Guys,

I don't know how important it is to you,
but having a truly HORNY girl makes the turn on
sooooooo much better for me.

I don't want a girl to just go through the motions, but to really enjoy the hell out of what I'm giving her.

Is it really worth it if the girl isn't into the act and getting off?

I don't think so...

I would like to see a stat added to the reviews stating the "horny factor" from a scale of one to ten.

I would pick the horniest ones I could every time  

do you really expect them to be?  You'll have to search long and hard for a nympho or someone who happens to be in the mood."

I fully expect ladies to post here vociferously proclaiming that they really do get horny; excuse my cynicism, but it's just self-promotion.

cold water splash to the face but you're a big boy and I'm sure you can take it. Welcome, and study the reviews carefully.

I've been in a position to know several times in my life. Yes - she can masturbate several times a day, see a client or two or more, and still be horny enough to pull out that big hitachi vibe after the last guy is gone.

And if the client turns her on, he can tell. Trust me on this '

GTM

In my view, it's the gent's job to turn the lady on! Yes I know I'm compensating the lady for a service. But if I want "turned on" (and I do!) I take responsibility for being stimulating. I do this by dressing and grooming, by the way I present myself, by being focused on the lady, by the way I show interest and appreciation. And with humor. If you flip the switch in the lady's brain - get her to be genuinely interested in you - the horny part will take care of itself. NO matter how many other gents she sees.

Seriously dude, before you go shooting off your mouth, take the time to do your research.

Scientific research often fails women with regards to their sexuality because it utilizes subjective measures, such as asking questions that requires the subject (woman) to gauge her own feelings. However, those few studies that have directly measured physiological responses to various sexual stimuli, such as measuring bloodflow to the vaginal walls (in the same way they measure bloodflow to the penis, which they've been doing for years), or mapping brain activity, have provided extremely consistent results: women are not only JUST as horny as men, but we are aroused by even MORE types of auditory/visual stimuli.

What inhibits many women is their own minds. If you think depression can destroy libido, try thousands of years worth of socio-cultural ingraining of ideas such as "women must be the gate keepers of sexuality," "a sullied woman is a worthless woman," the double standard on sexually desired women verses who makes an appropriate wife (whore/madonna syndrome, anyone?), and the overall idea that a woman should not be more experienced than her male counterpart. If you think these (and other similar) ideas and double standards don't play a role in modern day American society, then you have a surprise in store for you, my friend. Would you prefer to receive the academic studies or the personal anecdotes first?

Ideally, if a woman is engaging in this lifestyle, then she has moved past these issues (as best as any woman can). What IS unreasonable to expect, however, is for a woman to have spontaneous massive orgasms at the very sight of your cock. If the women you're seeing aren't genuinely horny, and you find them faking it more often than not, then perhaps you need to brush up on your foreplay 101.

Just because you're one and done doesn't mean the provider you're with is.

My best friend in the business can do several appointments in the course of a day, fuck the shit out of every single client and call me at the end of the business day and ask me if I want to go pick someone up at a bar to bring back to the hotel and screw.

She and I both agree- we get better, and more intensely stirred as the day wears on.

My last boyfriend broke up with me because he said he felt emasculated by how often I initiated sex and his drive just didn't match.

Oh and "self-promotion"?
Yeah, cuz I get my clients off of the General Discussion board.

*Rolling eyes*

I carry a pocket rocket with me all the time and I see someone every day...

The more your pleasured the more you want.There are plenty of ladies here just like me and I have seen them post.

Many ladies are here because they are very comfortable in their skin and do like to be pleased. Who doesn't want to have an orgasm and hell yes if you want me to cum i'm going to be ready willing and able. I can do it myself and you can watch or you can do it for me.

Kisses Haley

is sit in a Bar and let a fine honey like you pick me up and take me home for free??



As the song goes "make a old man wish for younger days"  LOL

GTM, u get it baby, you really get it, and i bet most of the time u really do 'get it'.  i've been in the hobby for only a few months now.  but i tell  u the damndest thing.  I'm an extremely low volume provider who dont see but a couple of clients a week.  but damned if my libido isnt fired up since i started this biz and when the fellow is doin his darndest to turn me on, it usually damn works.   LOL.

So what bar do you go to I am so there

get a hottie young enough to be my granddaughter to cum.

How many days in a row do you think a man can get laid once or twice before he becomes "unhorny?"

Seriously Dr. Ruth, before you go shooting off your mouth, take the time to do your research.

But that certainly doesn't mean I don't love my job. GOD I love my job.

Horniness, to me, is the feeling one gets from a prolonged period of abstinence, when one is quite literally crawling the walls. Well, thanks to my chosen occupation, I am spared that particular plight most of the time. There are a few ocassions when for one reason or another I can't 'work' for a few days, and when that happens, I most certainly notice it.

Last week, I had a bit of surgery done on my mouth, and could not work for a full week. The first gent I saw when I resumed work was a regular that I swap e-mails with pretty frequently. Once we set the time, I warned him of the fact that I hadn't been able to work for a week, and let him know that he better eat his Wheaties. Bless him, he rose to the ocassion magnificently, and I only injured him very slightly. We both had very big grins on our faces when it was over though.

That doesn't mean that when I'm not 'horny' I am not into it though. I look at the same as eating. I eat every day, and rarely experience true hunger. But, just because I rarely go for long fasts, doesn't mean I can't crave and enjoy a particularly well prepared meal. The same goes for sex. Enjoying sex on a regular basis keeps me very happy all the time, but that doesn't mean I can't still savor and enjoy every encounter.

I think what you are really looking for are women who love sex and don't take it for granted, ie just go through the motions. Is that horny? I don't know.

I was once told by an ex-boyfriend that he thought I was only interested in him for sex. Well, the truth is, I was. It flabbergasted me though, that any man would protest such an arrangement. So chalk me up as a "horny" girl, err, sort of. (Per my response to the original poster).

So, um, who exactly am I promoting myself to here buddy? Guys on the west coast? East coast? Places I don't visit since I don't tour?

Yes, this might come as a newsflash but some women really do love their jobs, and really do get into every encounter. If that isn't your experience, well, maybe you should take a closer look at the women you select, or take a closer look at yourself.

Did you actually ask how many days in a row can a guy go with having sex once or twice (let's go with twice) before getting "unhorny"? Lets look at that shall we?

Morning sex and evening sex every day, with a large variety of women. I shall not try to even guess on any other guy, but I kind of consider myself an "average joe" type and I put a very conservative estimate at the number of days I can do that before I get "unhorny" at roughly 9125 days. That's 25 years and about the time I think I just may start losing some of my libido.

b-

Break out the research that men (or women) are consistently satisfied and relatively uninterested in sex after receiving it once or twice a day for multiple days in a row, and then we might have ourselves a real discussion.

Right now, all you've displayed are a several opinions and negative assumptions in regards to providers. If I follow your line of thought correctly, we are all fuck factories who apparently "fake it." Do you normally lust after people you express such a low opinion of?

lust after you.  I've never even heard of you.  Get over yourself.

As for research, let me know when you get yourself a 50+ year old penis and libido like I have.

all women.  Why are you taking it so personally?  It's just one jerk's opinion. Life's too short.

one and done.  I offer a point of view and you respond with ad hominem attacks.

Congratulations to you and your friend for developing such multi-orgasmic abilities.  Other people concentrate on developing other skills; e.g., Madeleine Albright, Condoleezza Rice and Hillary Clinton.

I'm not saying that being multi-orgasmic and being a well-educated, accomplished woman are mutually exclusive (see Dr. Victoria Zdrok).  Just send me a PM when you are Secretary of State.

You can state that providers who insist that they actually enjoy themselves are "self promoting"
and that women who are involved in "worthwhile" pursuits are politicians/non-providers-

But if I state that your point of view are commiserate with your sexual abilities/predilections I am being distasteful / levering personal attacks.

Oh- I see.  Thank you for the clarification.

You send me a PM when you are a learned scientist.

...does not negate or nullify the other skills that she cultivates when she is not actively providing.

Yes, you're still close-minded and condescending.  Your response/follow-up post only further demonstrated that fact.

Stick to offering your "alternative point of view" to dumb providers who don't bother to consider what is actually being said- I am not one of them.

reverse of men, anatomically and physiologically....one orgasm begets another.  The first client client of the day whets my appetite for the next.  
I can go a long time without sex...but once I have it, I want it all the time.

I'm anonymous on this site, so my comments are not in the interest of  'self-promotion'.

childhood sexual abuse which allows them to dissociate while having sex with a client so that her mind is off on vacation or going thru her grocery list, while her body and her mouth is giving the performance of a lifetime.  

This isn't meant to disrespect  providers or marginalize them in any way.  If anything it's my call to stop the rampant abuse of women in our society.