Providers seem to enjoy this act more than non-providers. (IMO)  

Is it just me?  

How is a BJ better when you pay for it?  The best one I ever had cost me about $100.

Doesn't it seem that the "free" one should be better?  The one from the non-provider that is.

Just me or is it you 2.

Peace and Love!!!!!!!!!!

My experience is they operate off of a sense of entitlement.  Hence the lack of enjoyment.

My theory is that it's because providing often attracts the sort of girls who are into pleasing their partner.

It really makes me happy (and turns me on) to please the guy I'm with, and often a bit of O is a very effective way to do this.

I don't know but some really suck at it )

Which is not a bad thing )

In general I've gotten much better head over the years from providers than from civvies.  That being said, some gals are definitely better at it than others but I wouldn't assume that every pro will be a keeper.  I've been burnt a few times by very pretty girls who applied little or no effort to the task at hand.

My current ATF and the two before her all loved oral and the reason they all gave was that they though it gave them more control over making a guy come.

My current girlfriend does NOT like it.

I've been with her for probably 4 years, and I think I've averaged 2 a year. None of them longer than maybe 60 seconds. I've pretty much gotten the message that she doesnt like it.

I'm actually getting rid of her, but not because of the above reason. The fact that I'm mostly single now is the reason I've become interested in the hobby.

I like the feel of it in my mouth.  I like the clean soapy scent and the sex scent.  I like the precum taste.  I just really like it.  But I lllooovveee receiving oral.  I mean, I love it!!!
So, I figure if recieving good oral feels sooooo damn good to me, then it must feel that wonderful to my man.
But honestly, in my civvie days, I never got into it.  It did have to do with some sense of entitlement I guess... Like, if I'm giving you this, what the hell are you going to give to me?

As a provider, that question is already answered and I can totally concentrate on the sexual pleasure.  

Oh, I also like the sounds that guys make when the bj is really good.  I love that moan, that sudden intake of breath.  I love hearing my name rolling off their toungues in celebrated spasms of pleasure.

Yeah... sheesh... I like everything about oral.

...I absolutely LOVE pleasing a man with my mouth -- love working him into a frenzy with my lips and tongue, drawing him to climax.  It's one of the hottest things ever.  I think I actually prefer performing oral to penetration.

lol ok maybe not twice as often lmao I am joking Ahem...
In all honesty For some unknown reason to myself there have been men that I have had a tremendous desire  to smell , taste , to take them into my mouth and suck and lick them into helpless bliss. Looking up at them while they look down at me....eyes lock .Feels like power exchange or teen spirit can't figure out which ... YUM ....having them inside me this way can be so increadably hot , I get wet thinking about it . I get soaked doing it .
I have also met people one of my ex civi serious relationships that I did not  have  this type of response to him reason also unknown.
                             Kendall

And I am pretty good at it! Muah!