I am new to this and have read many reviews where DATY has occured. I can't help but wonder - what are these guys thinking?I mean don't get me wrong ... I enjoy DATY, but these are profesional girls (not to mention strangers in most cases)and yes they use condoms but - they also mostly use condoms when doing that for the guy so .. aren't you the least bit concerned?Two questions.. anyone have a tactful way of asking your provider at the time if it is 'safe' to DATY?And two - for the MD's reading this - what could be contracted in this manner, and what are the chances?Thanks..