There are many of us Hobbyists who, don't want to know the real name, address, occupation and or any other personal information of the Providers that we see. Those who don't require OTC time or who wish to insult the Providers by negotiating a lower rate.

When I negotitate, I always try for a win/win scenario, that way the girls don't get insulted. LOL

Just yesterday I was having a similar thought.  

Of their dysfunctional lives and relationships, money problems, arrests, and other problems. I am not a therapist so I am of know help. I want them to fuck my brains out. That's it en todo.

Has anyone prompted you to do otherwise? Do the providers want to become buddies? Has any TER clients told you to get or give personal information? And WTF do you care what the other clients do?

beyond what Russ mentioned, is that she look like her photos.  

congratulations........anytime you have an encounter with a provider and it goes exactly how you had hoped.  Like any product or service, the procurer (and the provider) should get what they seek..........otherwise the transaction would be less than satisfactory.

Ever since my teenage days of shoplifting Playboy, Penthouse, and Hustler, I have been fascinated by sex workers.  This expanded in my early 20s when I began to frequent strip clubs, and started to realize that the women in this line of work are...better.  Now, Russ, I'm sure that you agree with me on the "better" part, but we have opposite approaches.  You want to keep things confined to "professional," whereas I expect "professional," but am also open to other developments.  I minored in psychology in college, because I am fascinated by learning what makes people "tick," and the ladies that we play with are no exception.  Also, there is the fact that I have left traditional relationships behind in favor of polyamory, and I suspect that our lovely providers include a much higher percentage of polyamorous women than the general population.  So in that respect, it becomes another arena to meet like-minded women.

There are hundreds of others. They run from you marrying your atf, all the way to her not showing up. Or my favorite of all time. The lady sending me a blank response to my inquiry. At least the no show wrote back, and got me excited.  

That is if they do a good job, that's how you should feel at the end of a session.  

There are times I hear about the nonsense of the gal's personal life.  

Forest Gump was so right!  Still looking for my Jenny though

Once they find out what I do for a living. They ask me questions, and I do not mind. I would rather answer some questions and concerns they have than see them make a mistake.

Is it not also important also for the hooker to establish and respect boundaries?