I read from many guys who want to bring a gift to the provider. When I started hobbying, I was shocked to see some providers post their wish list on their web sites. GUYS, LET'S GET REAL. The provider is a professional providing you with service in exchange for pay. THAT IS ALL. She's not your buddy or your girlfriend. And unless you have a ton of money, she'll never be your girlfriend.

Yes! She is providing you with the fantasy of being your girlfriend (and not all providers do that.)But that's all it is: A fantasy. She's an actress and I should thank the ones that act well.

Save your gifts for your wife, girlfriend, or loved ones. And save your money for your favorite provider

I've never bought any gifts for the provider. The best I've ever did was tip $500 from a $1500 session so that equals $2000 in total for 2 hours.

I'll give a gift when it strikes me to give one.  Even if I agree that, yes, she's a professional and it's a service in exchange for pay.  That has nothing to do with why I choose to give a gift.  

For $$ In D.C you didn't leave her a tip or present?

A gift is simply that, a gift.  I've never read on any provider site that you HAVE to give a gift.  They're simply giving those that would want to an idea or two.  Haven't you ever got something, either on your birthday or christmas or whenever that you said to yourself that the giver obviously didn't know what you wanted?  I like to bring flowers for the lady, not because I have to, but because I want to.  It's a good way to set the mood, especially if I'm meeting her for the first time.  I've never had a lady say "no thanks".  It does not have to be a dozen roses either, just a nice arrangement you can get at any local store.  Nothing like starting off in the right mood.

But at this point, any diamond I'd get would be one I found.

You find no possibility of having a friendship with a provider? That's pretty sad. These ladies are people and they have feelings like anyone else, why make them out to be unappreciating money-grubbers? I have given gifts before and if the ladies didn't really appreciate them, then the Academy Award definitely went to the wrong person. Gifts aren't supposed to be given with the intent of securing future favors, or expecting a provider to return gifts back to you. It is friendship that is supposed to guide the giver. If you don't want to give gifts to anyone, that's your decision. Some of us that do give gifts on occasion to providers don't appreciate your condescending words. I never learned anything of value from someone as cynical as you seem to be. Open your mind and wisdom shall enter

I give gifts to my ATF because I like the the way she responds to receiving them. You could say I do it more for me than her.

and  get  it  out  of  your  head  that  we are  just a  hole  to  stick your  slong into. for  money  or  not  we  are  women and all  we  want  is  to  be  treated  with  respect  and  longing.

And  sometimes a  gift is  just a  gift  of appreciation and we  like  them. Not  necessary  but  welcomed.

I  already  over  pay  my  maid, by  industry  standards, and I  give  her  gifts  for  her and  her  family. I  do  know  that  no  one  else  she  works  for  does  this  for  her, but I  have  her  loyalty  and  respect.

I give gifts on a regular basis to the ladies I see. Partly to "break the ice" and partly in lieu of tips; because cash is short and I can charge the gifts. Some of the ladies I plan to see either don't have "wish lists" on their site or insist on the fee being paid after the session (or both); so I'm not sure how I will handle those.

You obviously have more money than you do sense.  I'll give a small gift at the start of a session when I WANT TO & for whatever reason I want to.  And yes, most times it's a nice way to break the ice and leads to a better session.

I agree Karrie. I buy my special provider friends gifts not always expensive an most of the time not. I really think they appreciate them not for the gift as much as the thought. It takes as much effort to but a small gift as a large one just less money. I reaaly don't think too much of providers i have read or heard in chat rooms putting guys down for the flower or candy gifts. They could have shown up with nothing but their weiners in their hands as long as intentions are honest.

Since I started easylay bought me a new shower head! I love it!!

Naughtiness
Kadi

and now he gives you "head" everyday,best way to be remembered~!