I'm curious about session etiquette during provider visits.  Is it okay to ask for what you want vs. "settling" for what you get?  I've seen a couple of providers with reviews that consistently indicate BBBJ is part of the session, but in both cases, my experience was we went straight from DFK foreplay to mish.  Not sure if this was because I wasn't patient enough, or because I did not initiate DATY, or for some other unknown reason.  I still had a great time, so don't get me wrong.  I'm just wondering if I'm potentially "missing out" on part of the experience by being very polite.

Look at he post from Megan, below yours... She gives great advice.

If you show up lookin like you ate a shit sandwich, Coffee stains. { Try drinking iced, and do this YEAR ROUND it doesnt stain teeth!}
   Not saying thats you, But .
      Crest white strips are like 30 a box.
Then nix the coka cola, sodas, hot teas, hot coffee hot chocolate, Stuff that will stain your grill as they call it, haha.
            I know my profile reads bbj and daty but i am not under any law or rule or government that states i must let every customer do this, If he is worthy yes, but its not nessecarily open to the public every guy get to get his saliva and drool on me, If it looks like a sess pool of bacteria and he doesnt take care himself, i dont even have to suck his dick! he can get a hand job.  

used if no clean face clothes are around, But some the guys dont know you HAVE to use a wash cloth with your soap in the shower or your basically just rubbing your rank bo all over your body your not cleaning it off.

I did know a hooker that got old so she started reading Tarot cards. If you do to soon you may make you think you a cop or ask to for something to strange that you a thug.

You are paying for a session of your liking. If you are just going to allow them to take the lead and finish, then you may not get what you went in for.  

For the most part, providers I've seen have told me that they hate the guys who either just lay there or provide no feedback and expect the lady to just do a bunch of stuff. If there's something you like, tell her! The worst that will happen is she'll reply that she doesn't do that, in which case you just move on to the next activity. It's best to go in with the mindset that she's heard it all and that this is supposed to be a judgment-free zone when it comes to erotic desires. Come on dude, it's not that hard!

I've never had a negative response to a polite, respectful request, but I make sure it isn't something clearly off her menu (e.g. asking for a BBBJ when her profile and reviews are clear she's CBJ only).  And make it a request vs. a demand, e.g. "Would it be OK with you if we...?" or "Do you like...?"  Recently I asked a provider on a first date for something I'd never asked for from any other provider. But I had a feeling from reading her ads, web site, and reviews that she'd be OK with it, although I hadn't seen it mentioned specifically.  She was all for it!  Then I thought of a variation, again something I hadn't seen in my research on her, and suggested that to her, and she exclaimed, "Oh that's the best!"  And it was.  

OP said he is getting DFK but no BBBJ. Oral hygiene must not be an issue.

but what if your name is MtDooDoo, RTucky, or Epsilon???

In that case you would most likely want to be anyone but yourself, just saying. lol

Like some people pointed out here, some providers will naturally try to do what's the easiest for her. If you read her reviews and you know exactly what's on the menu, you should politely just say it. Get to it. "Babe do you like blow jobs? I'm feeling for one." (It's not smooth I know... but heat of the moment will guide you).  

This seems to be sadly true in certain cases, and it seems to be happening more frequently now, at least to me.   If nothing else this approach helps clear up some of the mystery of whether certain providers are really enjoying a gfe session as a true girlfriend would.  

If you've been too tentative to ask for something you want, it sounds like you haven't been completely at ease.
Yes, be respectful, but also not shy about expressing what you'd like.
We all feed off other's energy.
Try to just be relaxed, confident, respectful.
If a lady sees you as relaxed, a good guy, and knows that you are having a good time, this will help her to relax too IMO.

but those who definitely SHOULDN'T be themselves would be the last to take this advice!

and i bet  MtDooDoo, RTucky, or Epsilon Can fInd there at half the total cost you pay.lol.

So kissing in bbbj together may be consider gross. She want the guy to think she clean.

To a point I guess , some clients always take things too far!

Be smooth, man!

Especially considering the "glory" he covered himself in on the thread above this one.

Posting While Sober.

Sorry, he was actually the first one of thought of when making the post, but in my sober state the thought failed to make it all the way to my keyboard. My bad.

If you only book a half hour session your provider will do what is needed to get you from here to there as quickly as possible. Book an hour and you have time for a little conversation, a blowjob and fucking in a few positions of your choice. Book two hours and you will have the opportunity to really luxuriate with your lady, a glass of wine, a massage, lots of kissing, enjoying the wonderful flavors of her pussy and asshole on your tongue, more kissing, a blowjob, a whole lot of fucking, more kissing, another blowjob and some more fucking. If you are lucky you will be able to invite her to join you in the shower to clean up after all that fun.

After a few mins and getting comfortable, you should ask.

I thought he said they aint offering up thier pussy for daty, but yet it reads in thier review they do daty with other customer, so i figured maybe he is a pepsi drinker, or just doesnt floss, or maybe the ones he sees thinks he has stained teeth.
              which may just make them lool skeevy, they could be clean but if they have soda and hot cofee or tea drinker stained,,,,
 and a lady catch a glimpse she aint gonna want to go queening your ass.  

lower belly then cock n balls.
        if bein romantic. some may just get a lets go straight into bj, if I feel awkward around em or plain just dont wanna kiss, i dont always act romantic at the appts, truth be told.  
 oddly enough the kissing seems far more close and personal to me than givin a bj, weird. right?

with happy ending then get all pissy it isnt like the reviews from hobbyist that pay for 2 hours of gfe, my hour massage with an ending is offered at a discount rate but its NOT intended to have cheap skapes arrive and force pse gfe on me, but they give the massage rate,  

Appreciate all the feedback and commentary.  My hygiene is A+, but thanks for the tip.  Good point about not expecting the provider to be a mind reader.  I was concerned about seeming demanding with upscale providers, but I agree that asking politely and respectfully for what I'd like in the future makes sense.