Found a provider with no reviews on Tryst in a location outside my state I visit often and set up a session.  She and I communicated often around logistics and I gave my deposit as requested. Upon arrival in her city, she rescheduled twice and then told me she could not keep the third scheduled appointment because her flight back into town was late (she took her child on a quick getaway) and she offered to return my deposit since she couldn't make it.  

Respectable. Your a true gentleman. Keep us posted. Xoxo

this situation? If she accepts a second booking from you without requiring a deposit, a truly good gentleman has found a truly classy lady.

I hope your next apt goes well.
But, being of a skeptical nature as most are on this board....please keep us posted on how it goes.  

Did you make it clear that the deposit was now a gift? Or do you expect her to apply the deposit against your next booking request?  I would do the latter, under similar circumstances, assuming I felt her excuse was sincere.  

I had the same thoughts.  The OP didn't clarify to us whether this was a gift or a deposit on hold. Hopefully the latter,  otherwise I'd call him a chump.

You’re. Grammar matters.

No review no deposit.  Thanks for taking one for the team 😁.
On a serous note however,  providers  have  a life too,so things do happen.
Hope she make good on the next tryst - happy hunting/hobbying .

Thanks for the clarification request! Yes- I told the young lady that the deposit was a gift and not a hold on a next appointment.

You're delusional. This guy got taken advantage of, and he simply gave her money....for nothing. That somehow makes him a "gentleman"? No honey, that makes him foolish. (sorry OP, real talk here)

How much of a deposit are we talking about here??
If it’s $100 ok, no biggie…But to give anything more to a non review out of your city girl a deposit … man that shouldn’t happen.  
By the way, I’m in the group of the “No deposit, no way”

Just lost all respect for you...

As promised, here is the update! Recap: In December, I made an appointment for a young lady and gave a deposit. Although she was a no show, we communicated throughout the week I was in town to make it work but ultimately, she said she was sorry she could not keep the session. Hearing her life story, I told her to keep the deposit (not apply it to a next visit) and hopefully see her upon my return to town.

if she actually honors the appointment.  But since you don't seem to care much for your hard earned money, it really shouldn't matter.

It was just $50. I will be there again next week,. Maybe I will try again.

You must have been sleeping to have any respect for her to begin with..

After she no-showed you TWICE?? You're insane.

It's your money. Do whatever you want. It's not my business.

Noooo! I did not give her another deposit. I called her and made an appointment - cost me .25!  She made the new appointment and ghosted me.

But you can post her info here, so no one else falls in the same trap.

You need to post her information to warn others. I took a gamble on a provider who asked for a small deposit and was ghosted, and she disappeared for months. She suddenly starts advertising she's back,  and still has my deposit. I posted it on the NY Board bc she's heading to NYC again.

I get what you have done but I would have asked for a rescheduled date or gave you the deposit back until I could schedule something.

Next time! Thanks for your response!

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