I don't really stress over a date anyway. We have guys who fly in all the time or who drive down from LA. I look forward to everyone (no BS). So other than the stress of making sure the house is straightened and our candles are lit and wine and beer in the fridge - what's to stress about?
I wanted to query providers about this for a long time. I've noticed over the boards that guys will complain of NCNS a lot when they specifically travel to see a certain provider for the first time.
So, I ask you: how much pressure would you feel when a guy does that?
Moreover, do you fear that a guy who wants to see you that much might be stalker material?
No stress. I live in an area where any good city is about 2 hours away. Traveling is the norm.
I would hope that through the screening process the tendencies that stalkers display would show themselves. It's never fullproof, but ten hours, ten minutes it's one of the many risks we take everyday when we see a new client.
I don't live in the US and when I visit the country its not to LA.I have to specifically go to LA if I want to see a PS. I don't have the luxury to wait for a tour.
If there is pressure or it looks stalker then tough. I don't see how it is stalker material when a person just happen to live in a different place.
And I'm talking about guys who specifically don't have to go there. Who say they are going there specifically to see someone.
If I could give my own experience. I actually arranged for a trip four months ahead of time. I won't do a newbie thing like that again, because she actually retired before I could see her!
No, I don't attribute that to her being overstressed meeting me. )
I have many reviews raving about me, so I get clients from far far away.
When a guy drives 3 or 4 hours one way or hop in a plane just to make a special trip to visit me, I really feel honored and I would never consider him a stalker.
Because I know maybe this will be the first and only time I will see him, due to the distance and traveling involved, I will make his visit very special so his expectations are exceed.
These kind of clients are one of the kind, they have a fantasy and will do anything to memorize and enjoy every minute of it and I don't see anything disturbing about providing it to men who thinks I am a "legend".
I don't really stress over a date anyway. We have guys who fly in all the time or who drive down from LA. I look forward to everyone (no BS). So other than the stress of making sure the house is straightened and our candles are lit and wine and beer in the fridge - what's to stress about?
Yeah, I am far away from most of you and flying to China is not your domestic trip. not easy for the gents to take a specific trip just for me but when they ever have scheduled China, they will contact me for sure.
Back to the stress, hmmm, no, only I feel more thankful when they actually tell me that they dont have much biz but just to see me, at that time, I very appreciate and only make their visits more exciting...
Since I do not live in a "big" city I have many gentlemen who travel to see me, either by driving or flying. I have some who have business nearby but will stay in Augusta to have a date with me. It is flattering. It's not stalker material.
My stalking episodes occur when one person will email or call a million times professing such ardent desire to meet but NEVER follows through with it. I will not meet someone like that.
I have a gentleman that sends me about 10 emails a week telling me how perfect, special, glorious I am and the guy has never even seen me in person. He's built up this fantasy in his mind, even though I am all those things (hehehe) he would do better to find out in person but because of his strange behavior I will NEVER see him.
That is a great question. Sometimes we don't find out ahead of time that the individual is traveling just to see us but if I know that then yes! it does make me feel a little more stressed about being on time and all that wonderful stuff. In regards to him being 'stalker material' ~ not necessarily if he is within the greater Los Angeles or Orange Counties (it is just extremely flattering) but I recently learned that a gentleman was traveling from Illinois just to see me (only here less than 24 hours). I didn't learn that I was his sole purpose for the trip until our 3rd meeting and that did freak me out. I won't see him anymore because I think that is just a little too strange!
Of course, not many come to Vegas just to see lil' ol' me...LOL. Somehow I don't think I quite compare with the glitz and allure of Vegas casino's... I do have some who say that I when they found out they were coming to Vegas they wanted to make sure they saw me while they were here. I'm very flattered by such comments, and don't find them 'stalker' material at all.
Stalkers have very different behavior than flattery alone.
Hey! When you get to be my age, you're always worried about people spending money to fly out, rent a car, eat and generally donate a good portion of their time and expense to see someone they've never met. It's exciting, but of course it's a little nerve-wracking. Anyone who says otherwise is either kidding herself or just doesn't care about what the client is expecting. However, once we meet, if if he likes me, etc., then I feel comfortable. It's not a matter of confidence, but a guy might have flown half-way across the planet to see me and I don't know what image he has in his mind of me. That's certainly pressure, but it's also fun. It's a challenge, it's exhilarating and I certainly don't want to disappoint him. I think that's only natural. But then again, I care about a man spending his money and taking the time to go out of his way to meet me.
I missed a soon-to-be retired ladies’ farewell tour to my area so I flew out to see her about a month later. This was my first time taking a trip solely to see a provider. Over all the session was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had, it was a pure adrenaline rush. Great session but extremely stressful, rushing from my appt. almost missing my flight & getting grouped and frisked by the TSA b/c my shorts that I was wearing had metal snaps on them, I guess they thought it was a breach of national security LOL. As much as I love the exhilarating rush of emotions I get from anonymous sex & this lifestyle, I would never do anything crazy like that again. In retrospect, with so many variables, this trip could have been a major disaster.
BTW it seems recently the term “stalker” is getting exaggeratingly misused. A hobbyist willing to travel a great distance, to see a provider maybe looking for a particular session, appearance of provider or skill level they feel may not be available in their local area; that is not a stalker, that’s called a hobbyist using this board and other resources to get the best experience possible. I believe excessive calling, emailing, texting & etc. invading the personal life of a provider & other mentally unstable creepy behavior that’s a stalker.
I've had several occasions where someone has traveled cross country to see me, I'm flattered, with all the beautiful ladies out there, he's connected with me and he chooses to spend his time and money with me. Although, I have to admit that I have had a little anxiety beforehand, like if he showed up and I came down with a cold or the flu. That would suck. Thankfully, it's never happened.
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