TER General Board
I never say no to multiple pops. I feel like it's your time and I love to pamper my friends.
However, let's also be objective about this business. It is a business even if we enjoy your company. Now, this does not pertain to everyone and it may or may not pertain to your post, but if a guy books me for an hour and cannot get hard again (due to no fault of mine) and wants to get a second or a third pop in, but it will take him another 40 minutes to do so and it's nearing the end of the date, then I think he needs to make good on the donation for that time alloted. And no, I'm not generally a clockwatcher, but ooh I hate hearing that term. Believe me when I say that all of us (providers) are sick and tired of the word "clockwatcher." We should be, because it is by the hour, yet so many men fail to remember it.
We receive donations by the hour and many by the half hour. That is why we have set donations on our websites. Otherwise, what would be the point of having more donations given with extra time, or in scheduling a three-hour date if everyone who pays only for an hour expects two hours, etc? Our time is valuable, and some ladies have a tight schedule. Even if I only book one a day, I still have plans for later in the day and also have other work I do from home.
I've noticed in the past two years that some women feel they need to give extra time because some men talk about them negatively if they are termed "a clockwatcher." That's ridiculous and petty on the male's part! I wish some guys (not talking about you hon) would stop talking about clockwatching. Believe me, that's the most annoying thing/term to providers and well talked about on other boards by professional women who take their businesses seriously.
It's simple: If you book an appointment with a psychologist, you schedule for so many hours and then the session is over, same with other consultants. This goes out to everyone: Respect us and don't overstay your welcome. Many of us will allow for extra time, and I often do, but it's those who automatically expect it and who are hard to get out the door are men that we get thoroughly annoyed with and feel taken advantage of. Now, if a lady says it's okay to stay longer, then so be it. But, if she says, "Would you like a shower" and proceeds to get up," then it's time to leave. PERIOD>>>>>>> Don't start in with another story "you find interesting." We need you to leave for one reason or another.
I'm not being mean, just realistic. I only chose to discuss your initial post in further detail because sometimes it does relate to how many pops you get. If you click with someone and she wants to give you additional time then great! If you cannot do two or three pops (which, believe me, the majority cannot) in an hour, then be prepared to give her the extra donation agreed upon for that addtional time spent. If you can do three pops in an hour then good for you. If you feel like you haven't seen the right ladies who will provide that for you, simply ask ahead of time. It will save you time and donations.
That is why I love two to three-hour dates. I have plenty of time to give a top-rated massage (and not for just 10 minutes), give you as many pops as you wish in that time, pamper you with yummy delights and possibly Champagne, whatever. I do like it to feel more like a date -- where you get really lucky. 
Remember, in the past it was common place to only get one pop. High-end escorts have made it possible for gentlemen like you to have a GFE experience. Now, go out, make good choices and happy hobbying. If you're ever in Phoenix, look me up. If I'm not available I'll hook you up with some of the best, baby!
Hugs,
Ciara
-- Modified on 12/28/2008 11:13:08 AM