs(among other things) that will never happen.

I wouldn't be offended at all. Where do I sign?

But I do have one question. Hypothetically speaking of course. If this is 'all expenses paid' except for the dates, would that include bar tabs as well?

Because, Mr. Trump, if 'I' was invited I would think you would rather pay for my dates than my bar tabs!

Re: I wouldn't be offended at all. Where do I sign?

I guess there is a first for everything,... I would agree with MP. Sign me up. I think it "could" be a good time. Hypothetically of course.

Just kidding MP I actually agree with you sometimes.

I think it could be a blast!

Don't hear that very often.

And actually don't blame anybody for turning and running if they even FELT like they were beginning to agree with me!

BTW. 'Steelhead'? If you're referring about the boys in black and gold, oh yeah, we got more in common than you think...!

Who is doing the verification of "safety"? What is safe to one isn't safe to another.

My other observation is that I've done things VERY much like this (though not quite as long as the scale you suggest), and it might be harder to pull off than you think. The interpersonal dynamics between people and within groups can be quite challenging, even for people who are vetted as "safe", even for people you've spent extended time with and think you know fairly well. You know what? You probably really don't know them all that well... and so you'd better be prepared for If Things Go Wrong, or even Very Wrong.

I'm not so sure I'd characterize the conditions you're proposing as offensive so much as, well, naïve. A group vacation for a family or group of longtime friends often has times when people get out of sorts with each other... you're talking about people whose commonality is they either pay for play or get paid for play, and who are much less used to each other's idiosyncrasies than families or close friends are. So I think you'd better be very, VERY careful at how you plan this.

Just an observation, not intent to say you don't control your own action. I'd love to be there. I find the idea more than plausible.

Assuming I could travel -- which I can't. LOL

But it's the thought that counts.

careful now, ceo watches the boards.

(one finger waving proudly in the air) On my Hobbyists Honor I promise!!!!

and to think, I am the "smarter brother" lol

I would try REALLY hard to behave.

Or at least wait until the hosts go to bed!

Re: Could be? ...eom...

Would be

I travel well, clean up nicely, and play well with others!

I would not give up the equivalent of a long weekend when all I'm guaranteed in return is a mini-vacation.  If I want a vacation, I'll take one to a destination of my choosing.  If I want to be compensated for my time, I would not leave it to chance...

This sounds like a great thing for the guys (they get to meet a bunch of girls) and for the ladies who do not want to pay for their own vacation.... IOW, for those on either side who have no interest in dating.

If all that is asked in return is to share a few meals, why wouldn't the ladies bring their own SO's and spend all their time (other than the meals) out and about, or recreating with their SO? In doing so, the available pool of ladies to enjoy shrinks to those who are attending for economic reasons.

From an economic perspective, if a lady wanted to actually make money in a situation like this, she would essentially be in a bidding war with all the other ladies.  I can picture hallways turning into the upscale equivalent of a industrial track.  

If money isn't an issue (and given the parameters of this fantasy, it doesn't seem to be), then why not hand pick the ladies, pay them double or triple their rate for the time requested, and let the environment be either public or private play?  The ladies would be well compensated for the variety they'll be experiencing ("working" significantly more than if they were to spend a weekend with just one gent) and the gents would be assured of the reasonable availability of the lady of their choosing.  

The only downfall in the above scenario I see is that there will always be one (or more) gent who is randier than the rest and determined to make is rounds.... and at least one lady in higher demand than the rest (letting the others get paid the same for nothing more than drinking your champagne).  This is why the selection process would need considerable attention.....


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at ten o'clock in the morning??? lmao

Of course your and my definition of "good behavior" is probably much different than most. lol

11am, 1pm, 3pm, dinner, 7pm, drinks, 11pm, 2am, sleep. Answer your question?

And if an open tab was offered. Holy shit!

Might as well hang a half gallon of Crown upside down, with an I.V. straight into my veins.

Hmmm? Can they do that?

Re: I wouldn't be offended at all. Where do I sign?

I'll second that motion