Since there is no universal answer to this question, my suggestion is to keep your weight at a level that makes YOU happy.

As for my opinion, since you asked, lol At 125-130 I personally would hope that you are at least 5' 7" to be of the ideal height/weight proportions for me. This too would vary upon your body type as some women at 5' 7" would look downright scrawny at 125 lbs and others would like a bit chunky, but since you asked, that is my general opinion.

My last two clients have made a comment about my weight.  One of the guys was really big and tall, the other was average size, but the big guy said I was a little too thin, and the other guy commented at dinner how little I eat and no wonder I'm so thin.  I am not that damn thin.  I weigh like 125-130 but am tall.  If I do put on weight, it doesn't go to the right place- it turns into cottage cheese ass or love handles.

People who are anorexic see themselves as fat even when they're actually emaciated.  If I were you'd I'd make sure people know what to expect re your looks so they are not concerned or disappointed.  To me, this is just like any other physical characteristic.  Some will like you they way you are, some won't.  So the only issue is, if they've done their homework right they should know what to expect and not be surprised.

Hold the gravy. If you're healthy, why fret.

...prior to the date.  Perhaps if your photos haven't been updated recently, you might consider doing that? Also, make sure they're a fair and accurate representation.  Just a thought; you may already be doing these things.

People who would never say to an overweight person "You eat like a pig, no wonder you are fat" feel perfectly comfortable telling someone who is thin "you eat like a bird, no wonder you are skin and bones"

Yes, there are double standards everywhere you look.

Some guys just like a little meat on the bones and are quite rude in expressing it. I say the problem is with the jerks telling her she is too skinny, and much less to do with any weight issue she may or may not have.

but one things for sure, that is those two guys have fat heads.

I like gals of all body styles.  I revel in diversity.

The anorexic look with the ribs sticking out however is where I draw the line.

and like how you look, that is all that matters.

And probably at your doctor's office. If you are within the normal bmi range, and in good health, why worry?

So commenting on thinness typically isn't the same as commenting on one being overweight.
When I lost weight, I got tons of comments about it, including people who saw me at work with my lunch and commented "oh, now I understand how you've lost weight."  Or hell, some even DID comment that they they thought I was losing "too much" weight and needed to stop dieting.  Or even, "have you been sick?" someone said with a concerned look. While some comments crossed over the line, none were AT ALL comparable to the insults that can be hurled at the overweight (experienced this end of things once or twice too).  This is because, thinness is generally seen as good, so if you say somesome is getting too thin, IMO it often just means you think they are taking their good eating discipline and exercise habits just a little too far and should back off.  When you criticize someone as being fat, there is no silver lining, it usual implies you think they DON'T have self discipline, etc.

I think the camera just adds some pounds.  And then of course Aldo adding a butt where there is none, etc.  Just kidding!

If you see a pair of Venetian blinds and think, “Ooh - a bunk bed,” you’re probably too thin regardless of height.

If you start thinking you need to put on weight because two johns make comments like this then you regret it.  Doesn't seem too smart to me to let anyone else, including us, dictate what your weight should be.  That should be between you (what makes you feel best and look best in your eyes) and your doctor (is what makes you feel best actually healthy).

125 lbs and 6'2 is just right for me.  Love to count the rib bones.

the over-inflated look where you can't see any bones at all? Do you draw a line there as well?

You are thin at that htw ratio... but it is close enough that it could look good on you, know what I mean? Depends on your body. I wouldn't worry about it unless you have an eating problem and/or health problems.

It's not just about whether you are thin (lacking body fat BMI wise) or not. If you are athletic and pack refined muscles, that's where is at (of course very hard to maintain).

Or something similar at any rate. People are just unkind, well at least some of them. It is life, and you can't win for losing, but you certainly can lose for winning. When you make your money in part based on looks some asshole somewhere will take a swipe at your looks.

You are giving the nursing staff quite the workout.

I doubt many will comment on a weight issue.

And as for eating a lot in front of a client, I prefer not to as being full can interfere with the night's festivities, so I'll usually just have a lil appetizer or salad but don't have an eating disorder or anything like that

You like what you like...and survivors from Auschwitz don't work for you?

you can keep track of him better. It works on my dog.

But Inspector Gordon needs a job.

percent body fat versus lean mass makes a huge difference in weight and appearance, as does body frame size. BMI is meaningless for a muscular/fit person with low body fat, because bone and muscle mass is so much denser than fat mass

Then let "us" know if you still want to "thank him"

I don't know, is it me or are you coming off a bit stalkerish and hounding him like a puppy on these here boards. I'm thinking he might have to microchip you to keep you away or you might go to town on his leg next. You're like a dog in heat when he posts lol. My goodness, leave it be.  

Listen...he's ready and willing to see you.  Or he was last summer.

Really doesn't matter what another soul anywhere on this planet thinks of your weight...as long as you are good with what you see everyday, that's ALL that matters.  

She's just in need of some good ole DrWho attention.  LOL

Can't chicks be white knights too?

Not sick of him in the least, but thank you for speaking for me as usual. (rolling eyes lol)

You and Tobi together would be a mixed treat, it might be difficult to maintain an erection while laughing ones ass off.

For that height and weight, in those charts I mentioned below. However, it is still in the normal range, so you are not too skinny, if you lose a few pounds, you would be considered underweight.

some feel it's ok to call a thin person too thin, skinny, malnourished etc, yet feel it's not ok to use unflattering adjectives to describe someone overweight. The message is to forget labels and what others think, love yourself and screw what others think.
 

The OP in MN (and I'm not him) started the thread in question, but Tidwell made it a train wreck.  That is the truth despite his refusal to admit it.  Please notice how he conflates a couple of issues and ends up posting that I support harassing women, which of course I don't.   He has no idea who I am and he makes such leaps of logic that they are truly mind boggling.  But we see here how twisted he really is.  

Too cute Mr Grant.  

Not for nothin' but YELLING XOXO AT ME still won't work I'm afraid lol

I ravaged a juicy bacon cheeseburger with gorgonzola cheese and spinach just last night paired with a nummy glass of sweet red vino.....

Woman who are taller than myself are too tall.

Xoxo PS #115 is all yours just say when where )))

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was in and of itself a problem for me.

I know I probably shouldn't be saying this, but some wag once opined that making love to a very obese woman is like riding a moped.

It's a lot of fun, but you wouldn't want anyone watching you do it.

But, that's what bedroom doors are for anyway.

Bottom line, the lady has to be comfortable with her own self and not worry about what everyone else thinks. This market is big enough for anyone to have those that appreciate what they have. Some even may feed a niche.

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ok, ya ready?

You can't LUV me afterwards either lol  

So we can't fall in love?

NO.

FUCK NO