Couple of observations and would be interested in feedback,

First, the popluarity of DATY has increased in the recent years and it seems like it happens in most EVERY session.  Whereas in the past a typical session may include BJ and sex, now it is a regular part of the session.
I would like to hear from the girls on this as well.  Do providers really get off or do you do it to make your man happy.
I think that 20 years ago, a session was more about getting away from the wife and getting off, perhaps some oral that the wife didnt provide.  Now it seems like guys like to feel like they are good lovers and if they can make their girl cum orally its like an ego boost.

I LOVE DATY and not sure why, I think mostly cuz when the girl is on her way to the orgasm, it is the least likely part of the session for her to fake and aside from the physcial pleasure, its all abour reality for me.

I must say that despite how much I love DATY, I have also noticed that with some girls (and happening more often), perhaps cuz its so popular, they are not well prepared.   I believe that each person, hobbyest and provider should be sparkle clean for the session and getting into a 69 with a 'stanky' pussy/ass, is like trapped with no where to go.  I have also noticed that for me, I love to go the pussy early.  But if she is masterbating and mixing everything up, inside, outside, all around, I dont like it as much.  Dont get me wrong, nothing is hotter than a gusher (rare but very special when you can find one) but I prefer to dine at a fresh, un-finger pussy.

ReATY

I love DATY and will not see a provider (at least not more than once) who doesn't enjoy it. Believe me, It's not hard to tell if she is really into it or just letting you show-off as an ego boost. It's just a part of the total good sex experience for me...I love giving and getting oral and I find that the providers who feel the same are a lot more fun to be with.

ReATY

I prefer DATY from men from Boston (every time GOOD) ,then Philly ,VA, downtown DC. My ATF is from Bethesda, MD who I met off CL and date on the DL whenever I can. My next ATF in the DATY catagory is Tyson's Corner ,VA.
My Bostonians are smooth faced or shave upon arrival with no hassle. Philly guys are willing to shave any rough spots with no hassle and know how to start off slow and are the best kissers. Baltimore is damn good too. New Yorkers are also good. I appreciate Brooklyn,Stanton and Long Islands best. I also appreciate all strippers from Baltimore. Baltimore definitely has the hottest pussy around. I'm trying to wean off,but they keep calling.
All women are different in anatomy and likes and dislikes. I have a tiny "hood" (pearl is more exposed) and therefore very sensitive and multi-orgasmic. I have a lot of experience in DATY and have had to learn what each one liked individually. It is best to start off slow and soft and let her ask for more. Remember that the pearl is extremely sensitive and too much stimulation can be unpleasant. I have super soft skin and it really hurts when a razor sharp whisker grazes my skin. I always have a new pack of top of the line razors and good shaving cream available for my guests.
Lightly sucking on the pearl drives most women wild.
I like a circle around the pearl with a smooth (not pointed) tongue and/or gentle sucking and lots of fingering. Why do I keep wetting my seat?
I can still appreciate a man although I have been spoiled to the attention of strippers.

I want providers who taste good!

(Ok, if anyone doesn't remember Charlie the Tuna, just PM me.)

Seriously though,

I do love the taste and aroma.  It's chemestry that draws me there.

If I can provoke a mini mount Vesuvius, so much the better.

In all my 100+ gals over thirty years, I've only had one who took a pass when it came to DATY.

I have to presume that they like it.

I had one that used to disguise her orgasms on purpose because she liked it so much.  She would make me stay down there for over thirty minutes.  She finally fessed up when I had to see a doctor because of a crick in my neck.

Oh well, Like Nietzche said: "What ever does not kill me, makes me stronger."

-- Modified on 2/17/2007 12:23:56 PM

More than likely she was just protecting herself. DATY is risky for her and maybe she was one of the rare providers who practice safety.

She was getting me to go down on her for very prolonged periods of time because she enjoyed DATY so much.  How does that equate with protecting herself?

It is not a rare provider who practices saftey, if by that you mean avoiding BBFS.

It is very rare to find a provider who will not allow BBDATY (a female condom could be used); I'd say 90% or more practice BBBJ and about half of those allow BBBJTC.

I suppose we could debate what constitutes "safe", but this particular provider did not consider DATY risky, that is for sure.

Perhaps there was something about my original post that was not clear?