An unplanned hobby night came up for me Sunday night.  

See the lady that you already confirmed with.

Unless something unexpected comes up.. you should keep the appointment that you've already scheduled.

You already have a confirmed appointment, if you wanted to see the traveler, you should of waited to contact your local. Don't be a douche and see your local.

Go with who you confirmed with already not cool to cancel the last minute because now you got a response from the other provider.
You don't want to be known as the guy who double books and then cancels on one of the providers last minute.Word gets around about who does that.


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and you don't want to ruin a good thing with local gal. I would say make something up, but too late man... you just posted for her to see what's up lol.

I'd do the traveler first, that way if she isn't what you expected, you can just drop a quick nut and get out of there early. Besides, it's easier to relax and enjoy your time with the proven commodity girl if you've already lost a load in someone else before you get there...

If you are debating this... don't post where they both can see!  

For a better opportunity. Why should YOU feel quilty?

Telling ass-calade not to be a dickhead is like telling Niagara Falls to flow backwards.  Best of luck with that! LMAO!

don't be a jerk, and not mention it. State it right in your email, you've just had some time open up and you're sending a few emails out. Those that are offended will not answer, those that appreciate  the honesty will get back to you. It's really NOT that difficult

Does your drivel ever end?

You would not post such a question without using an alias, if it were serious lol. We will pretend for a minute that you are the ONLY one to ever do this, though. It's done all the damn time on both sides of the fence, but as Jayda pointed out...word will get around. You would not want to tarnish that rep the ladies have built up for you bwahahhaa

a young bull and an old bull are standing on a hill, looking down on the herd of cows grazing in the valley.

don't ruin the local action you got going.

I solved it by introducing them over a glass of wine in the hotel bar and -- finding out they were up for it -- turned it into a FMF threesome.  That way everyone was happy.

Still see you, of course --since she already confirmed with you first, right? Personally, If I give my word and confirm a meeting, I am sticking to it.  I would never treat a regular client in that matter if a situation such as that arises; and some gents wouldn't dare have that much lack of consideration for someone's time. Why? It's about taking care of those that have taken care if you.  

I had a 1 hour date set up with a regular once; She called me 6 hours before
our scheduled date and told me  she had the opportunity for an overnight  
and if we could see each other on another day that week.

If i book with anyone i keep my commitment , its called courtesy ! If the opposite were to happen and the provider were to cancel me its called unprofessional and i would not book with her again ! There has to be some common courtesy or frankly thats not someone i want to meet ! Just my 2 cents !

Don't piss off your ATF (that jumped when you called) otherwise you might be looking for a new one.

Fair enough but with research, they are fairly easy to find. LOL

Amazing how the hookers honestly believe that they are "irreplaceable"  LOL

I know men do not want the same meal EVERY night, they like to mix it up... I am under no illusions that he is LOYAL to me. Honestly, I like my regulars, but I dont WANT a guy to SOLELY see me... that is when the drama, feelings, clingyness, the jealousy, all begins...  

I give him a extra 30min free (so 90min) for being so awesome and working with me.