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RomanticWarrior 3011 reads
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1 / 43

Hi, some providers use photo verification, that is you text a selfie to them...but what good does that due?? I am just thinking of the privacy issue, no one would want their photo out there...any opinions? thank you all..

GaGambler 105 reads
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2 / 43

From the provider side, I suppose if you end up murdering her it gives LE a VERY good place to start looking. It also ensures that the guy that shows up at her door is the guy she actually screened. It has happened that guys have let other guys use their P 411 account to book appointments, so the guy that shows up is not the guy she actually screened.

 
Personally, unless you are one of those guys (like me) who really doesn't give a fuck if your picture ends up splashed all over the internet so EVERYONE can see that you patronize hookers, I would advise STRONGLY against sending one. Actually, even though my picture is already splashed all over the internet, and virtually everyone in both my business and personal life already know I like to fuck hookers, I still wouldn't send a selfie as part of screening. It's your choice of course to decide how much risk and how many hoops you are willing to jump through in order to see any one given hooker.

JackDunphy 119 reads
posted
3 / 43

1) they want to weed out undesirable races.  

 
2) they want to weed out undesirable body types i.e. guys "too fat"

 
3) they want to weed out someone maybe too old or too young

 
4) some believe it helps with the "connection"

 
5) others just want the person they see through the peep hole is the same person that sent them the pic

 
6) still others view it as a case of "fairness" i.e. you get to see what they look like so they feel they should be able to see you as well

 
Now, much like sending RW info, I am thoroughly against it. It is just another level of risk most men wont take and def not something I would ever do.

trex44 9 Reviews 94 reads
posted
4 / 43

...that I'll jump through during her screening process, and there are some through which I will not jump.

Sending a photo of me is a hoop too far, for me; there's no telling where my likeness will go or for what ends it might be used.

Perhaps she will dump the photo and my contact info once we've successfully completed our appointment...or perhaps she won't -- I'm just not going to take that risk.

Buena suerte!

36363jensen 4 Reviews 95 reads
posted
5 / 43

One more aspect may be they don't really know who they screened is actually standing at the door.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 100 reads
posted
6 / 43

First I don't (almost never) see pros who aren't on P411.  The one (or two?) who weren't on P411 were well known and had good reputations.  A few (one?) asked for photo ID.  Because of their long standing reputation in the biz, it didn't bother me to send the photo ID.  
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But I wouldn't send it to just anybody, especially someone off Backpage or whatever.  

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 115 reads
posted
7 / 43

In the words of one Gag...And I agree with you on on all counts...very good dumpy.
I have no problem sending a pic if it'll make her comfortable.
Of course I'm laughing with you, not at you....not me, No sir...lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 92 reads
posted
8 / 43

many Vegas hookers use photos.  If you go to her hotel incall, and you are not the same guy as in  the photo, they will not open the door.  If she is coming to your hotel room, and the guy who opens the door is not the guy in the photo she received, she will leave and not come into the room.

JackDunphy 97 reads
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9 / 43

I have noticed how some super smart posters here, get SO dumb on the P&R. LOL

 
Of course I don't mean you hyper. You are ok. You have a sense of humor at least. Some of your lib boys need to get laid or something. lol.

 
You keep sending those pictures though. When you get busted and that pic is on the front page of USA Today, I am sure you couldn't be as ugly as GaG.  

 
Have you seen THAT mugshot? Yeesh! lol

inicky46 61 Reviews 102 reads
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10 / 43
Angel4Life 94 reads
posted
12 / 43

Booked an appointment in Atlanta a few days ago.  This am she sends me a PM requesting information and a Photo ID.  I have 35 we Mets on A reputable verification service.  I told her that I spend $$$ a year so I should not have to do this..  she insisted so I politely cancelled.  Like others have stated, this is 1 hoop I will not jump through.

clinder1 123 Reviews 94 reads
posted
13 / 43

Who was the girl if you don’t mind me asking? I live in Atlanta and had the same thing happen awhile back. I felt the same way, and canceled the appointment.

Johnnycade 28 Reviews 100 reads
posted
14 / 43

I'm the same way.  As part of P411 I'm willing to show the portions of my license for matching, but not the whole thing.  ANYTHING more than that is an automatic no thanks.   I had a Brit in the UK demand that I make an international phone call to her phone for verification, 30 min before an appointment that was scheduled for over a week.  I emailed her that that was not happening, so she went radio silent.  It only ruined a once in a life time opportunity for me, no worries.  I had a Canadian in Toronto demand the same to set up an appointment . . . oh well.  But I've never had any in America make a similar demand . . . yet.  

Although I did get a selfie request, ONCE.  No thanks.  

JackDunphy 94 reads
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15 / 43

...days ago, said you were go to go, then the day of the date asked for RW info and a photo I.D.????

 
That's messed up. She's a time waster, if I am understanding you correctly.  

 
I wanna be clear on this. I have NO problem with a girl asking for that info, or ANY info up front she feels she needs to be safe, as that is her right BUT... waiting until the day of to drop that bomb on you is VERY unprofessional.

 
I would advise ANYONE that is not "bullet proof" not to give up any RW info at all if possible. The girl is a stranger to you so that makes it risky in and of itself, and in addition, in this day and age, she can be hacked and some other idiot could out your info.

devindavette See my TER Reviews 96 reads
posted
16 / 43

Some of us already knew, but now it’s confirmed for the record.

impposter 49 Reviews 91 reads
posted
17 / 43

Similar thing happened to me in Boston several years ago.  She, a well reviewed and popular touring Provider, and I had email and pleasant voice contact over several days prior to her visit to Boston. She checked me out on D-C where I was a platinum member. On the day of my appointment, I am nearby and (voice) call a little early to let her know I'm on schedule and can be there any time.  She starts asking for personal info and I remind her that she had OKed me several days before using D-C and TER. She insisted on personal info and we agreed not to meet.  
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Fortunately, I had a Plan B.

Posted By: Angel4Life
Re: Just Cancelled My Appt
Booked an appointment in Atlanta a few days ago.  This am she sends me a PM requesting information and a Photo ID.  I have 35 we Mets on A reputable verification service.  I told her that I spend $$$ a year so I should not have to do this..  she insisted so I politely cancelled.  Like others have stated, this is 1 hoop I will not jump through.

JackDunphy 88 reads
posted
18 / 43

But I commend you on the back up piece of tail. You had that lined up before or just made a few last minute calls after you and the first gal agreed to call it off?

 
Either way, that's damn good work by you Imp. :)

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 95 reads
posted
19 / 43

That's nuts!  I recently gave a friend an ok on pref 4 1 1. Shortly  thereafter, a gal contacted me on the site requesting more info.  Aside from my 2 day old ok ; this man has an additional 40+ ok's. What more could one need?  

Angel4Life 39 reads
posted
20 / 43

Any of my 35 OK’s are happy to vouch for me.  10 of the 35 I have the Gold Star indicating we have had 5 encounters.  Privacy issues should work both ways!  I respect your right to privacy and you should respect mine.  Plus as others have chimed in, personal info can be compromised and shared making it easy for a stranger to out someone.

Honestly though I am not going to waste any time fretting over this.   I am in ATL and honestly there are so many quality providers out there who do not require Prospective Clients to jump through hoops!

Jayk47 28 reads
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21 / 43

Gina provided a site where providers are able to advertise free of charge and find clients. Yet, providers still lie about her. Lol she never forced anybody to give okays to bad clients.

devindavette See my TER Reviews 35 reads
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22 / 43

We don’t even know who runs p411, how could I possibly put my own safety in their hands. At least when Gina was the owner she had a presence and was tangible, but the new owners we know zero/zilch about.

I couldn’t careless if someone had 1 or 50 okays, I still ask for additional screening info. If the inquiring client doesn’t want to give it, no hard feelings but I would just pass.

GaGambler 44 reads
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23 / 43

I have booked probably about 300 dates through P 411, I usually try to keep 20-30 reasonably recent okays to make it easy for providers to check my references. Of the 300 or so dates I have booked, maybe three of those women asked me for additional information, and two of those were agencies who I didn't really mind jumping through the extra hoops because I knew it would only be a one time thing and I might end up seeing a dozen different girls because of it.

 
I don't fault women like Lexi for wanting to "feel safe" but if you can't do so without making me "work for an appointment" I am simply going to move onto the next lady on my list who can do her screening without making me "apply for a date" I work hard to get my clients, sometimes investing thousands of dollars before ever seeing a dime of their money, I am NOT going to work to spend my money

 
For the record, I don't even care about my privacy, I am just NOT going to "beg to pay for pussy" Nor am I going to work for it. I will "work" to get civvie pussy, I already worked to earn my money, I am not going to work even harder in order to spend it. I am perhaps the easiest person on the planet to screen, if a woman can't find what she needs to know with what I provide her she should probably find another line of work.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 32 reads
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24 / 43

One of the main considerations why I have never used P411.  If the business is sold, as it has been, you don't know if the new owners will have the same level of integrity with all of your personal info that they also bought as the last owner had.  A transfer of a business like this opens up a whole new basket of risks when it changes hands.  The price of the business included all of the personal info on providers and hobbyists contained in the business records.  A less-than-honest nbew owner could be looking for new ways to turn that info into additional cash, in which case, some might be in for a bumpy ride.  It just reaffirms I'm glad I have always stayed on the sidelines when it comes to P411.  If a provider won't approve me with two recent indie refs, then Its a pass for me without any regrets.

Angel4Life 42 reads
posted
25 / 43

No hard feelings...I passed....too many Beautiful ladies to pick who do not require extra work from my end.

Posted By: devindavette
Re: I agree with Lexi
We don’t even know who runs p411, how could I possibly put my own safety in their hands. At least when Gina was the owner she had a presence and was tangible, but the new owners we know zero/zilch about.  
   
 I couldn’t careless if someone had 1 or 50 okays, I still ask for additional screening info. If the inquiring client doesn’t want to give it, no hard feelings but I would just pass.

elliottt 1 Reviews 35 reads
posted
26 / 43

Same here, I never liked even the idea of P411. I've always been able to book the provider of my choice without it.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 35 reads
posted
27 / 43

I think Gina didn't keep client data (names, addresses, cc numbers) because having that data would just make her a more juicy target of LE.  It was in her benefit to throw that data away after making the decision to approve or not approve.
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That's my theory anyway.

devindavette See my TER Reviews 53 reads
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28 / 43

Hypothetically let’s say I book a date via p411, Joe blow  has 20 ok’s so I book him.  

Joe blow comes in robs, rapes, whatever me. I then couldn’t even contact p411 for his info because they don’t have it.    🤦🏼‍♀️

In my opinion, that is exactly why additional info should be required. I do agree with the other poster though that this should have been discussed and straightened out before the date was confirmed so I don’t blame him for canceling.

Jayk47 48 reads
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29 / 43

I gladly give my rw info to a provider, but I monitor their social media first to gauge whether they can be trusted with it. I’ve seen multiple providers doxx clients on twitter for canceling dates. I have seen even more blast out a client’s phone number and screen capping text message convos that canceled dates or for no call no showing. One thing I loved about Gina is that she would van providers from Preferred 411 who would be indiscrete with client/provider communications. She kept a lid on a lot of the bad behavior

TheVoiceOfReason 59 reads
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31 / 43

This is nonsensical.  Hypothetically let's say I book a date via P411, Sexy Sally has given 20 ok's so I book her.  

I arrive at her incall location.  I follow her downstairs to the basement.  She goes upstairs and a dude with a gun comes downstairs, robs, whatever me.  

You could very easily reverse the situation.  If a guy has several ok's or a lady has given several ok's, there is a very high probability that he/she is ok.  

P411 boots ladies and guys off the network if they are not a good fit for the network.  Personally, I have had two ladies booted off because they were not safe.  Neither had given many ok's, which in hindsight was a red flag.  

Guys and ladies that have put time and energy into establishing themselves are very unlikely to put that in jeopardy.  

devindavette See my TER Reviews 47 reads
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32 / 43

While p411 “shreds” and deletes admirers initial verification information:  

“Remember, we do not keep any identifying information, this ensures the safety and comfort of us all!”

They keep provider info (drivers licenses, selfies, etc) on file until the account is terminated:

“ verification information will be retained as long as the account exists.”

 
So if sexy Sally’s pimp boyfriend rapes and murders you, she will be found easily by tracing her account through law enforcement/the courts whatever. There is at least a level of protection.

When joe blow rapes and murders me, I dont have the luxury of p411 providing his identity to the authorities because they “shredded it”.

“Preferred411 will not disclose customer or advertiser information without the customer/advertiser's express consent except as required to comply with a legal process issued by a court in our jurisdiction.”

TheVoiceOfReason 39 reads
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33 / 43

I am not following.  Your response implies that a guy would eventually be able to find out a ladies information whereas a lady would be able to fined out a guys?  I could be wrong, but I don't believe that to be true.  For example, I know of 2 ladies that have multiple P411 profiles.  How would they be able to do that if they had to provide personal information?

TheVoiceOfReason 112 reads
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34 / 43

Exactly.  I could understand if the the guy only had a few okays from sketchy ladies.  

TheVoiceOfReason 113 reads
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35 / 43

Amateurish, but better than asking for a dick pick (assuming that a cop wouldn't do that) or when you arrive doing a LE check.

TheVoiceOfReason 55 reads
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36 / 43

I agree.  P411 is awesome.  They do everything that they can to ensure a secure network.  I know plenty of guys and girls that were booted off for various reasons.  I even know a lady that was even booted off because enough guys complained that she didn't look like her pictures.  Ladies do lie about being forced to give a guy an okay.  Just like guys like about TER changing the scores and downgrading a review.  TER doesn't change the scores on reviews they just kick them back if the write up doesn't merit the score.  TER does not change scores.

Once-Is-Not-Enough 90 reads
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37 / 43

If one must be discreet about their hobbying activities, never reveal personal/private information to anyone who has less to lose than you do.

 
There are countless ways to assure yours and a provider's safety.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 100 reads
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38 / 43
lester_prairie 12 Reviews 40 reads
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39 / 43

Look at the alternative, though.  If P411 kept all clients's info, fewer clients would feel comfortable joining p411 and therefore more clients would see providers without any p411 check at all.  

Once-Is-Not-Enough 115 reads
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40 / 43

Your posts are still laced with adolescent innuendo.  Could I be expecting too much from you?  Nah!  Have no expectation your consistent pattern of childishness will ever end.  That pattern reflects who you are as a person, and even if you tried, how in the world would you ever be able to communicate as if you were something you are not; a normal, semi-adult, remotely logical individual?

 
Lesson #1000:  Realize your posts are written with the intention of breaking TERs all-time record.  But if you put just the slightest effort into content, you may reveal your infantile nature to fewer and fewer people.

 
You are who you are and sadly the manner in which you choose to express yourself reveals more about you, than you apparently realize.

 
You should be paying me for all the advice I give you.  Being altruistic to the core, I just provide it to help better my fellow man, or in your case, boy.  But no matter how it may irk you, I realize, there is NO chance you have the capacity to recognize and then apply sound, logic reasoning.

 
You're welcome!

36363jensen 4 Reviews 89 reads
posted
41 / 43

Perhaps it varies by State but my understanding is that LE is allowed to actually complete the act as part of their legal duties. If so all this about LE checks is pure BS/urban myth/fake news/seriously outdated (take you pick).

GaGambler 124 reads
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42 / 43

and a complete waste of time for all parties concerned.

 

That is assuming a male "client" who is LE and a female provider. OTOH, If you are a guy and you walk into a "sting" with a female undercover officer, she will NEVER let you touch her in a sexual manner. The problem of course is that if she is not an actual member of LE and simply a hooker who has been "turned" in that case all bets are off. So I guess we are back to "LE checks are COMPLETE BULLSHIT" lol

Rickshaw17 28 Reviews 104 reads
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43 / 43

I do not feel comfortable providing a photo or real world information. I’ve had at least one provider insist on real world info and become a bit testy when I refused to divulge it.  She relented sometime later but by then I was not available.    

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