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SexyAssNightmare 2119 reads
posted
1 / 27

I have seen this hooker three times before. She still doesnt remember my name or my likes.

We had a 3 hr appt and she left after 2 and while I was cleaning up for next round, she apparently snagged some expensive stuff from my minibar!

I checked out having to pay almost an extra 120 bc of her.

What the hell? If I pay you $1600 for a 3 hr time, why the ripoff and why steal?

Should I review her?  

Last time she shorted me an hr on 5 hrs of paid time with no discount.

I wont be seeing her again but I dont want her going crazy on me. Almost tempted to straight up tell her that if she dont make it up to me, she is getting a ripoff review. She has over 80 reviews, almost all 10's.

I dont want to burn my future bridges but I also am very angry aboiut this.  

The first 2 times were so amazing but I hate dishonesty and scammers.

What would you do?

Zangari 971 reads
posted
3 / 27

Posted By: SexyAssNightmare
I have seen this hooker three times before. She still doesnt remember my name or my likes.  We had a 3 hr appt and she left after 2 and while I was cleaning up for next round, she apparently snagged some expensive stuff from my minibar!
 If she stole something from your room, then you should have (1) dropped her right then  (2)  posted an alert on your local board, and (3) reported her to your screening service.    
Posted By: SexyAssNightmare
I checked out having to pay almost an extra 120 bc of her.   What the hell? If I pay you $1600 for a 3 hr time, why the ripoff and why steal?  Should I review her?   Last time she shorted me an hr on 5 hrs of paid time with no discount.
 Here's the problem now:  you already knew she was a thief, but you decided to see her again.  That's on you.  A review now that mentions her theft is a bit hypocritical.  You're angry because she leaves early, not because she steals.  You're spending a lot of money on extra time.  You'd probably save money by finding an SB.  Usually a provider is cheaper than an SB **unless** a guy wants a lot of extra time, like you.  Your time demands are a bit much for most providers.   --z

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 742 reads
posted
4 / 27

looks like you are actually in a sexy ass nightmare..

Posted By: SexyAssNightmare
I have seen this hooker three times before. She still doesnt remember my name or my likes.  
   
 We had a 3 hr appt and she left after 2 and while I was cleaning up for next round, she apparently snagged some expensive stuff from my minibar!  
   
 I checked out having to pay almost an extra 120 bc of her.  
   
 What the hell? If I pay you $1600 for a 3 hr time, why the ripoff and why steal?  
   
 Should I review her?  
   
 Last time she shorted me an hr on 5 hrs of paid time with no discount.  
   
 I wont be seeing her again but I dont want her going crazy on me. Almost tempted to straight up tell her that if she dont make it up to me, she is getting a ripoff review. She has over 80 reviews, almost all 10's.  
   
 I dont want to burn my future bridges but I also am very angry aboiut this.  
   
 The first 2 times were so amazing but I hate dishonesty and scammers.  
   
 What would you do?

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 421 reads
posted
5 / 27

Posted By: SexyAssNightmare
I have seen this hooker three times before. She still doesnt remember my name or my likes.  
   
 We had a 3 hr appt and she left after 2 and while I was cleaning up for next round, she apparently snagged some expensive stuff from my minibar!  
   
 I checked out having to pay almost an extra 120 bc of her.  
   
 What the hell? If I pay you $1600 for a 3 hr time, why the ripoff and why steal?  
   
 Should I review her?  
   
 Last time she shorted me an hr on 5 hrs of paid time with no discount.  
   
 I wont be seeing her again but I dont want her going crazy on me. Almost tempted to straight up tell her that if she dont make it up to me, she is getting a ripoff review. She has over 80 reviews, almost all 10's.  
   
 I dont want to burn my future bridges but I also am very angry aboiut this.  
   
 The first 2 times were so amazing but I hate dishonesty and scammers.  
   
 What would you do?

2236707 3 Reviews 657 reads
posted
6 / 27

My friend says the best way to remove ketchup stains on blouse is a paste of salt & table water, but I think it should be baking soda and vinegar. Who is right?  

Thank you, Upset in Akron

Senator.Blutarsky 616 reads
posted
7 / 27
mojojo 1 Reviews 630 reads
posted
8 / 27

Did she fake her cums too? Seriously, for me, calling me George instead of John would have be cause for concern. I thought the more expensive girls paid attention to the smallest details. I guess not. The reason she stole from you the fourth time is because you allowed to her do it the third time. That third time should have been the last time. That's when you should have written a review. Now you have to write two. I don't think a ripoff reivew is burning any bridges. Unless of course she has some real life information on you. But since she doesn't even know your name, that's unlikely.  

If I were you, I'd simply move on. Write a review, or not. It sounds like you have money to burn. There are so many ladies. If she happens to contact you, which is again, unlikely, tell her she owes you a free three hour session, otherwise get lost. Funny thing is, I have ladies who pay attention to me, stay in contact, remember what I like, serve refreshments, know my real fake name, and generally go over the alloted time. Both at one hundred per hour. Some ladies care about running a good business model, and some don't. And that's at any price level. Find the ones who do, and stay there.

harborview 10 Reviews 539 reads
posted
9 / 27

she didn't steal when she helped herself to things in the mini-bar when you left her to amuse herself while you washed up...  it was rude but not quite theft.  She didn't take your personal items like a watch or cash.  

In each case, you spent big money (high roller) and she shorted you an hour.   Maybe she thought you had all the fun you could handle...   So you booked her for MORE TIME.  WTF?   Unless there's something I'm missing, if the 3 hour session was over in 2, why would you book 5 hours?    

I am surprised she couldn't remember even your first name or possibly call you by a pet name "Honey".  Likes can vary by where we are in a session...  I respond to subsequent pops differently than the first.   But it's also possible that she's young & reverts to her preferances at every opportunity.   I don't think that needs to be in a review.  

Does she know your handle?   I'd wait a bit to write a review...  write a draft immediately...  write an alias review if you are concerned about retaliation.  You don'thave to say how many hours you booked...  only that she left early.  After a few weeks...  she'll not be sure who a given reviewer is.

russbbj 89 Reviews 498 reads
posted
10 / 27

Fuck me over once, shame on you

Fuck me over twice, shame on me for giving you the chance to do so again

expertiamator 298 reads
posted
11 / 27

Posted By: SexyAssNightmare
I have seen this hooker three times before. She still doesnt remember my name or my likes.  
   
 We had a 3 hr appt and she left after 2 and while I was cleaning up for next round, she apparently snagged some expensive stuff from my minibar!  
   
 I checked out having to pay almost an extra 120 bc of her.  
   
 What the hell? If I pay you $1600 for a 3 hr time, why the ripoff and why steal?  
   
 Should I review her?  
   
 Last time she shorted me an hr on 5 hrs of paid time with no discount.  
   
 I wont be seeing her again but I dont want her going crazy on me. Almost tempted to straight up tell her that if she dont make it up to me, she is getting a ripoff review. She has over 80 reviews, almost all 10's.  
   
 I dont want to burn my future bridges but I also am very angry aboiut this.  
   
 The first 2 times were so amazing but I hate dishonesty and scammers.  
   
 What would you do?

nylahmoor See my TER Reviews 509 reads
posted
12 / 27

I think it's wrong for anyone to steal. Especially when you gave her 1600. Not to mention stealing 100 bucks of liquor when she just got that from you was beyond petty. Now on top of that.... Yes when she didn't fulfil her half of the bargain(time wise) it was your decision to "try again" or not. Reviews are not just for good times but letting others know of the bad as well. I'm sorry for your bad experience, we are not all bad.

SexyAssNightmare 575 reads
posted
13 / 27

I am quite shocked at some of the mean responses here. The first 2 times were amazing. The third time was good too but she left an hour early for a Dr's appt (which she should have told me at the beginning and adjusted money accordingly). I gave her another chance bc I believed her about the Dr appt. I think most would be like me and give her another go around. Which I did and she burned her bridge with me. She claims she had a mix up on the time and "thought" she was there 3 hrs. Yeah right. No longer looking for her to give me extra time to makeup for what she just did.

I am going to review her about our date last night, but will wait some time.  

FYI 1600 for 3 hrs isn't on the high end in NYC.  
Posted By: nylahmoor
I think it's wrong for anyone to steal. Especially when you gave her 1600. Not to mention stealing 100 bucks of liquor when she just got that from you was beyond petty. Now on top of that.... Yes when she didn't fulfil her half of the bargain(time wise) it was your decision to "try again" or not. Reviews are not just for good times but letting others know of the bad as well. I'm sorry for your bad experience, we are not all bad.

Zangari 448 reads
posted
14 / 27

Posted By: harborview
she didn't steal when she helped herself to things in the mini-bar when you left her to amuse herself while you washed up...  it was rude but not quite theft.  She didn't take your personal items like a watch or cash.  
 

 Sorry, it's still theft.  She took items from his minbar that he had to pay for when he checked out.  She's not stupid, she knew those minibar items were billable to the room.  You could even make a sad argument that she's also "stealing" by leaving early for paid time.  But clock-watching is a symptom of lonely men ("Hey, where you going?  I paid for five hours!")  What's surprising is the OP booked her again after the theft.  By doing that, he's more or less taking the hit, and asking for more.  

 And I should amend my previous post--the OP doesn't need an SB, he needs a girlfriend.  Five hours is a long time, even with an SB, unless you're traveling or doing an overnight. And I'm not a fan of either activity in P4P--that's what an SO is for.   The OP is throwing money at this girl, and he goes ballistic whenever she bails early.  He's enraged by her callousness and lack of gratitude.  He's obviously a lonely guy.  He should go out on match.com and spend some money on a nice girl who might actually like him.  --

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 578 reads
posted
15 / 27

No offense, but you seem hurt over this more than a client normally should. Pissed I get, but you seem almost distraught that this hooker did not remember your name. Did you think you were special? Oh my lol. I agree with Z.... you would be better off with a sugar baby where feelings are allowed to form after only a few dates. The mere fact that you kept seeing this girl after you knew she was shady is very telling.

JoelGoodsen 536 reads
posted
16 / 27

Why stay fixated on this woman who clearly is not returning the favor?  Lots of amazing women out there who would love a piece of that $1600+ and treat you better, I am sure.  

I know the feeling of thinking there was more to what was happening between us than there really was.  Yet actually I found one situation that has been pretty real and really good so I would say it can happen albeit within the limitations of the mutual needs (a good time/money) that bring us to p4p.    

The SB idea may just be your ticket if you are up for it... and as for a review, i say no  -  not because you shouldn't but the reality is that it may do you more harm than good personally.  I had a bad experience with a woman I paid at the start of a date for dinner and dessert and I took her to dinner and she was to meet me back at my hotel for dessert and never showed.  And never returned a penny or offered to make it up when I asked her what the hell happened (couldn't find my hotel - bullshit).  I don't generally review and thought long and hard about doing on this time as she was a 9/10 girl too - but I didn't and i feel it was probably the right decision as life goes on and I moved on to better.  My not going back was her review.

JoelGoodsen 438 reads
posted
17 / 27

I think you're right in what you say, but giving the op a break here, doesn't it also scream of not getting your money's worth, and paying a lot of hard earned cash and getting taken advantage of.  If that happened to me, feelings of not, I'd be pissed off as $500+ per hour is a lot of post-tax income to be tossing around and getting hosed over.  the fatal flaw though for the op in this is that he went back to the well the second time and that screams 'what did you expect?'

Posted By: London Rayne
No offense, but you seem hurt over this more than a client normally should. Pissed I get, but you seem almost distraught that this hooker did not remember your name. Did you think you were special? Oh my lol. I agree with Z.... you would be better off with a sugar baby where feelings are allowed to form after only a few dates. The mere fact that you kept seeing this girl after you knew she was shady is very telling.

SexyAssNightmare 479 reads
posted
18 / 27

I can have my personal feelings.

Maybe I should book with you when I go south.

Heard you are very nice. Not into kinky, pretty straight forward. I love many things. I think I should be down by you in August or so.

Back channel has you rated very nicely and an amazing cook. I book multi hours :D
Posted By: London Rayne
No offense, but you seem hurt over this more than a client normally should. Pissed I get, but you seem almost distraught that this hooker did not remember your name. Did you think you were special? Oh my lol. I agree with Z.... you would be better off with a sugar baby where feelings are allowed to form after only a few dates. The mere fact that you kept seeing this girl after you knew she was shady is very telling.

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 341 reads
posted
19 / 27

I won't go there - as you did follow-up and clarify that she did provide you with an explanation for skipping out early on your previous date, even if it was weak.

I'll keep it simple: you saw her, you can review her.  And if the time-before-last was within three months, then you can review her on that visit.  I hope you do, as this will be a sevice to the community.  Just be factual and leave out the touchy feely stuff.

Your motive and if you had your feelings hurt are irrelevant.  If what you've stated is true, then it is something I would want to see in a review to weigh against all the other reviews as I make my decision about a lady.

The stuff about her not knowing your name is irrelevent to the question of whether you should review her or not.  It just provided fodder for commentary - but hey, that goes with the territory here, lol!

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 412 reads
posted
20 / 27

If you have seen her several times, you should have developed a rapport with her that's adequate to bring up these concerns with her personally.  What was her explanation for cutting out early?  Most top notch providers with eight pages of stellar reviews didn't get there by shorting their clients time wise, at least the ones I know.  So what's up here

ThePeopleRule 370 reads
posted
21 / 27

Another post in the "life is stranger than fiction" category...?????

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 365 reads
posted
22 / 27
London Rayne See my TER Reviews 364 reads
posted
23 / 27

Hell yes, he should review her! I am just stating he is a bit more hurt (not PISSED) than most of you would be. He mentioned things that have nothing to do with her being dishonest, like you said... out her if it makes him feel better, but me still thinks this is gonna be another "I fell for a hooker" thread in a month or so. Wanna bet?

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 430 reads
posted
24 / 27

...is if YOU were not eligible to be the hooker he falls for lol!
After his reply to you, I'd say you are the odds-on favorite!  ;o)

Poundtrish See my TER Reviews 418 reads
posted
25 / 27

Spend some money on a nice girl who might like him...wow harsh words insulting to the hobbyist and to providers

Poundtrish See my TER Reviews 384 reads
posted
26 / 27

Maybe you could talk to her about it if she was amazing first few times...she may not realize how you feel about her leaving early.  The missing alcohol, unless the hotel made a mistake or someone from the hotel was steeling would be something you need to face.  If she is stealing from you do you really want to have her back in your room with your things ?

Zangari 376 reads
posted
27 / 27

Posted By: Poundtrish
Spend some money on a nice girl who might like him...wow harsh words insulting to the hobbyist and to providers
 No insult was intended--I think the OP is looking for something that's beyond the scope of a P4P relationship.   He's longing for a companion who will spend an enormous amount of time with him and enjoy his company.  That's girlfriend territory.  It's always possible that he'll find an ATF who will meet his emotional needs, but highly unlikely.  

 In retrospect, I think anonymousfun sniffed this out early.   After the OP's clumsy move on LR, I think he was trolling us all along.    --z

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