I was thinking about why I got into hobbying and it occured to me that I was divorced and horny. No strings attached good times with differant women, what a hobby. I really enjoy the Ladies I have met and I hope when they hang it up they have a good life and meet someone special, if they haven't already. Ladies I love each and everyone of you.

Those sure are some really nice comments . I have yet to meet you but the next time I come to Chicago i hope to meet you before the end .
I am sure you are a very special gentleman yourself .
Layla

That's very sweet.  Thank you!

Hey, nab, I've only been hobbying for about a year.  What a dumass I am.  My career was teaching, so I had to wait to hobby.  But damnn  ssure I'm glad I've been active.  

Best of luck,
Swim

As a hobbyist, do you care if the provider you're with enjoys the session or is it only about you?

Thats a similar topic to this one, people were talking about the pleasure btw boys and girls and different idea about who brings to whom pleasure.

therefore I was thinking why gents hobby why girls provide.

Gents are horny and have extra money to afford a nice GFE without worrying the future relationship with the girl. and its kinda secret affair that keeps gent happy-we try our best to offer GFE.

Grils enjoy luxury life or have to support their family or tuition by providing service, also its an risky biz. women do like being cared by some nice gentlemen and it makes them feel happy and young hearted.

one line from 'Sex and The City'
men see money as power, women see sex as power. when they do sex biz is an great exchange of powers! I love this line, really!


Of course we all pursue the happy life with someone special. We can love many as friends. Thank you Nutandbolt, its a great wish!!

Carolinalayia, when you come to Chicago I'll make it a point to see you.

I got into hobbying for a different reason from most, I think.
I got into it because I missed the intimacy of laying with a beautiful woman.
I missed the warmth, the soft touch, the give and take of intimate touches.
Being able to lay with a lovely lady and enjoy her warmth and caresses is worth alot to me as I don't get much of it any more due to medical circumstances.
Some of you are aware of my personal situation, so I won't rehash it now, but, I have met some wonderful ladies in this hobby and can gratefully say that I can call a few great dear friends.
For me, it's never been about "banging a hottie" or how many "cups" can I get.
It's all about the intimacy and the physical contact with someone.

Just my opinion...
B

Ive only hobbied a few times the last few years.
But now that im semi retired and free and realize the horniness doesn't go away after 50,
Ive decided to quit denying myself.  Theres too much going on and too many beautiful women to  just set around and wish.

For me Kitty its the sensual side that draws me.  I need the intimacy, heck we all do, but more than just getting a nut, Its the closeness, warmth, scent of perfume, feeling of laying next to a woman, all of that.

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE the sweaty part, but the time after, when we are lying there talking, touching, and connecting is what makes the experience.
I have never understood the guys who want a 15 or 30 minute appointment, nor the ladies who offer them.  Things move quickly in this wonderful hobby, but I still need two or four hours with a lady to really have the experience I desire...

Well said, Bobarino.

For me, I had just ended a nine year relationship, and I knew (for various reasons) that I wouldn't likely be able to start another one for a while, and I have most of my adult life sought out professionals when I have not been in a relationship.  

I also did not want sex to be as strong of a factor in my motivation to begin a relationship with someone as it had in times past.  

Lastly, it scratches a mental itch...being with someone who often is "different" physically than the type of woman I have been able to have a relationship with.  There is nothing to take the "mystique" off of the opposite sex like being intimate.  I don't mean that it a bad way at all...it is the most bonding moment two adults can share.  It also lessens the "presentation" factor from being with a partner, and enables you to see them without the makeup and attitude and all of that, which brings perspective, which allows the "presentation" to not be as much of a distraction to me as it might be otherwise.

What I have found since I arrived...well, that has surpassed my wildest dreams...

What a great way to have a lot of fun.  Just wish I had more money to do it more.

Swim