There are many of us Hobbyists who, don't want to know the real name, address, occupation and or any other personal information of the Providers that we see. Those who don't require OTC time or who wish to insult the Providers by negotiating a lower rate.
Some like me, want her to be Barbi, Bambi, whatever her alter ego name is for the time that we have requested. We just want our world rocked sexually by women who we choose to spend time with, and then we want her to leave. After all that is what you pay a prostitute for, not for sex, but to leave when you are done. We don't want to hear any of the bullshit, we want the fantasy, and then it's over. She wants the contents of the envelope, and then it's over. Win/Win, what the fuck is so difficult about this arrangement????? Why do some Johns not get/understand the simplicity of this????? My Rant, sorry I just saw my tax man last night and now I know how much of a check I must write for 4/15. So, I'm releasing a little frustration. This doesn't change my conviction on what I've said, just that my filter is out for repair, and I'm letting loose. I still love my life.When I negotitate, I always try for a win/win scenario, that way the girls don't get insulted. LOL
See...we really are not that different Russ.
Just yesterday I was having a similar thought.
Some guys will absolutely hate when they see wet towels thrown on the floor in the room, or if the bed is not perfectly made, or... Etc. then at some point during the appt they start asking personal questions.... I mean... They want the illusion of gfe.... Then they mess everything up by asking: so how many guys do u see? What do u do for a living?
Thanks Allah for guys who have a philosophy like yours. No attachments or PI, just fun 😊
Of their dysfunctional lives and relationships, money problems, arrests, and other problems. I am not a therapist so I am of know help. I want them to fuck my brains out. That's it en todo.
There are times I hear about the nonsense of the gal's personal life.
One chic told me I was her therapist, I informed her that the transaction was going the wrong direction for that to be true. I haven't seen her again.
Has anyone prompted you to do otherwise? Do the providers want to become buddies? Has any TER clients told you to get or give personal information? And WTF do you care what the other clients do?
beyond what Russ mentioned, is that she look like her photos.
No emotional involvement, no hurt.
congratulations........anytime you have an encounter with a provider and it goes exactly how you had hoped. Like any product or service, the procurer (and the provider) should get what they seek..........otherwise the transaction would be less than satisfactory.
Some go on a cruise because they love the ocean. Others are interested in experiencing the culture different ports of call have to offer. Still others are interested in the food, drink, and onboard partying. Whatever their reasons..........chances are most will get what they pay for.
More power to you when you get what you seek from a transaction with a provider..........and more power to other hobbyists who may not have your perspective or needs yet get what they seek as well.
After all, IMHO hobbyist/provider transactions come in all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, and on and on and on........oh yes, and perspectives.
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Some go on a cruise because they love the ocean. Others are interested in experiencing the culture different ports of call have to offer. Still others are interested in the food, drink, and onboard partying. Whatever their reasons..........chances are most will get what they pay for.
More power to you when you get what you seek from a transaction with a provider..........and more power to other hobbyists who may not have your perspective or needs yet get what they seek as well.
After all, IMHO hobbyist/provider transactions come in all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, and on and on and on.
Ever since my teenage days of shoplifting Playboy, Penthouse, and Hustler, I have been fascinated by sex workers. This expanded in my early 20s when I began to frequent strip clubs, and started to realize that the women in this line of work are...better. Now, Russ, I'm sure that you agree with me on the "better" part, but we have opposite approaches. You want to keep things confined to "professional," whereas I expect "professional," but am also open to other developments. I minored in psychology in college, because I am fascinated by learning what makes people "tick," and the ladies that we play with are no exception. Also, there is the fact that I have left traditional relationships behind in favor of polyamory, and I suspect that our lovely providers include a much higher percentage of polyamorous women than the general population. So in that respect, it becomes another arena to meet like-minded women.
I should add that I never ask prying questions. I volunteer a lot of personal information, and when the ladies get to know me and start to trust me, they volunteer their fascinating information of their own volition.
There are hundreds of others. They run from you marrying your atf, all the way to her not showing up. Or my favorite of all time. The lady sending me a blank response to my inquiry. At least the no show wrote back, and got me excited.
Your scenario is fine. Those types of sessions are wonderful. But sometimes, other things happen. Sometimes she orders out, and uses her real name. Oops! Sometimes she'll send you every pussy shot she has, and sometimes not one pic. Sometimes she literally jumps into your arms, and sometimes she sits on the other side of the room. Anything and everything can happen.
Forget Barbi and Bambi. Why limit yourself to one scenario? The exciting part of the hobby is that you absolutely never know what's going to happen. Sometimes there's another guy in the bathroom, and you have to run like hell. Then sometimes you're spending the night otc. Just like each session, every lady in the world is 100% totally different. Getting to know those differences is the fun part. Just to be clear, even though it's p4p, and I'll likely never know her real name, I'd rather be with the real her than the Bambi her, if that's something she allows. One lady I know takes 45 minutes to cum. She could pop me off a fake Barbi in 5, but she really has a long build up. Watching her long build up is fascinating
That is if they do a good job, that's how you should feel at the end of a session.
I don't mind paying, but it never gives me a fuzzy feeling to part with my money, even when it's well deserved. Win/Win is hardly the case, unless you're delusional.
Forest Gump was so right! Still looking for my Jenny though 
Once they find out what I do for a living. They ask me questions, and I do not mind. I would rather answer some questions and concerns they have than see them make a mistake.
Is it not also important also for the hooker to establish and respect boundaries?
There are hookers on this board who have openly talked about having dated clients or wanting to date clients.
There is one regular poster here who for some mind-boggling reason seems to be popular amongst the board. And she even had an ongoing affair with a *married* client who has a family for Chrissake. And openly complains about what a bad and dishonest guy he is for not leaving his family for her.
I myself, after an amazing date, experienced a situation where she asked me to stay for dinner. Then asked if I wanted to go work out with her at her gym. Another gal I met on this board asked me to attend a seminar with her, and bought me dinner last week. I'm not bragging about this. None of these were my idea. I was simply asked. Should I feel like my personal boundaries were infringed upon?
Some like me, want her to be Barbi, Bambi, whatever her alter ego name is for the time that we have requested. We just want our world rocked sexually by women who we choose to spend time with, and then we want her to leave. After all that is what you pay a prostitute for, not for sex, but to leave when you are done. We don't want to hear any of the bullshit, we want the fantasy, and then it's over. She wants the contents of the envelope, and then it's over. Win/Win, what the fuck is so difficult about this arrangement????? Why do some Johns not get/understand the simplicity of this?????
My Rant, sorry I just saw my tax man last night and now I know how much of a check I must write for 4/15. So, I'm releasing a little frustration. This doesn't change my conviction on what I've said, just that my filter is out for repair, and I'm letting loose.
I still love my life.