Hello everyone! I'm a provider, a little bit new to this and have a question...or thoughts) I think everyone understands that for the majority of us it's just a temporary stage of our life...we also plan to have a normal career, relationship,etc...But how does "this" affect?... Let's imagine the situation: Mister Ban had a session with me and in 7 moths he sees me at his office during the job interview, for example...His actions? Zero chance that I will get this job? Plus he will inform everyone that I was a "provider"?...
Second scene: I have a normal relationship with a man,love,happiness,etc...Time to meet his friends. And...I realized that his friend had a session with me before...Actions of the friend?...
In addition, I don't know may be I am so lucky but 85% of my clients are single or divorced men, handsome, successful, etc. So, from my point of view theirs "hobby", that they call girls doesn't matter, I mean in social meaning, or am I wrong? Is it a secret for them too?  Do men communicate about it with friends in real life or just write reviews here? If we met on the street with previous client and he is not alone, again with friends for example, and invite me to have a dinner, how should I react?  
Yes, I am a little bit overthinking person  
Thank you in advance for all answers!

I think my current locked into a misserisble marriage is the temporary situation . Bieng  free to. Indulge is the future long term goal actually

with very rare exceptions, in any case.

You having been a hooker would not disqualify you from getting a job from me, I will concede that the better our session/s were, the more likely I would be to hire you. As for informing others that you used to be a hooker, that's not my style. If you wanted to keep it quiet, and I assume almost all ex hookers do, I would never be the one to tell others about your former occupation.  For the record, this is not a "hypothetical" question for me. I actually have hired an ex hooker that I had been with before.

My two cents:

I suppose it is not unheard of for a couple of guys (especially younger pals) to hit the brothels together.  But I imagine ( I have no evidence) that most guys don't let it be known they partake.  Paying for sex has a negative stigma -- even in the civie world of courtship where some guys try to buy affection with gifts.  This is universally mocked.  

I saw a lady and then saw her again at an alumni event.  Awkward!  However we both conducted ourselves professionally and that is all that mattered.  

... one thing about your OP I found interesting in that it seems outside the norm: you said 85% of your clients are single or divorced men.  That's a high percentage of single/divorced vs married compared to other formal and informal surveys I've seen.

I have hired, as a temp for my business , a lady that I see as a hooker. It was interesting paying her far less per hour. She was excellent at the sales job. She was very qualified for the job.  I really enjoyed being around her and she was the best choice for the job.  

Yes, English is not my first language  
Thank you for correction  
About how do I know about men- well, I don't meet men every day, can't do that, so, very selective about "process".
Plus they provide info for screening and thanks Google and other social media...  
And may be its my own way to find a husband ))

people in real life know that I see providers.  I just don't want them to know I'm that outlandish guy, CDL.  Making CDL the opposite of me is what keeps me anonymous.  

It seems like such a natural fit, after all.

Now you're trying to sell that you're NOT a corporate mogul?  Or that your 92 y/o daddy is not in a nursing home (or is your dad really only about 50 and your just a younger kid with too much time on your hands)?  Or that your two boys are a major part of helping you run your vast corporate empire?

Most of the ladies I see came from corporate or sales careers. Several of them still are involved in those careers and do this part time. So, they are dual professionals.
It's definitely why I have a real connection with them, I believe a real mutual respect and friendship.

I don't know about after their escort careers, but like Mick I've met several who were/are in sales before/during their escort career. I agree, it's a complete natural fit.

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A significant percentage of my friends are also whoremongers.  Nearly all of my non-whoremongering friends know what I do and enjoy my tales of debauchery.  Even some of their wives enjoy it, too.

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So you REALLY can't tell when I'm making a joke?  You want everything I say to be for real, so you have something to talk about?   Its pretty obvious you don't have an original thought in your head.  You're giving Chicago a bad name by being so dense.  I've sure your fellow residents are embarrassed for you, and for themselves at the thought that you're one of their own.  

Wouldn't a monger be a dealer or trader -- thus a whoremonger would be a pimp.

While your concerns are legitimate, the chance that any of them will materialize is small.  Speaking for muself: (1.)  I would never out a provider under any circumstances. I realize most providers want to keep this aspect of their lives secret, as do I. If I see you in public or learn that you are dating a friend, I keep my mouth shut.   (2.) I do not discuss the hobby with anyone.  (3.) I am an employer. I would not decline to hire someone whom I knew to be a provider if they were otherwise qualified for the job. However, you would do well to keep your face obscured in advertisements because it might be an issue for employers with public image concerns.  

I guess I am an outlier as well.  Many of my friends know I monger.

the other is a person involved with some affair that is unseemly, etc.

From Dictionary.com.
whore·mon·ger
[hawr-muhng-ger, -mong-, hohr- or, often, hoor-]

You just posted it here that you do.

I have hired a woman I met first as a stripper then later as a provider. She had the knowledge to do the job I needed and was an excellent employee for several years before moving on to a better job more fitting her skillset.

We're going to Rule The World... Xoxo

Taking your points in order:

Thanks for all answers! No one can't imagine how more relaxed I am now so, who will invite me for an interview?