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briellehendrix01 See my TER Reviews 3 reads
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If she’s a legit and reviewed provider like you said, you have nothing to worry about. It’s a safety measure - you’re on camera every time you leave the house whether you know it or not. She’s not risking her reputation or brand by leaking a video of you walking in the living room.. can’t say if she’s telling the truth if it worked, only she knows. Highly doubt she’s a weirdo that has a camera where the action takes place though.  

Whether you see it or not, you should ALWAYS assume each provider has a method to protect themselves. I don’t mean to sound harsh.. but if you don’t like it and schedule an outcall, you still can’t guarantee they won’t have options. Not saying your concern isn’t valid! I hear you, I just think you’re speaking one-sidedly and not trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Most women genetically cant fight off even a small - average size man. Sorry it spooked you, but a safety net is important just like your discretion. Security cameras statistically deter crime.. and it’s a lot more professional than having a gun mounted to the wall

I recently went to see a reputable lady with about 2 pages of good reviews. I had a good time, and before I left, I remember thinking I'd like to see her again.  The apartment is kind of a studio, with a small bedroom or alcove bedroom.  When you walk in, the kitchen is two feet in.
When we were saying our goodbyes, basically in the pass through of the kitchen, I saw something move out of corner of my eye. We're talking, I take a step back towards the door, and again I see something move.  This time I turned my head toward the kitchen to see what it was, and there is a mounted camera in a 3"x5" white rectangle, facing us.  When my head turned, it moved again.  She asked if I was freaked out and I said YES.  She then said "it's just for my safety, and it doesn't record".  I don't think I responded, but I was thinking, if it doesn't record, how does it help her safety?  I was pretty stunned, and walked out the door.
That got me thinking about if there were other cameras in the room, and how often they are in other apartments.  It really has me re-thinking ever doing an incall again.

I'm fairly new to this, and my first time I was concerned about cams, so I booked a room and scheduled an outcall.

Since then I stick to well known girls with a lot of reviews, and I don't worry about it.  That doesn't mean it won't happen, but I mind my manners and don't give them a reason for concern.

I always assume that any woman who uses her residence as an incall might have cameras around.  

 
A woman I had seen a few times who is Florida based told me right off the bat that she has a Ring doorbell and a camera in her kitchen and we'd have to walk past it to get to the bedroom. I was comfortable enough with her to not worry about it.

hehitshewins0 reads

I’m not buying it doesn’t record. A camera that doesn’t is a fake camera or a toy. Like you said, what’s the point? What does a dummy camera do for her safety? Now I might buy that she doesn’t keep the recording, and perhaps that’s what she meant. If she’s a legit provider, she likely wouldn’t want to risk losing her clients by doing anything with said recordings. But yeah, I wouldn’t feel great about it.

I do not entertain at my private residence. I utilize Wyze to monitor my home it records. I would assume most people have cameras. Ring cam is very popular. Anytime a crime happens the first thing people look for is cameras. Who had one and who's recording?

Just assume anytime you step outside your getting recorded.

hehitshewins0 reads

I’m not familiar with Wyze, but most people use Ring to monitor outside. An outside security camera is very common. I wouldn’t have any concerns about one. What the OP described sounded like an inside the house camera. That’s a little more concerning.

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I don’t do in-calls unless I’ve meet the provider before. They want all kinds of information from you but don’t want to reveal anything about themselves. You need to protect yourself.

If she’s a legit and reviewed provider like you said, you have nothing to worry about. It’s a safety measure - you’re on camera every time you leave the house whether you know it or not. She’s not risking her reputation or brand by leaking a video of you walking in the living room.. can’t say if she’s telling the truth if it worked, only she knows. Highly doubt she’s a weirdo that has a camera where the action takes place though.  

Whether you see it or not, you should ALWAYS assume each provider has a method to protect themselves. I don’t mean to sound harsh.. but if you don’t like it and schedule an outcall, you still can’t guarantee they won’t have options. Not saying your concern isn’t valid! I hear you, I just think you’re speaking one-sidedly and not trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Most women genetically cant fight off even a small - average size man. Sorry it spooked you, but a safety net is important just like your discretion. Security cameras statistically deter crime.. and it’s a lot more professional than having a gun mounted to the wall

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