Numerous opinions expressed on this board (and others) about how guys may or may not like dirty talk from their playmates.  

I can't share everything, but I have little limits when it comes to talking nasty.  

Rowr! Dirty talk is one if my favorite things. Not everyone is cut out for it. Takes a special talent .

dirty thoughts.

I used to have a lady make me audios for when I traveled on the road. I prefer audio erotica/porn over visual

...just does something to me.

I love dirty talk and I love The Matrix.  

I love it! Everyone should give it a try. So cool.

It’s perfect. Wrote a story for my naughty mind 😂

oh yeah? PM me the email you used so I can look it up, pretty please?

when it is felt and resonates; it is really bad when it is forced or over the top.  

Finally! Someone got a naughty one !

I have found filthy lure to be an  aphrodisiac when meeting a new provider..

Cum slut, anal whore, cum receptacle, fuckmeat, fuck toy, so much more.

What I mean is, I also enjoy dirty talk but in the moment I always second guess if what I say will be too much.

In the midst of coitus, the last thing anyone wants is to do is anger the person they’re sharing coitusness with. lol.
You arre absolutely right about the BDSM world as, generally speaking, almost any word can work... with the important exception of the ones that are going to genuinely upset or offend her. lol.
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Seriously though, when I’m playing the Dom role in a D/s date, I always ask beforehand if there are any words that are off limits. Sometimes it’s just the “C” word...sometimes there are a few others. A word that may seem completely harmless or vanilla to one person could bring up a painful memory for someone else, whether from a difficult RW experience or somethng that happened within this lifestyle. It is always better to know ahead of time and avoid crossing that line.
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As for more PSE style dates, I think most women are generally pretty understanding about things said in the heat of passion. I havve apologized once or twice afterward for something I thought may have crossed a line, only to be met with laughter and reassurance that it wasn’t a concern. In the moment however, they might have been upset and with their experience and thoughtfulness, just deceided to let it go.  
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I also agree about being more careful with women for whom English is a second language. In thos sitches, nuance, tone, and context can easily get lost, so it’s always better to approach those women with a bit more care, out of respect for them.

I don't think that there's ever been a time when I haven't felt that attempted dirty talk was contrived and forced, even when it's coming out of the mouth of a ridiculously hot woman. Guess I've been fed too much stripper BS in my ear during all of those VIPs that I'm now very suspicious and jaded 😄

I've been with a few of them and it didn't seem forced. The escorts I've been with have been quite believable and when they screw up it's usually funny.
One said, "I wanna be your ATM." I asked if she meant Cash Machine or Ass To Mouth.
Another one started yelling "Marry me! Marry me!!"
Then there was the one who was blowing me while I fingered her and, when I pulled out my fingers and smacked her ass, looked up briefly and just said, "Harder!" My kind of girl!