I let them forget they messaged me til they read my contact info rules lol.

I use at least 2 forms of screening and check driver's licenses.  Using just a screening site simply isn't safe.  Info is often shared with friends, borrowed and there can be multiple accounts for 1 guy.  I don't accept an e mail from any account as "proof" as if it's shared or stolen you'll never know.  A membership on any sites only proves that at the time the site screened a gentleman, they couldn't find anything bad on him.  That's all.  If provider give an ok or recommend him through a website, I only accept it if the website doesn't reward you for giving OKs.  Otherwise, I have no idea why his OK was given.  I will contact the provider if I can to ask about the OK.  Being a member of a white list like on here isn't safe, it's too easily faked and used to barter.  There's been more guys than I have fingers and toes offering me money or a good review in exchange for me to white list them without ever meeting.  I've also been asked to lower my rates or give free services for a good review.  None of this is needed by and decent provider.

...well maybe not a whole rash...just one, actually.

Leave the deadbeats and whacko's on Backpage.

and provide my P411, Date-check and ter info up front when I make a request to meet. I have no problem contacting via P411 as a followup.

there goes my best Bollywood fantasy!

It's not doing anyone any good if either party can verify that they have an account on that particular site.

I've never had to verify any man before, because I have never had a problem. But now you are making me think twice.

Spreaking the truth about the business

Holy shit, Fancy.  Where have you been?  I was starting to worry.

Fancy know where Tarzan go