i have always been perplexed .. and frankly annoyed but ladies that will enjoy my skills at DATY and have massive wet orgasms all over my face but when its time to reciprocate, on goes the condom for a CBJ. now let's think, during DATY there is tons of fluid transfer and very intimate contact sometimes for up to 10 minutes ... but nearly none with a BJ, especially us guys that don't or barely precum ...and come on, a girl can tell when a guy is about to pop. and hey if a guy surprises you, you have plenty of time to pull away for most of it. compared to the flood i just swallowed and if you are worried about surface contact, why aren't you worried about your own getting infected by oral contact.
This won't happen. The very first hooker I saw gave me a CBJ. I hated it, so that was also the last. After that, if BBBJ was not on the menu, then they don't get my business. Its not that complicated.
Look, CBJ equals no business from me, period! Not only that but once I discover any mention of CBJ, my research on her is done. does not matter how DDG she is, Not wasting my time checking out any additional information/pictures of her.
That's why I would recommend to all ladies, if your TER profile says "covered blowjob" but you are BBBJ provider, get the profile changed via "problem report". I promise you, it is costing you business. Same with Female Condemns.
Yeah, I'm with you, this confuses me too. I was in this exact scenario recently, saw a lady that enjoyed my DATY skills, we went at it for a while and my face was covered in her lovely juices, and then when it was my turn she explained that she only does CBJ and everything else covered for safety reason, so then at that point what can you say. Nothing really. I put it in my review just to help other fellas know about CBJ. I agree with the other comment, do your research. So I blame myself, I should have done my homework first. In my case tho, this young lady was otherwise an amazing experience so it didn't really bother me, but it still didn't make sense that she allows DATY but then gives CBJ. I suppose one thing you can do is ... don't do DATY first but instead ask for BBBJ first, and then if she only does CBJ, you can always skip the DATY so you don't feel cheated. Hahah
Some women naturally self lubricate very well, others apply lubes that don't have a taste, etc. But I guarantee you that they're not having multiple orgasms because of your supposed world class DATY skills. I mean really--does anyone over the age of 19 really believe these women are popping after a couple of minutes with your tongue? The last couple of professional women I saw who had what looked like real orgasms achieved those because the other woman in the duo performed DATY on her. I'd love to believe I'm that good but that shit ain't the truth.
My ATF (retired for years now, sadly) had Oscar worthy faking skills. But when I started booking longer appointments with her, she looked at me and offered to teach me how to make her O.
Turned out (big surprise) it actually took a very specific set of actions and about 20 minutes (give or take) for her to do so. And, as she got older, she got to the point where she could only really do it a few times a week.
She was one of those women who had super intense orgasms. A couple of times lamps got knocked over. If I did it right those spasms went on for quite some time. Especially once I learned how to edge her. Well worth waiting for. But no multiple orgasms for her.
All those guys that thought she had O after O had a great time patting themselves on the back. So, they got what they were paying for. Just not what they actually thought.
A way I gauge if a lady is really interested DATY, is I ask them this question; "I take direction well, please guide me so I can give you the most pleasure". It is not a test question, but I often find the ladies which actually verbalize, or physically guide me with their hands, at least have a spark of interest in the event.
Do they orgasm, I doubt it. Only twice did I have a lady come back for seconds.
20 minutes is a long time, almost a half of a usual one hour session, considering showers and paperwork, meet and greet and all the bureaucracy stuff.
I'm a fairly selfish guy when it comes to p4p. I mostly care about my pleasure. I could be fucking for those 20 minutes. Now, if it's a two hour fling, then there's definitely time for some daty if really wanted. An hour appointment - I'm spending most of the hour fucking. Sounds crude, but it is what is. I'm trying to have pleasure, not impress someone. Especially since I paid for it with a pro who has seen near everything.
Some guys love to pleasure a woman and it's a big part of their enjoyment of sex. To them it's not just about fucking. But, hey, at least you're in touch with your own needs, so go for it. Sex is a many-splendored thing.
yep CBJ deal breaker . i say no if thats what is offered and move on. just means more time on her back .he he he he he . so its her call what she prefers
...;very intimate contact sometimes for up to 10 minutes ...
If she's actually enjoying DATY and IF she's not too exhausted from the 3-5 guys she saw earlier that day, she may well want you to get her off. But Dude! 10 minutes ain't going to do it.
I play more in the Sugar Baby space now, and for those SB's who really enjoy it, they need more like 20 to 30+ minutes of nuanced, responsive to her feedback, passionate and enthusiastic attention from Daddy to get them off. When I do it right, she tells me. When I'm missing the mark, I usually get feedback, fortunately.
But if she isn't into it, she's not into it.
Now to your question of "reciprocal" treatment: It isn't.
A provider will have a list (public or private) of what she will and won't do. There is no guarantee that DATY and BBBJ (or even CBJ) are linked. None. If she will provide BBBJ, hopefully she will find a way to let you know before you book, or you can find out from reviews. But never expect a quid pro quo on oral sex. (I get the irony, so don't bother please). The same goes for other services - she may be willing to peg you (if you are into that). But that doesn't mean she will offer you anal sex. She may be willing to do water sports on YOU, but not on HER. Get it?
Agreed. I have only seen two.providers with any real longevity, and I could bring them to O, but it took quite awhile. And one of those, I only got there twice in many appointments. But she was quite honest about not really being able to cum from intercourse....she had quite an affinity for her Hitachi.... Hard to compete with that, and I suspect continued use of one would cause a desensitization of her clit.
The other girl preferred the home team to start with, but she liked my touch. Got her there many times, but it was a marathon. And the only reason I'm convinced that hers were real, is because we spent a great deal of time together. And yet, I will quickly concede that I have no 100 percent certainty of that, other than there were times she wasnt in the mood, and other times she wouldn't let me up. As well, as some very evident tell tale physical responses.
I suspect that if a client happened upon a provider who actually found the client both attractive and arousing, she may very well be able to achieve Shangri- La with that client. But I think its foolish to think that ones self has the prowess to bring any woman they meet to orgasm.
While I agree in principle that it’s practically not very different but..Let’s think about this for a bit. She most likely has a set menu when it comes to what she would do to you. What’s on the menu is generally on the menu and what’s off the menu is off, regardless of ones skills in the DATY arena (not saying there aren’t exceptions, but there’s reason there called exceptions). Rarely is there a secretive menu that you can partake in because of ones commanding skills in the language of cunnilingus. As previously discussed, giving the fine companion partner of yours her giant O is always great, but generally doesn’t happen after a few minutes. I know we all like to think we are kings and can cause her to achieve orgasm simply by introducing ourselves, it’s more likely that she will l gladly lie on her back do nothing and let you do the work for however long you desire. Think of if the tables were turned and you were the provider and she was paying you. She pays you for an hour of your time and mentions you could give her DATY most of the time or instead, she offers that she could give you a nice long CBJ. Which one is more work for you??
Like many of you, I’m sure, I love a good blowjob. Vastly prefer BBBJ though I’ve had (just) a few good CBJs.
In my continuing search for a great blowjob, I’ve gotten to know more than a few providers over the years because I kept coming back for more. And somewhere in there we became friends.
Here’s the net from what these blowjob artists have told me.
They genuinely like giving blowjobs. They like being in control and observing the pleasure they bring. It not uncommonly actually turns them on when they know that blowjob is being received well. Even when it occasionally becomes uncomfortable they feel as if they are in control and safe and they even not uncommonly use the words powerful or strong. In addition to the fact that a great blowjob is, in their opinion, going to net them a better review than a great faked O during DATY.
With DATY things can get uncomfortable and even painful. But, more importantly, the woman is less in control.
So, it may be true that they can just “lay back” and enjoy (or not) DATY. But my experience (which has a selection bias built in because of my preference for women who give great blowjobs) tells me that there is a very significant group of providers for whom the blowjob, not DATY, is the preferred fallback activity.
Once in a VIP room in a strip club in N Myrtle Beach.. it was great.. when I get one from a provider... not so great.. I think the one in the club was a very nice surprise.. that was 6 years ago...now I still see her when I go to the beach.. but she comes over to my place..
Yes, all depends on the environment. CBJ at an AMP is also standard. Expected and enjoyable for the price. Disappointing level of service from an escort though.
Last year, after a 3 year hiatus, I dipped my toe back in this world seeing a couple ladies from P411 - but without the benefit of reviews. One of these had lots of okays, so I gave her a try... only to discover she was CBJ only. Ugh. She was happy to accept prolonged oral from me though. I enjoy this, and it was a 2 hour date, so I had to do something to fill the time. But this was the most mediocre experience I’ve had in the hobby. Just no sexual chemistry. I don’t think this was ONLY because of the menu shortcomings, but that certainly factored in. Took me a long long time to cum, as even the sex with her wasn’t getting me over the top. Oh, and no kissing either. Being a bit tired after work probably didn’t help the experience either.
Fortunately within a few weeks I discovered a bubbly little Korean firecracker in an AMP. For less than 1/3 the price I enjoyed FS fun with her (several times), and the world was good again. Such an amazing tight fit. Everything was covered... but what a world of difference. Expectations, foreplay, attitude, undefinable chemistry... all these things matter. Was disappointed to discover she had left when I went back there a couple months ago...
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