Numerous opinions expressed on this board (and others) about how guys may or may not like dirty talk from their playmates.
But ladies, is there dirty talk you like from the gents? Some examples of your favorites? Or do you prefer silence so you aren't distracted from the sensations your experiencing?
I can't share everything, but I have little limits when it comes to talking nasty.
I've done race play, talking about bbbfs, but not actually doing it, and many of my friends don't mind being called Daddy, or Papi! I love role play with talking dirty! 😊
Rowr! Dirty talk is one if my favorite things. Not everyone is cut out for it. Takes a special talent .
dirty thoughts.
I saw one gal who was HJ only, but along with the HJ she created a sexy story that even wove in elements such as involving the room maid we could hear outside the hotel room door.
It was one of the most erotic experiences I have ever had, and cannot think of any experience that came close to it in terms of involving my mind in erotic fantasy. I was fully hypnotized by her voice. It was soft and gentle, and she maintained eye contact with me the whole time.
It didn't hurt that she was gorgeous and extremely talented with her HJ technique.
Sorry, I can't give out information about her. It was a long time ago before TER even existed.
I used to have a lady make me audios for when I traveled on the road. I prefer audio erotica/porn over visual
...just does something to me.
I love dirty talk and I love The Matrix.
The constellation of these interests emerges as iamthewomaninthereddress.net
If dirty talk is calling you, give my lil’ creation a whirl. My digital avatar can answer this question much more verbosely than I have room to expound on her.
I love it! Everyone should give it a try. So cool.
Finally! Someone got a naughty one !
It’s perfect. Wrote a story for my naughty mind 😂
oh yeah? PM me the email you used so I can look it up, pretty please?
when it is felt and resonates; it is really bad when it is forced or over the top.
My own dirty talk is mostly limited to just when I am feeling it or if she opens the door for it.
I tend to read her cues pretty well.
I have found filthy lure to be an aphrodisiac when meeting a new provider..
What I mean is, I also enjoy dirty talk but in the moment I always second guess if what I say will be too much.
Ie, if in the middle of a steamy energetic session I utter "dirty whore", some providers might not like it. And that would make sense. Now if they themselves say it maybe it's more OK but idk. I don't want to come off as disrespectful or hurtful during the session, as girl getting upset or uncomfortable usually kills my boner.
With bdsm providers it's easier especially if they switch. Typically they know how the roleplay/dynamics go and know that words said are just that...words to ramp you up sexually. Also there usually a discussion of safe word, etc and roleplay.
But I'm not talking about some complex master/slave bdsm stuff just kind of regular vigorous sex and dirty talking. This how much dirty talk is too much, is even a bigger question with providers who don't know English well.
In the midst of coitus, the last thing anyone wants is to do is anger the person they’re sharing coitusness with. lol.
You arre absolutely right about the BDSM world as, generally speaking, almost any word can work... with the important exception of the ones that are going to genuinely upset or offend her. lol.
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Seriously though, when I’m playing the Dom role in a D/s date, I always ask beforehand if there are any words that are off limits. Sometimes it’s just the “C” word...sometimes there are a few others. A word that may seem completely harmless or vanilla to one person could bring up a painful memory for someone else, whether from a difficult RW experience or somethng that happened within this lifestyle. It is always better to know ahead of time and avoid crossing that line.
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As for more PSE style dates, I think most women are generally pretty understanding about things said in the heat of passion. I havve apologized once or twice afterward for something I thought may have crossed a line, only to be met with laughter and reassurance that it wasn’t a concern. In the moment however, they might have been upset and with their experience and thoughtfulness, just deceided to let it go.
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I also agree about being more careful with women for whom English is a second language. In thos sitches, nuance, tone, and context can easily get lost, so it’s always better to approach those women with a bit more care, out of respect for them.
