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AnotherDonJohn 665 reads
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I adore your free thinking.

First, the next guy thinking he knows what you meant is like getting hit with lightning while jogging with your iPod. It happens- not often, but I'd does. Before this all happened, I'd love to see five guys read that long passage of yours and see how many of them conclude exactly what you just summed up.  

Second, there's no dumbing down about it. What you say makes a little bit more sense than what I gleaned from your actual original language. So I presume you thought about it a little more.  
For example, age was never mentioned in you original reply yet here is fkin grandpa, lapping at your rancid twat (to borrow your phrase). That's a whole other story if a 39 to guy like me is trying to lap at it and just says fk it, i paid ten bills and I do this all day to my SO. It's my turn. Or else I'd very much like a convenience fee from you for the mutual service, unless I give YOU a freebie. If I were a grandpa, feel free to surcharge me. Lol.

All in all, it's an interesting way to turn the system as it should be on itself. But then a lot of Mangina, as you say, want to pay a premium to daty a demanding GFE provider over a blowup doll.  

Get wet on your own time- you're a professional. Think of George Clooney. I don't give a fk how.  

 
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emsjhs20092512 reads

ladies--what do you think of a client who wants BBBJCIM but will not DATY?

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Cosette1216 reads

I'm half kidding, you're entitled to like what you like, paid or not

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MikeShanahan977 reads

But you're half serious?

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Cosette1051 reads

Yeah, half serious. In the case of this realm (yes I like to call this a realm), it doesn't matter, you deserve to get what you like. In terms of an encounter not in this realm, yeah, I would wonder if that person is a bit selfish in bed.

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AnotherDonJohn749 reads

But then outside this realm, girls don't get envelopes of cash ... Until later. Lol.

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TheHoundOfCullin889 reads

Nothing more annoying to me than a girl who thinks she can give a great BJ..
Then starts biting and sucking on my junk...

If you don't know what you are doing...
Don't do it. Or at least ask for help.

Same goes for the guys...

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Tobi Telford828 reads

It's up to you how you'd like to spend our BCD time together. Personally, I don't need DATY to get me in the "zone."

Posted By: emsjhs2009
ladies--what do you think of a client who wants BBBJCIM but will not DATY?

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HillaryLynk946 reads

if a client isnt into DATY  its no big deal to me.Not everyone enjoys DATY

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HooktardGold861 reads

To the OP, I would prefer those guys find a provider who is not GFE. Why pay 3 times as much when you can get a blow and go for 150 if you're not going to partake in the very thing you claim to want... a GFE. Guys like that also expect to jam their fingers in an unaroused vagina, or heaven forbid start pounding away with a condom that is drying it out even more.  

This might be news to some of you, but the vagina does not flow with wetness at the very sight of you walking in. It's like an oven, and needs time to heat up. Mess with that process, and you're not going to get the best time. Not all providers (myself included) use lubes. They cause irritation and sensitivity, just like some condom brands do.  We actually expect to get wet naturally, or we may as well stay home.

So, if a guy does not want GFE, don't pick a GFE provider... at least not one who has made it very clear of the type of guys she wants to even deal with. Not all of us are just after the money... sure, it's the main thing, but sex is so much more enjoyable when a man takes time to prime us up. I rarely see a gent a second time, who does not daty, but I have made exceptions for those who are just safety crazy on all levels... they insisted on cbj and no kissing either. Less than 5 guys out of I don't know how many.

 
Unless the guy is hot, a great tipper, and does everything else right, I would prefer not to see him at all. If I have to literally start playing with myself before he gets there to be sure I am wet, that's not exactly being paid for my time.

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Dr Who revived804 reads

You just blew up the reviews right here on good old TER.

I'd venture to say that 3 out of 4 discuss how wet a gal is...literally upon seeing the dudes old fat ass.  Wait...maybe it's right after he dropped his "donation" with that envelope.  But I don't use an envelope...you may recall  LOL

Seems that's why so many gals like this stuff....and most dudes have NO fucking clue.  Most are actually too fucking stupid  LO

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HillaryLynk955 reads

Hey those liquid beads actually look pretty cool.I have never seen lube like this and I just may have to order a box! Now that dosnt mean I dont get wet but the wetter the better right! lol

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Dr Who revived705 reads

You don't want to crush some male egos.

If you need some tips on how to get that squirting down...   ;)

Posted By: LillyLockHart
Hey those liquid beads actually look pretty cool.I have never seen lube like this and I just may have to order a box! Now that dosnt mean I dont get wet but the wetter the better right! lol

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HooktardGold749 reads

You would be shocked at how many providers use them, but I won't waste my time. If he can't get me wet, he can deal.

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ClamsCasino560 reads

I am not fat, nor old, when compared to a brontosaurus.  I am OVER your insults and negativity, officially as of today.

And btw, my gfe's get wet at the thought of me, even asking for photos so they can play with themselves between my visits.

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Dr Who revived828 reads

And the gals love animals as well.  Perhaps it's the tongue?

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AnotherDonJohn787 reads

Yes the whole point of the business is so you can come.  

It's a business model all right.  

T-yota would rather have sold cars to people who weren't so fixated on working brakes.  

"Unless the guy is hot and tips well, id rather not see him then."  

Hope guys are paying attention

But then only i know who you are.  

Lol. You are a piece if work.

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dontknowanymore609 reads

But I didn't read her post that way.  I took her meaning to be more like...she would make an exception for the non-GFE-ers if they were hot and tipped well for non-GFE service.  Otherwise....she likes clients that are there for a gfe session that will get both of them revved up...regardless of appearance or tipping practices.  

Maybe I misread it though...

 

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
Yes the whole point of the business is so you can come.  
   
 It's a business model all right.  
   
 T-yota would rather have sold cars to people who weren't so fixated on working brakes.  
   
 "Unless the guy is hot and tips well, id rather not see him then."    
   
 Hope guys are paying attention  
   
 But then only i know who you are.  
   
 Lol. You are a piece if work.

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HooktardGold749 reads

No sir, YOU read it right. If I have to deal with a guy who is ugly, I would prefer to get an orgasm and make up for that. If he is both gross and stupid, I will just stay home. Thanks for pointing that out to our dearest Don ha ha ha.

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HooktardGold777 reads

I posted IF he does not daty, I would prefer the latter, but I can come with just about anyone, looks withstanding. 3 out of 5 guys in the hobby, I have orgasmed with. They did not all look like Brad Pitt, but the willingness to get me off (not the overly forceful type mind you) I usually enjoyed being with.  

So, my point was, if a guy is disgusting and still does not daty, I would prefer not to see him. An orgasm forgives a multitude of sins lol.

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AnotherDonJohn737 reads

I pasted the relevant part and not the fluff about guys not thinking you need to get wet...
"So, if a guy does not want GFE, don't pick a GFE provider... at least not one who has made it very clear of the type of guys she wants to even deal with. Not all of us are just after the money... sure, it's the main thing, but sex is so much more enjoyable when a man takes time to prime us up. I rarely see a gent a second time, who does not daty, but I have made exceptions for those who are just safety crazy on all levels... they insisted on cbj and no kissing either. Less than 5 guys out of I don't know how many.  
 Unless the guy is hot, a great tipper, and does everything else right, I would prefer not to see him at all. If I have to literally start playing with myself before he gets there to be sure I am wet, that's not exactly being paid for my time. "

Lets reread it together, shall we?  
The emphasis is on being Gfe, to which you both applied your own definitions of gfe.  
Secret boy wants his provider to get off, to which the provider usually has to fake that he is not heinous and old, blah blah.  

HTG, you explicitly state that you require daty unless "he is hot, a good tipper, and did everything else right."
How am I sure I didn't read you wrong?
The key sentence is "I rarely see a guy a second time, who doesn't daty".  

How is this different from what I said in my reply? It's not.  

Don't get me wrong, you will cum.
But for you to think that if I hire a GFE provider with whatever I want to spend, that your dry pussy has to get wet, is presumptuous indeed. Excuse me, please pay me the 10$ then.:)

GFE doesn't equal SO. It amazes me when guys sign on to this paradigm too.  
But apparently they do, and it affects their ability to even read.  


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HooktardGold831 reads

I just find it funny how the next guy got EXACTLY what I meant even though both of you read the same post.  

Let me dumb it down a bit lol...

If a guy is both ugly and does not daty, I do not want to see him. If I am not attracted to him and he does daty to get me stimulated, bring it. Clear now? Great.  

There is no shift here babe... I am many providers have always felt this way... that a date with someone as old as my fkin grandfather is much easier to truly enjoy vs. faking it if he is into us in every way. Does a guy pay for that shit? Why yes, many do, and twice and thrice the going rate for a blow up doll. Why? Fk if I know lol.  

You said the idea of a gal having to be wet was the issue with my post... why? Care to bend over and let me shove a cucumber up your ass with no lube? I did not think so. Same principle, thanks.

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AnotherDonJohn666 reads

I adore your free thinking.

First, the next guy thinking he knows what you meant is like getting hit with lightning while jogging with your iPod. It happens- not often, but I'd does. Before this all happened, I'd love to see five guys read that long passage of yours and see how many of them conclude exactly what you just summed up.  

Second, there's no dumbing down about it. What you say makes a little bit more sense than what I gleaned from your actual original language. So I presume you thought about it a little more.  
For example, age was never mentioned in you original reply yet here is fkin grandpa, lapping at your rancid twat (to borrow your phrase). That's a whole other story if a 39 to guy like me is trying to lap at it and just says fk it, i paid ten bills and I do this all day to my SO. It's my turn. Or else I'd very much like a convenience fee from you for the mutual service, unless I give YOU a freebie. If I were a grandpa, feel free to surcharge me. Lol.

All in all, it's an interesting way to turn the system as it should be on itself. But then a lot of Mangina, as you say, want to pay a premium to daty a demanding GFE provider over a blowup doll.  

Get wet on your own time- you're a professional. Think of George Clooney. I don't give a fk how.  

 
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Papagayo622 reads

Cranky.....

Posted By: HooktardGold
To the OP, I would prefer those guys find a provider who is not GFE. Why pay 3 times as much when you can get a blow and go for 150 if you're not going to partake in the very thing you claim to want... a GFE. Guys like that also expect to jam their fingers in an unaroused vagina, or heaven forbid start pounding away with a condom that is drying it out even more.  
   
 This might be news to some of you, but the vagina does not flow with wetness at the very sight of you walking in. It's like an oven, and needs time to heat up. Mess with that process, and you're not going to get the best time. Not all providers (myself included) use lubes. They cause irritation and sensitivity, just like some condom brands do.  We actually expect to get wet naturally, or we may as well stay home.  
   
 So, if a guy does not want GFE, don't pick a GFE provider... at least not one who has made it very clear of the type of guys she wants to even deal with. Not all of us are just after the money... sure, it's the main thing, but sex is so much more enjoyable when a man takes time to prime us up. I rarely see a gent a second time, who does not daty, but I have made exceptions for those who are just safety crazy on all levels... they insisted on cbj and no kissing either. Less than 5 guys out of I don't know how many.  
   
   
 Unless the guy is hot, a great tipper, and does everything else right, I would prefer not to see him at all. If I have to literally start playing with myself before he gets there to be sure I am wet, that's not exactly being paid for my time.

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HooktardGold682 reads

You try peddling ass and never getting off, and see how cranky you are. Luckily, the men I saw, were pretty damned good at getting me off... one way or the other. If you suck in bed, your envelope is the benefit. If you are good, well hey... you rock. Sorry, you don't apply to the above, but that's really not my problem. I never dealt with insecure tricks. I like the assholes of the bunch, because they don't whine about dumb shit.

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Fancy8888961 reads

Escorts won't do BBBJCIM.Escorts don't have problem with hobbyists doing DATY.

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perfectstorm880 reads

Allowed CIM

Related Link: CIM, spit or swallow

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HooktardGold1795 reads

Yup, I am not going to do bbbj without cim, but no way in hell I am swallowing your damn spunk.

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millerwj531172 reads

Escorts don't do bbbcim? You made that up, right?

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HooktardGold847 reads

You need not have sex to have a rancid twat.

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AnotherDonJohn740 reads

Rancid is the perfect adjective for that phenomenon.

It evokes bad memories

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AnotherDonJohn854 reads

With Rancid twat

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AnotherDonJohn613 reads

But some do.
And do it like its going out of style.  
And we love them for providing that service.

You're entitled to not to. Your absolute choice.  
But your statement is like saying politicians dont steal.

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GaGambler751 reads

and #2 like most broad sweeping statements, is WRONG.

Many escorts do BBBJCIM and many more do have a problem with hobbyists doing DATY.

but that still has nothing to do with the OP, the OP wants to know if it's ok to be "selfish" where it comes to oral sex, and I would believe the consensus will be that "hey it's P4P, do what you want" or at least I would hope that's what the ladies will say.

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Dr Who revived592 reads

I also suspect that walking the dog and doing her weeks worth of dishes is just not going to happen.

What the hell is wrong with people that pay for a service?  

I guess if you were my bookie that you'd make me wash the floors first as well  ;)

Posted By: GaGambler
and #2 like most broad sweeping statements, is WRONG.  
   
 Many escorts do BBBJCIM and many more do have a problem with hobbyists doing DATY.  
   
 but that still has nothing to do with the OP, the OP wants to know if it's ok to be "selfish" where it comes to oral sex, and I would believe the consensus will be that "hey it's P4P, do what you want" or at least I would hope that's what the ladies will say.

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AnotherDonJohn640 reads

Ladies, what do you think if I can't get you off with a hitachi?
Am I less than a complete man- ...John? Lol.

Seriously, I would think that if you pay upfront, don't smell terrible, aren't a complete ass while you're there, and get the f out on time, you're golden.  
Oh, another analogy: I sometimes forget to give up my seat to a lady on the subway but then someone else does.  
But I don't panhandle. ;)

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Cosette848 reads

run into the train, pushing women out of the way to get a seat. I can't pinpoint what it is about it that bothers me so much, if I'm a feminist then anyone should have a seat I guess, but it bothers me! Female clothes can be constraining and then you've got the heels, and being shorter than men you're likely closer to arm pits, so perhaps I end up thinking they need that seat.

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AnotherDonJohn665 reads

Too many Manginas out there.

I really don't mind getting up because I sit on my ass all day.

If we're going to get up in arms about the subway,how about the douches who can't let people leave the train before they pile on. Dmbasses!

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0603450onThe768 reads

don't need it by any means. Now if you're AWESOME at it, (like my dream DATY guy on X-Art (The Two on One video with Katka lol).......well now if you're like that stud licker, then that's a different story......;) OMG hahahaha

Beyond sexyyyyy...tho 'she' does absolutely nothing for me so I block her cooch out, it's not a very pretty one. However, he on the other hand is yummier than yummy. Ladies if you ever get the chance to watch it, I guarantee he will make you smile. ;)

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Dr Who revived759 reads

Were you just using the K-Y liquid gels?  Come on...you can tell me...DATY isn't reading this shit anymore  LOL

You must have given him a true performance...otherwise why the 10/10?  ;)

Posted By: TaylorSteele
don't need it by any means. Now if you're AWESOME at it, (like my dream DATY guy on X-Art (The Two on One video with Katka lol).......well now if you're like that stud licker, then that's a different story......;) OMG hahahaha  
   
 Beyond sexyyyyy...tho 'she' does absolutely nothing for me so I block her cooch out, it's not a very pretty one. However, he on the other hand is yummier than yummy. Ladies if you ever get the chance to watch it, I guarantee he will make you smile. ;)

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0603450onThe912 reads

I'm directing you to my post below with the other stud Mr. Nicky 46. You will see what I state in a moment about my previous gentlemen 'lickers'.  

And of course it was 'real'...I don't fake 'O's LOL or anything else for that matter. If I have one you'll know it...I'm kind of a 'mini O' gal....lots of them, but you'll deff know when I have the BIG ONE LOL. As if YOU haven't asked hahahahahahahahahahaha. Ahhhhh youth, I am funny.  

Speaking of 'O's...I thought you were bringing 'P' out to play. I am sitting her professing my undying 'need' for him and he's not abiding by the rules and playing. Make him play dammit hahahahha, you are the Damn King. Where's Cosette, she's the Queen, maybe she could make him come out to play....

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0603450onThe913 reads

my reviews. You had your chance and you blew it Mister OTC hahahahahahahaha. Stubborn old man.  

Wait, I'm not 'your' type anyway. ;)

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Dr Who revived1168 reads

I simply picked the one out that a DATY professional would write  LOL

I had my chance....and blew it?  Oh come now my dear...you know better  :D

Or should I remind you?

Posted By: TaylorSteele
my reviews. You had your chance and you blew it Mister OTC hahahahahahahaha. Stubborn old man.  
   
 Wait, I'm not 'your' type anyway. ;)

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AnotherDonJohn750 reads

(I'm replying to CPA but this is for P...)

...Showing up on your doorstep like clooney in Up in the Air.

Except she'll be planning to go Lewinsky on you with a cigar and forced DATY. Lol

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AnotherDonJohn806 reads

There's nothing weirder than an old hooker fishing for DATY .
Yes the OP opened the door but you drove right through with a Hummer (pun intended).
What would P think?
I'd guess he's hiding from your BSC stalking.
The other part of him might wonder what he can do to get you to STFU. Ideas?
Discuss.

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Dr Who revived635 reads

your thoughts, if any?

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
There's nothing weirder than an old hooker fishing for DATY .  
 Yes the OP opened the door but you drove right through with a Hummer (pun intended).  
 What would P think?  
 I'd guess he's hiding from your BSC stalking.  
 The other part of him might wonder what he can do to get you to STFU. Ideas?  
 Discuss.

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0603450onThe931 reads

right. I'll stop. But it really wasn't 'stalking' more like 'teasing' as he is a cat kinda guy. I guess it isn't very becoming of a lady to beg now is it. And he does have a long line of fab ladies he would like to see, which of course, I am not one of them. Perhaps that's the attraction, hmmm?

At any rate, I will stop. He apparently doesn't want to come out to play :(

However, you're not poking because you're one of the 'jealous' ones are you? I would hate to think you're one of those. At any rate, I would flirt with you if I knew in fact who you were...but I am stumped. Feel free to PM me your identity to move forward.

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Panthera12815 reads

My manipulative powers are pretty far reaching, even in my silence.

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0603450onThe701 reads

I don't like tests nor silence. But yes, powers seem like fun. Anyhow, I, as well god knows how many other ladies here, are happy to see you back. However, this new Mr. DJ thinks I've been 'stalking' you, when really I was only feeling those 'powers'. Can you explain that to him maybe?

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AnotherDonJohn677 reads

And that's my dad.

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no_email665 reads

I don't see OTC on your menu. lol

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Dr Who revived668 reads

Taylor's no different in that venue either.

Isn't that an oxymoron however...upcharge for OTC?  ;)

Posted By: bigvern
I don't see OTC on your menu. lol

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no_email591 reads

This was going to be my SPOTY entry.

 
Would you pay extra if you were offered time of the clock? ;

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AnotherDonJohn733 reads

But you just climbed way up there in my book, with that one!

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Dr Who revived867 reads

What better opportunity to pay someone for something they are willing to do for no charge.

And yes...that question may put you in the early lead for SPOTY

Posted By: bigvern
This was going to be my SPOTY entry.  
   
   
 Would you pay extra if you were offered time of the clock? ;)  
   
   
 

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