My experience is they operate off of a sense of entitlement.  Hence the lack of enjoyment.

My theory is that it's because providing often attracts the sort of girls who are into pleasing their partner.

It really makes me happy (and turns me on) to please the guy I'm with, and often a bit of O is a very effective way to do this.

I don't know but some really suck at it :))

Which is not a bad thing )

In general I've gotten much better head over the years from providers than from civvies.  That being said, some gals are definitely better at it than others but I wouldn't assume that every pro will be a keeper.  I've been burnt a few times by very pretty girls who applied little or no effort to the task at hand.

My current ATF and the two before her all loved oral and the reason they all gave was that they though it gave them more control over making a guy come.

My current girlfriend does NOT like it.

I've been with her for probably 4 years, and I think I've averaged 2 a year. None of them longer than maybe 60 seconds. I've pretty much gotten the message that she doesnt like it.

I'm actually getting rid of her, but not because of the above reason. The fact that I'm mostly single now is the reason I've become interested in the hobby.

...I absolutely LOVE pleasing a man with my mouth -- love working him into a frenzy with my lips and tongue, drawing him to climax.  It's one of the hottest things ever.  I think I actually prefer performing oral to penetration.

And I am pretty good at it! Muah!