I'm going to be seeing a provider for the third time. On our first date, there were a couple of snafu's that resulted in me having a shorter session than I'd hoped for. She said she'd make it up the next time.

At this point, the time for reparations-- if any were actually owed-- has gone by.  

You should have brought it up the second time if you really felt the need...if you enjoy her company let it go. If it's going to bother you, move on to someone else.

I'll say that maybe the hooker didn't realize till after you left that you overpaid for the hour...as her assistant didn't really tell her it was supposed to be two.  Who knows (aside from the hooker and her assistant).

Since you don't get into details as to what it was, its hard for us to give advice.

ChgoCPA, I didn't pay for two and just get one. I was scheduled for 7 pm. The assistant called to say that the provider was running late, and that it would have to be 8 pm. I'd wanted to see her for three hours, but with her running half an hour late and then the appointment being moved, I was only able to see her for two.

I would say that you should take it up with the booker if anyone, it's quite possible that the provider isn't even aware she "owes" you.

My advice is if you are going to bring it up, do so right fucking now or just drop it.

My question is after the first, two hour session that was supposed to be three, why did you pay her for three hours in the first place? I am inclined to agree with those that say "it's on you"

So nowhere were you shorted...not on time, service.

Unless you are reading his reply differently than I am.

In which case he should really just STFU and get on with his life, and quit sweating the small stuff. Now if he had taken this long drive and she was a no show, or rushed him through a 45 minute session when he was expecting a long, non rushed visit, then I could see his point. Gettting a session that by his own admission he was fully satisfied with, satisfied enough to see her two more times puts this in the category of STFU and find something legit to bitch about.

You fucking "drove so far" ? It sounds like a visit to the dentist ! Honestly , find a better way to hobby ! I prefer outcall , in a city that offers entertainment too. Guys running around for the "appointment" then driving "far" is nuts . I wouldn't do it . Find some closer entertainment and some girls that may visit a locale near you !

Don't take advantage of each other. She knows what she did and was hoping sex would excuse wrong doings

Sheesh. This is a tough crowd.

One time, this girl was tied up with her previous appointment so our session started 20 minutes late. On top of that, she didn't tell me she had to check out by 1 (my appointment was at 12) so we had to wrap up in 30 minutes. She then had the nerve to tell me she would give me a 50% discount NEXT time (unfortunately she already took my donation). Needless to say, there was no next time. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, well, you know. Move on!

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Your situation she ripped you off.

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To Move !  

Posted By: 89Springer

Sheesh. This is a tough crowd.  
   
 I asked because I see someone mention that he did this or that, and everybody's all over him for being a "mangina" or some such. I asked because she said she'd make it up to me, whatever that means, but so far hasn't done anything. If I said that I'd driven 400 miles, stayed overnight, and then she was late and my three hours became two, somebody would be crawling up my ass about that.  
   
 So, I asked if anyone thought there's something she should do to make it up, or if the time for that has passed.  
   
 As for finding someone in my area, good luck. You'd have better pickings visiting a sheep ranch.

Sometimes life intervenes. Should we ladies ask for more compensation or a shorter visit at our regular rate when a guy books for 3 hours but because of his secretary scheduled him a meeting it is now 2? Yeah happens to us and we have to suck it up. It is not her problem you have to travel for ass.  

Carvel ! See u girls need to be creative . Or Wednesday is Sunday 1/2 off ! Or a Super Sale , get 2 menu items the 3rd free ? Drive 400 miles and she'll throw in an oil change wipers and give u a "lube job" !

I fail to see the difference. The girl I saw at least gave me a few good sessions before she pulled this one on me

If you booked 3 hours and could only do two because of "something" would you go see her again and pay for three but stay 2?

Yeah I know you guys wished we were like those store that did that but you see,  on the free one some guys would take advantage of that and bang us into the freaking mattress making it impossible to work for three days so in effect we lose soooo much more. Fiscally not in our favor long term, well for a few days that is lol.  

ask for a discount and you will not get the optimal experience you are looking for IMO.

No one here uses the terms "tampon sniffer" or "NoBalls" what kind of forums have been been hanging out on anyhow?

Now mangina is a totally different matter, you may qualify for that one, but we haven't seen enough to tell just yet. lol

Magina's overused. Try tampon-sniffer. It has style.

We deliver our body parts for you to do things with/to. We have no idea how we will be treated. Some guys are known to bang the living daylights out of women who offer specials to "get their monies worth". It's not like we can offer 6 extra minutes of intercourse, or maybe we should and offer that as the special addon.  

And look at those bedroom eyes, hey Dolly aint no schlub, she  is hot! Not bad for a clone huh?

I have been a service provider my entire life...all I have ever sold is my time (and companionship LOL).

All those physical attributes seem to run in the family.

Having your vagina pummeled for 50 minutes is a lot different than having to sit with a client and listen to his idea of how he should invest. I do have another job where i deal with clients and have to sit through client meetings etc etc.  

Pretty sure I agree with all of this.

well ok two "of" the biggest woman haters, I forgot about our good buddy Panthera, but I digress. Even "woman haters" like me and CCPA don't think she owes him shit. That should tell you something right there. lol

IMO waiting until after two quality sessions to bitch about this makes him look cheap and petty at this point. If he had paid for  that third hour I could understand her "owing" him, but I would simply chalk this up to "shit happens" as well

You must be approaching 1M miles?

I can see some Extra Time. But a Discount ain't gonna happen.

Due to her snafus. If you only paid for 2 hrs then I don't see what the deal is. You got what you paid for. In this case, I agree with justanillusion; shit happens. You were inconvenienced and disappointed, but did NOT get shorted. A simple apology on her part would suffice. It was a nice gesture for her to offer to make it up to you. However, since you didn't cash in your chips on your second date, I am afraid it's a bit tacky to ask now.

Thank you. That is an opinion. It's what I was looking for.

It could work, ya never know. .  

Just remember, we are all human. Don’t make a big deal of it because it isn’t.

I would not mention it. Seems like she's making you happy, you didn't pay for more than you got, you just got a little less time than you wanted.
I too live a ways from where the girls are and you don't really get any consideration for that.
In my opinion, most providers would not think it was too big a deal if you only got two hours instead of three.
If you enjoy her company, see how things go, if things start happening again that you don't like, then move on.

"She was a bit late, and her assistant moved my appointment back an hour, so I wasn't able to see her for the time period I'd hoped for. I don't know what sort of reparations would be reasonable, but I'm thinking a discount or some extra time wouldn't be unreasonable.  "

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You got what you paid for even if it wasn't what you originally expected.  She doesn't owe you anything.  If she WANTED to "make it up to you" she would have made a note to do it on your second session.  Bringing it up now will only create bad feelings.  If you enjoy your visits with here why screw it up?

If your date was shortened, then you should have adjusted your donation right then & there.  She gave you good service, you've been happy with her.  Making it up to you is being on time, the next time.  At most a few extra minutes.  
This is a cash business.  Pay as you go.  Once you are out the door IOUs are worthless (unless she decides otherwise).  
At this later date, you can gently mention the snafu & see what making up is possible but be very gentle as being pushy could spoil things in the future.

Thanks to some of the posters here on this thread, I have let it go.

Put aside your hatred (don't believe that for a second) and looked at the facts. For that I thank you and CPA.

Your friends are wise as "specials" tend to bring out the bangathon types which really mess it up for the rest.