I am curious about 3 somes and what it is that men expect from this type of an encounter? Let me explain why I am asking this...as some of you may know I do doubles with my friend Ana. When I asked a client if he enjoyed our encounter his comment was " you two are the best" so I asked him what the difference was between his other encounters and our time spent together and he responded that we ( Ana and I ) actually get into it with eachother. He explain to me that other 3 somes that he had been involved with the girls just played with him and did not touch eachother.
With this said .........I get an e-mail from a client who has been wanting to set up time with Ana and I for well over 4 mths. I must let you know that he has been my client for about 6mths or more. We finally have this long awaited appt. we had a great time at least I thought we did. And I get an e-mail from him saying that he felt like the 3rd wheel, that if he would have left the room we would have not noticed. My response to him was, that even though this was a fantasy maybe he is not the type of person who likes to share his partner? Sometimes fantasies are not always as they seem in our imagination. As far as I recall Ana and I did not do anything different.......cowgirl, anal, mission, oral( lots of it), toys everything we love to do. here is a link of our reviews together:
http://theeroticreview.com/link/link.asp?RSID=TER19325&ID=15547

I would like your input on what it is that men expect from a 3 some session for my own knowledge. Or should I ask before every session what it is they want so that we make sure to accomidate the client. However to me this would be like performing and not letting the passion and fun take its own course?  
Thank you for your input.......
Kisses & Licks..........
Mara of San Diego

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My threesome fantasy has always been this way.  With all three of us lying nude on the bed, the first lady and I begin to tease and please the second lady until she has been COMPLETELY satisfied.  Then, the second lady and I do the same thing for the first lady until she is aslo COMPLETELY satisfied.  Finally, it's my turn.  I'd like this to repeat until we are too weak for more.  Then, it's a nice deep nap cuddled up all together.

Dear Mara,

I’ve had a number of encounters with two, three, and four ladies.  Because of certain neurological damage, the typical release men enjoy is not available to me.  As such, I’ve learned to channel my energy into pleasing my partner(s).  This applies to providers, as well as to girl friends (it was the case with my wife, before she passed away).  Multiple partners work well for me because, since I don’t have to stop, it’s sometimes difficult for one lady to keep up.

My point is this:  If you were to approach a session with me with any preconceived ideas,  you would most likely be surprised, and I might be disappointed.  Unlike many men, two ladies pleasuring each other does nothing for me.  I’d much rather be the one providing the entertainment, and enjoy the responses from my audience.

I believe your best bet is to be sure up front what the client expects before making any arrangements.  I think you’ll find we’re a far more diverse group that you might think.

Good luck,

Craig

First of all Mara, not all of us are the same. Yes, I know you know that. Personally, I would do a 3some to watch the girls pleasure each other as well as join in. I am one of those people that really wants to see the girls enjoy themselves. As long as I am in some way included, I would be satisfied.
   I think that some guys want the girl to give him constant attention. Example:One on his face with the other on his lap.He may, at least, want to feel as though he is getting more pleasure than you.
   There is also the guy who expects everything to be a certain way,but thing happen differently than in his fantasy. I ahve had this happen. I expected too much in my mind,based on previous reviews, and I was a little dissapointed when it didn't go as I thought it would.
   I have met Anna and I know how much she can get into a session. If the one girl is more vocal while being pleasured by the other female, as opposed to being less vocal when being pleasured by the guy, it may hurt the mood or the guys feelings. There are just so many variables.
   For future visits, find out what the guy wants. You and Anna have stellar reputations. I would hate to see someone write a bad review just because his encounter did not match his dream. Well, I had better stop. I feel like I'm starting to talk out of my a*s. LOL

This was a recent thread, but as I said before, I want all the attention in a 3-some...I don't want to watch a 2-girl show...I've watched a couple of Jill Kelly Production "When the Boyz are Away" series (and the women in her movies are generally gorgeous)& watching 2-girls doesn't do anything for me...And I especially don't want to watch if I have two lovely providers with me....

But people have different preferences, so that is why communication is important.....A client needs to state what his preference is in a scenario like this before making an appt so no disappointments occur....I think if you try to let things "take its own course", there's a greater chance of having a disappointing time...Clear communication beforehand is the key...

Eliza Dushku, Daisy McCrackin and Alyson Hannigan.

Fully involved with all three starting with, wild, F*cked up rodeo sex, bondage, farm sex video on the tube, Nine Inch Nails blasting on the DTS, start on top of the washer with the spin cycle on (with a boot and some towels to make it off balance), move out to the work-out room and ride them on the treadmill, reverse cow-girl them while they do lat-pulls on the home-gym, move to the kitchen, throw down a piece of linoleum, pop a bottle of Crisco oil get us slicked up, drink champagne out of the bottle, do oyster shooters and generally bang the livin' sh!t out of them.

Then, we'd get in my car and . . .

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Pretty much my thoughts as well...indeed I have never seen the attraction of Female / Female / Male threesome. It is said it is every man's fantasy...well, it isn't mine..

I'm not saying I would turn down the offer if made by a couple female friends...but PAY FOR IT?? Not a chance. When I saw that same recent thread I couldn't help but think to myself "pay two gals to do what they would be doing anyway if you weren't there...isn't $500 - $1000 an awful lot to pay for a peep show??"

Just another example of how lots of guys think they are "in control" in the sex industry, but in reality, they are pretty much simply duplicating the balance of power they have in their relationships with civilian women...which is to say they have none...lol. I can only imagine how two providers who are lovers anyway must giggle themselves silly on the way home counting the money they made doing what they do every night anyway...what a scam...I need to figure out how to get people to pay me to have sex with my SigO...lol.

Me? My "perfect" threesome would be me and my best buddy completely enjoying and satisfying OURSELVES with one sexy juicy booty female. Do her until WE get tired and all of our fetishes are fulfilled. Of course, she would be totally satisfied as well. It would take a special kinda gal...one who enjoyed it a tad rough and kinky. Spanking, hair pulling...facials. How come providers don't offer this on their menu??



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I'm like a couple of other guys who've responded...absolutely not into watching two gals go at one another.

Actually, I've only had one 3-some & it came as a complete surprise as the lady (who I had seen several times before) showed up with another gal in tow.  No point in my going into details as I onced posted on it quite some time ago, but it was definitely the two of them on me.  It worked out OK, but more of a novelty than something I'd look to repeat.  

I'm really more the type who prefers to one gal at a time..much better to enjoy her that way.  So as an example, I'd much rather spend my time & $ with you one time & Ana another time as opposed to both of you at once.  BTW, the 3-some I mentioned was a 'gift' from the original gal, who I assumed split the normal fee somehow as I didn't pay extra.

But back to your question...I think it's far better to ask than to assume.  We're all different & may look for different things.

I've only been in one threesome and it was great.  I agree that communication is important to prevent dissapointment.  The girls were accomodating.  I was pretty much the center of attention, which was excellent (nothing like watching two girls worshipping the pole).

I'm fine with watching the girls go at it since it helps in between pops.  The threesome I was in, the girls didn't seem too into it (maybe because they live together and it was nothing new to them, heh).

I think you can be creative with a threesome (like fucking one girl while they 69 or have one girl do you cowgirl while the other sits on your face while they make out).  You can also help one girl eat out the other girl (and vice versa) so they can be the center of attention.  In one way, the sky's the limit, but in another way, it'll be hard to multitask, heheh.

As far as my fantasy threesome, I would love to have them do a snowball (was too chicken to ask, heh).  I could've probably ask my last threesome for a double-facial.

Anyway, you and Anna seem like an awesome threesome.  I would love to partake in the near future  Probably will have to be in a month or two since I just saw Porn Star Sierra (man, threesome with her and Lola Lane would be too much heheheh)

I appriciate your input. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I agree with all of you about communication is the key and going forward I will make sure I ask the client to explain to me what his fantasy is and what he expects to happen.
Kisses & Licks............
Mara of San Diego

I believe most providers customize their menu to suit the needs of their clients, at least I do, but if special things are desired, you , as the cient, must make them known...We aren't mind readers. Plus I think the hair pulling, ass slappin stuff is mostly a "Young Guy That's Watched Way To Much Porno" thing anyway...so is not standard fair on most of our menu. Degradation is a specific Fetish that must be enjoyed by both partners, not something that would be excepted by any and all Providers. As far as the three way's go, my focus is always on the client...ALWAYS, but their comes a time when he needs a little down time and then he welcomes the girls playing with each other just to catch a second wind....after a few minutes of watching all the licking and sucking...I'm hoping he'll be ready to jump back in and play...Let's face it, women don't take as long to recharge as you guys do(just biology)so it can be pretty overwelming if you never get any down time and are expected to perform non-stop...The mind may be willing but the body gets weak. I do believe the client should be included in as much as he's willing to do, though, since it's his party and his dime. IMHO....Hobby safe and Hobby Fun....Licks, Robyn

WOW...Can I watch..??? I want to do that too....Do you have their #'s..??? I'm Getting wet just thinking about all that oil, with the sincycle, er...I mean spin cycle and......Weeeee, Thank God I have a client in 15 min...I need to play..!!!

providers don't offer threesomes with two muscular young STRANGERS who want to treat her roughly, pull her hair and spank her. Gee, I wonder. I'm sure if you think about it enough, you will realize why this isn't on the menu (at least to the general public). I think this type of scene requires a certain level of trust that does not come instantaneously (if at all).



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I hear that...totally...but...how much do you think the real danger level is escalated when dealing with two musuclar young (why thank you, BTW...) WELL SCREENED strangers versus one?

I mean, I get the point, I'm not stupid, but my thinking is that if you are willing to indulge the hobby as a provider AT ALL, the delta probably really isn't significant. Yes, two guys are more likely to overpower "you" versus one, but assuming you have screened them BOTH carefuly, neither of them is any more likely to want to put their civilian lives at risk than any of your other WELL SCREENED clients.

If it isn't your scene...personally or professionally, I understand. Totally. But I don't think the safety issue is a real one.

Indeed, my guess is that there would be less of an safety issue "dating" two well screened guys at once, persumably with investments in the community, etc (I am kinda assuming you've screened for that...guys with jobs and lives versus losers), versus dating a couple...a husband and wife who aren't going to be accountable to anyone else (who has to worry about your wife finding out about what you've been doing if she is helping you do it?).

In fact....as I think about it, I don't doubt that most multi perp cimes amongest losers involve two (or more) guys...but I bet if you change the demographic...and make your perps nice middle class folks...I bet it is male / female teams far more often than male / male. Just makes sense, at least to me, that a male / female SigO partnership is more likely to get into some dumb crap versus two guys with wives and kids and jobs and homes.

All IMHO....

The provider might well perceive (rightly or wrongly) that it would be easier for 2guys to carried away with the pulling hair, slapping etc than only 1 guy on his own.  In their excited state they could end up egging each other on and doing her some harm.  Sure, one guy on his own could do her harm but two guys who are into the sort of thing you describe, worked up in a state of excitement...well, it's a much more potential volatile situation, IMHO.

I love 3somes (and more), probably if I had to choose between with 2 girls or 1 girl, 1 guy and me, I'd go for MFM. I love watching a pretty, sexy girl enjoy a good f*cking.  However, having the attention of 2 girls on me, then on each other during my recovery is great too.  Hell, I don't have to choose, I love it all!

I do, and it's my absolute fav..

Sedona

There you go again, HPG. You're makin' me craaaaaaazy!

Sedona

That I wouldn't put hair pulling and butt slapping in the category of "degradation." What is degrading to one person is another's fun time... after all, many women would be degraded by being reviewed on this site at all!  Maybe a type of play that doesn't appeal to you, which is ok, or maybe it is degrading to you, which is understandable, but there really isn't much a client could do to degrade me.

Hugs*
Nicole

That if you think a threesome with two ladies who enjoy each other, equals the same thing as a "peep show," you've TRULY been seeing the wrong ladies.

Now when I've done doubles, my focus is always on the gent anyways. But if you have me bent over and my face is free, so it just happens to fall in her... well, yanno???? Who's it hurting, hmmm??? Does that sound like a peepshow to you?  How about two ladies who are french kissing around your... *ahem!*

Anyways.... that just might not work for you, and that's fine. Some gents don't want two women at once! But to say it's just "an expensive peepshow," is way understimating some of us, methinks!

Hugs*
Nicole

" Me? My "perfect" threesome would be me and my best buddy completely enjoying and satisfying OURSELVES with one sexy juicy booty female. Do her until WE get tired and all of our fetishes are fulfilled. Of course, she would be totally satisfied as well. It would take a special kinda gal...one who enjoyed it a tad rough and kinky. Spanking, hair pulling...facials. How come providers don't offer this on their menu??"

I cannot believe I forgot to address this paragraph.

Please, please, please, bring your best buddy over and LET'S GO!

You only have one best buddy???? Darnit!!!

Hugs*
Nicole