A poser for me- thought I would share-

I am thinking about setting up an appt in the near future, one that will feature my favourite act to rec, the bbbj.  In civvie life, I like this to be a complete act that goes until I am done.  And I get so few, I don't even know about controlling myself.   If its good I want to go until I pop, if its only ok, I'd rather do other stuff.

But many ladies don't want to guzzle the goo for obvious reasons (many).   They tell me to let them know when I am close.  But go back to the previous paragraph.  I have NO IDEA WHEN I WILL COME THAT WAY- only that it will be strong!

Does anyone else have this problem?  Do I have to look for ladies who take it all?   Any helpful hints?  Do the ladies have a way of knowing?  

I do not want to be an asshole and decorate their faces either (unless they ask real nice), but I am simply at sea on this.  Any help?

OMG when it's going so well, the last thing I want to do is bark out the words that I know are going to bring an end to the fun.  I do know when it's gettin real close and I squeeze my butt cheeks together to get the last stroke or two...but can never really be sure...then they get pissed.

It's not that I care if they swallow, I just don't want the moment broken.

'T would seem you need to find the NQNS gals to be most happy.

I don't get it?
First of all, unless he prefers to come some other way (or save for round 2, or 3), I have every intention of going TC. I mean, isn't that the object? What fun is it if not? That's like sucking on a tootsie pop and never getting to the soft, chewy center!
If there have been any difficulties, discomforts or fears, no one has ever expressed it to me, and I certainly haven't seen it break the moment.
If you can just breathe one word: 'now', that works for me, but it's not as if it gets dropped like a dead fish once you do!
Even though I don't CIM (for my own safety practices), it's pretty dang close to it, depending on what you do.

And yes, I can usually tell when you're close. Let me know what it is I'm lost about..

You know lollipops did fine before the chewy center was invented.  And I think a lot of ladies think of it as foreplay.  Its fine like that and all, but its what I'm after, since I get sex enough for me.   I still chuckle about a bj I got from one provider who just drained me totally with a combo russian/bj experience- all I want is that again. and again. and again.  But a huge part of the pleasure is that it happens, I don't have to guide it and it justr goes on until I am ready to serve up the spackle!  If I have to do more than lie there and appreciate it and then shoot, the beauty is tarnished.  Gimme a break- its the only place where I'm totally selfish(except the entire rest of my life of course) and I want to enjoy it, not be worried about what might happen

I think I spank enough thank you...

But, Char, I dunno what to tell you other than mind over matter, practice makes perfect?? And I do understand..

HERE'S THE QUESTION, AND ALIASES MOST WELCOME:

Ladies, on a scale of 1 - 10, with 1 being le creme de le creme delightfully delicious, and 10 being so bad you want to throw up, how would you rate the taste of cum? Taste also includes the smell, texture, flavor, the whole deal.
I had this discussion with a guy before and we disagreed.

I read that eating pineapple gives a guy pleasant tasting cum.  I have to confess after making it a part of my diet I had to taste a sample to see how it tasted.  of course I did this with my girlfriend.  I came on her breast and licked some of it off.  I found that it had no taste at all neither bitter, salty or sweet.  I did one follow up a month later and it was the same.

Reitto! lol I feel same way, Char (eom)

I was told by a Romanian woman, who seemed to be somewhat of an expert, that drinking pinapple juice or eating citric fruits can change the flavor for the better. I would be happy to be a test donor if you are interested in taking one for science?

Actually she also recomended I stop eating meat and become a fruit eater only!

LOL

My fav thing used to be CIM swallow no little drop spared and yes Sully thrown in with Russian  you are in for some hot rocking.
Then 3 years ago I had oral surgery. Pulled some wisdom teeth and had my TMJ adjusted. I now have a huge gag reflex. While I still go at it like a hungry little puppy... I can only for so long then need to break to other activities and def same deal Char. .  . If its hits the back of my throat.. woooaaa bad news.
Now mind you this on a personal level with my partner. I have not done bbbj with anyone so... the strawberry flavored condoms I love.. lol

all indications are that from the messages I've read here, it sound like it needs to be seasoned to taste afterwards!


As an aside...Last night,I caught some of the show, Fear Factor.
It never ceases to amaze me as to what they are asked to eat.I also notice that women with big breasts are a prerequisite for being on the show.I actually was turned on watching that busty blonde licking up those hissing Madagascar Cockroaches...lol...showing ample and I do mean ample cleavage!

Cheers!

I saw the show too and my first thought was "do any of them tour"? The host did a great job of keeping eye contact without looking down when he was talking to them. What a gentleman. On second thought, it had to be the editing process.[EOM]

I agree, I love bbj! But, I'm aware of when I'm about to cum. I always let her know. If she keeps going, Great! If not, then I assume CIM or even swallowing is not her thing, and respect that.

If CIM is that important to you, then perhaps you should look for a woman that says she allows it.

It's a joke !

I'll probably get a few "eeewwws" for this, but I'll throw this in the ring nonetheless.  I've had a few homosexual "experiences", all of which were before my hobbying days.  I never was much into guys bodies, and definitely never considered any sort of "relationship", but the whole boner/ejaculation thing sort of fascinates me so I did have handful of mutual jackoff sessions, and a few exchanged blow jobs.

So, I've tasted my own goo (most guys do at some point, and anybody trying to convince me otherwise is lying), and I've tasted the goo from a few other guys as well.  That is a small sample size, but I though that my goo had a neutral taste to me (maybe a tad bit salty), while I thought the goo of the other guys was quite bitter, and definitely left me with a "this isn't right" feeling.  This could be the old "my farts don't stink" syndrome, where I'm more or less insensitive to the taste of my own cum, and I might simply not like the taste of the stuff.  But then again, I may have simply not sampled enough to know for sure (and I don't plan on extended that sample size any time soon).

Many providers I have been with have commented that my goo was rather sweet-tasting, but that could be part of the script.  My wife says that it is about the same as the others she has sampled.

I heard (or read on the internet) that you can improve the taste of your semen by ingesting pineapple juice or citrus fruits, and I didn't hear it as a joke on the TS board. There is actually a canned soft-drink sold at adult-lingerie type stores around here, called something like "Incum Tax" or "Prepayment" or something, that has nutmeg and pineapple juice and some other spices that supposedly make it taste better.

I also heard that asparagus definitely makes cum taste much worse. I personally am disgusted by the idea of sticking the stuff in my own mouth, but am delighted by the fact that providers (and most women I've been with) aren't squeamish about it at all. I am equally interested in female juices, and often they're equally disgusted ...

Made me say ewww, but still a great post

You learn something new every day!

Sure, the board moderators and systems dudes could track my IP back to me fairly easily (and perhaps they have), but to most of you I'm not exactly revealing myself here.

Besides, my experience in this matter is a simple extension of what most guys think.  Why do you think "money shots" are the norm in porno flicks.

For me it makes or breaks what can be a great BBBJ, BBBJ is good in itself, but A BBBJCIM no spitter is pure heaven. But saddly many don't do this, and I respect their reasons. It does up the level of risk for them. Or if they can do such a good job you don't know the difference its a close second. But no I have never given pearl necklaces or facials before either. But I have never popped without warning, or given warning. For me the physical signs of whats coming are always there and always clear. At least I never surprise the ones adverse to it.

But no it is not a pimary thing that I look for, but it is a secondary one. It can be a tie breaker for me anyway. If I can't choose between two.