I'm stuck in an awkward position here today guys and gals.  I spoke with a well reviewed provider and we really connected on the phone today.  The strange twist to this is that we know some of the same people through other business affairs.  Now here's my points to ponder - What if our paths have crossed in person before?  What if we haven't crossed paths yet but will do so after the visit?  
I do not have a SO therefore that is not in jeopardy.  I haven't encountered any other provider I have seen in public yet but think I have a chance at seeing her in public through other business.  Is this something I should be afraid of?  Anybody ever come across this situation before?  Is this something I should be concerned with?  How do you treat this situation?

Lookin for a lil advice


p.s. I frequent this board, but needed some words of wisdom.  but damn, her and I really connected on the phone

I wouldn't let the potential for seeing her in a business/public situation deter me from becoming a client.  You can discuss that when you meet her and obtain her view on how she would prefer it be handled.  Key is to be courteous and professional as called for by the setting.  Take your cues from her.  Crossed paths with a provider once in public, she acknowledgedged me with a slight raise of her eyebrows, barely discernable smile (and what I though was a twinkle in her eye).  This cued me to respond as if I had never made her acquaintance before.

What are you worried about, that she'll out you for seeing a prostitute?  Not to be rude but grow a set of nuts and hook up with this chick, who gives a flying fuck if you see her at a board meeting next week.  Personally I'd find that to be a real turn on, a little wink, a little acknowledgement.  Sweet.  As for whether you've seen her before, again, why in the world would that even be an issue.

I agree with Dex.  She's a professional, so are you.  If you see each other in public, so be it.  You meet people in all walks of life, so there is no instant recognition by the rest of the world that you met in the bedroom.  Relax, dammit!

Pussy is pussy. Everyone knows everybody so in a sense, we're all in bed. You may cross paths. You may not. But you only live once.

Just do it.

HB

In business and politics information can be power.

Based on the business side relationship you share with this woman ask yourself if her knowledge of  you and your private activities can be used against you in any way. Does this information give her any power over you that can threaten any sense of your well being? I'd say if so then avoid her, there are so many other providers out there. This is not saying she is a bad person, but advice to avoid and potential problems.

I've had providers avoid me because we ran in the same circles of friends (not part of this hobby) so the shoe is on the other foot,

To me, this is the best advice to you of all of these responses. To an extent, the "security" of this hobby is anonimity and if that is missing, it should be considered.
pt

For all of you that responded the thoughts have been considered and I will let you know what happens next.  Much Appreciated.

I have seen a provider off and on for a year that I just found out works for a "square" girlfriend of mine. Talk about weird. ? Well we discussed it at length, and although awkward for sure, as long as we are both professionally coonfidential about it, we have no problem..but it is weird the few times I have seen her in her bosses (my girlfriends) office. Now add the fact that I met her boss as a PAID FOR TANTRIC Provider ten years ago, and wow what a small world it gets to b..  No worries unless you cann't hold your mud. But that is just my opinion.....and what do I know? DATEAMAN eom