For me it's BLS. Maybe I got kicked in the nuts too much as a kid but I don't get it all. Does nothing for me. There are other things that aren't my jam like Greek or prostate play, but I've tried those and still got pleasure. BLS, however, nothing at all. I don't get it....

and the less they are played with the better.

Does nothing for me. Though I do "get it" that it turns others on. Everyone's got different buttons.

I'll eat pussy all day, but I'm not sticking my tongue in anybody's asshole. Nor do I want anyone putting theirs (or anything else) in mine

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Do you have names for them? LOL..

I left high school behind a long time ago.  In the olden days, if you tried to make out with a lady, she would jerk away and glare at you like you were nuts.

Of course I do "get it" but I don't like it.  Too much confusion whether to focus on my pleasure or hers.  Different body sizes can make things awkward.  And not a fan having my nose that close to her anus.  

How about Sam and Dave?

BLS was mentioned above as a popular activity they don’t get. After having hernia surgery several years ago, I lost a slight amount of sensitively about the shaft and head. The balls did not lose sensitivity so BLS is very exciting.

People do things that make them feel good. Each person has their own kinks and such. Might be a pc answer but it's true.. I don't engage in many kinks because theyre not for me, but I get why people might like it... because it feels good to them.

Perhaps I never did it as much as I should have when I was younger, but I do not get doggie fucking.  It must be great for ass men, but I am visually stimulated as much by feel.

DFK after the rim.  Oddly, DFK after BBBJ is ok.  I guess anything after a BJ is ok.  HA!  

Yeah it's because it looks great in porn until you realize they film that from the front. However, over the last 5yrs I've grown fond of beautifully toned backs so I like doggie now more than before.

... does nothing for me. I don't know what's so great about it. I can take it or leave it and I've met a few women who were really into it and basically insisted on it. I aim to please so I went along. It's not something I find distasteful at all, I just prefer regular sex.

Literally and figuratively speaking. Seriously though, not into butt play — giving or receiving. So definitely not into greek action. Not into squirting/pissing action either. However, I am very much into receiving BLS. I’ve built up quite a tolerance over the years with my old oral ATF who was a big fan of playing squirrel, juggling, gobbling, polishing, whatever you want to call it. Whenever I get a provider to BLS me until I’m hard, I’m not going to have any performance issues whatsoever. Not into the light nail scraping on the sack though. We all have our thing!

Fuck putting urine in my mouth claiming it’s not urine. Enough “ science” has been done about it. It’s still like mythology to some people. It’s just a fucking broad who can let it go idiots. Just change squirting to pissing. I do that all day and aim better .

My opinion/2 cents is, it's a power thing, sex is an after thought!
Also, a "yeah I've done it", like I go where not too many go!

I think the fluid comes from the Skenes gland which would make it not urine, but I could be wrong.

Thank you.  
I was composing my response as I read down the thread, and found that you already clearly expressed what I was about to say about assholes and piss.
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My balls have always been liable to twinge painfully from being juggled, so I'm not a big fan -- but I "get" that; when they don't twinge, it feels great.

My balls are super sensitive.  I don't mind a girl lightly running her fingers over them, but she tries sucking on a nut it hurts like hell.  I get really nervous when their mouths start going for my nuts.
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Similarly, RCG hurts me.  When I have an erection, but penis doesn't bend backwards.  I don't understand how other guys do it.
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I have no interest in assholes.  I don't want to stick my dick or my tongue into one.
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Doggies style doesn't do much for me.  I'm pretty vanilla.  Missionary is my favorite.
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You're not getting near my asshole.

It's just that these things are not for me personally:

I always tell her that I'll let her know when she's sucking to hard. Never had to tap out yet.

I am very sensitive when it comes to BLS, so I don’t want my boys being licked! I absolutely love doggie, mainly because I can last for a long time and being able to see my dick going in and out of her pussy is a beautiful site! 69 I love because just the thought of having my dick in her mouth while my face is buried in her pussy really gets  me going, starting out like this help me preform better!

I've had providers sit on me and have a big ole loogie swing over me to eventually drop on my boobs or crotch. I've literally gagged and had to hold back puking at the sight of it. I feel my stomach knotting up just talking about it! Now if I ever see it heading in that direction I stop it immediately. I have no idea the attraction to that shit.

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I feel like if you have a great ass and you don't do doggie, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl you are missing out on driving your client crazy. I just love grabbing it. Squeezing it, slapping it and even making out with it. I understand it gets tiresome, especially if you seen multiple that day.  But the best is when someone is in cowgirl squatting down and just fucking the shit out of you. Nothing drives me more crazy.

You called it!  
Wet kisses and wet licking and wet sucking,  I like.  Saliva flying through the air, no thanks.  That's aggressively disrespectful, across cultures (well, Arrakeen Fremen aside).
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I don't much like seeing semen fly through the air either.  No matter if it's mine or some porn dude.  That stuff should stay within bodily orifices, please, or be removed in the condom.

but I’m not into choking, or anything that inflicts pain.  And I’m not going to stick my tongue into a lady’s asshole.  I think there’s much better ways for my tongue to get involved in the fun.  

I have decided that Greek isn't really for me. It seems I focus on the reality that the woman isn't really enjoying it or if I go from ass to pussy, will that create a health problem  for the woman.  
Pegging also leaves me cold. During a double, one girl was riding me & suddenly the other started pegging me. Not my thing.  Oddly, I do enjoy prostate stimulation during oral.  
I seem to get real pleasure now from a straight up MFM. No sword crossing, just great to see a woman enjoying herself.  
Anything involving hitting or rough stuff really turns me off. Slapping, hair pulling, choking.. all is a huge negative I realize.