I am a person. I am a mother, a sister and a daughter. I am also a student, a bartender, and a doula. The point is my day gets filled rather fast, weather i am hobbying or not. I can't answer every email with in minutes or sometimes even days, but by no means dose that give you the wright to call me 50x and text me 100x. I am busy, i take days off, i spend time with family, and i respect your family time so why cant you guys respect mine? We are all people of this world and this hobby is no different then any other activity we partake in, it has its time and its place and not every body dose everything the same way. This hobby takes practice and patients on my end, and there is ALOT of behind the scenes work. Just keep in mind that we are humans that can be rubbed the wrong way just like anyone else, and no matter how much money you have, no good provider will see you if your a jerk.

Lighten up and have a drink sweetie. Its Friday for fks sake.

coming here to rant like this is not a wise business decision on your part.  Put yourself in a guy's shoes.  Does he really want to book with someone who thinks his ilk tend to be jerks?

Thats not my potential client base, they wouldn't have enough references to see me.  

I think if your able to put your self at risk for some extra money you don't respect yourself.  If a client doesn't respect limits over email/call/text who is to say he will respect the rules of the session. Safety first.  

I cant really rant on my facebook page now can i? LOL

but you're the gal that is running BP ads.  As well as a string of mediocre reviews here.

Posted By: meganjonesnyc3

Thats not my potential client base, they wouldn't have enough references to see me.  
   

Posted By: JackDunphy

Lighten up and have a drink sweetie. Its Friday for fks sake.

and to boot, you do it in barely intelligible English, and you don't see the irony in this?

Do you really think that ANYBODY is going to read your post and either think to himself "yes, that's me, I really should not incessantly text the hookers that I am trying to book" or "Damn, that girl sounds so sexy, and she has such a great attitude, I think I will book a session with her"???

Aside from making yourself feel better for all of about twenty seconds, do you really think you accomplished anything the least bit productive with your rant?

In your OP you made a general rant about "jerks" who don't respect your down time.  How did we all of a sudden jump to the "risk defense?" Oh, right, when you know your argument holds no water, change the subject.
Another good rule: The first thing to do when you find yourself in a hole is stop digging.

So no real damage done here.

I dont have mediocre reviews i have one bad one. And i will not stop screening my clients to have a better day. If you cant provide me with a reference there is no need  for me to meet with you. And im not in a hole, im in a pretty castle

Posted By: Dr Who revived

but you're the gal that is running BP ads.  As well as a string of mediocre reviews here.  
   
 Maybe if you did ask for "references" you'd be having a better day?  
   
 Might want to consider that when you're in a hole the first thing to do is "stop digging".  
   

Posted By: meganjonesnyc3

Thats not my potential client base, they wouldn't have enough references to see me.    
     

Posted By: JackDunphy

Lighten up and have a drink sweetie. Its Friday for fks sake.

Yes i found a whole new batch of clients NOT to see  

If a client can not respect my down time and are beyond pushy, who is to say they will not be in the bed room? There is a risk when ever i met one of you gents, and there are way to many fish in the sea to see someone who is pushy or rude... You seem mighty defensive in your replies i guess the shoes fits.  

g'donya ya yankin skite

and thank you for reminding me that even my worst days are better than many people's (your's in particular) best days.

Welcome to GD, and thanks for playing.

good responses. megan

Not taking sides here.  But as a proponent of the anti "grade inflation" crowd, aren't you being a bit hypocritical calling 7s and 8s in review scores less than mediocre?  I thought those were supposed to be great reviews to you guys.  Just saying.

I have been in a thousand bars and seen all kinds of shit bartenders have to put up with from asshole customers.  BUT!!!!!

You should definitely keep with the school, especially language, spelling and grammar courses.  It will really serve you well to improve in these areas as people sometimes (incorrectly) think you're not intelligent if you can't write correctly.

Thank you for the kind words im dyslexic, it has effected my spelling.

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

You should definitely keep with the school, especially language, spelling and grammar courses.  It will really serve you well to improve in these areas as people sometimes (incorrectly) think you're not intelligent if you can't write correctly.  
   
 Xo

You used the following words incorrectly ...
"Dose" , if spelled this way is actually a dose of medicine or perhaps your own medicine ...
It should be spelled "does" !  
Next ....
You used "patient" ...that is a person that would be found in a hospital .
It's "patience" ..... This is one who can remain calm when under a time constraint .
Next was "weather" ..... This is sunny, rain, snow , rain , clouds , dry and things that relate to climate !
You should have used and spelled it "whether " which means nothing is certain and you have options or decisions in the subject of discussion .
Last was "wright"........ It's has NO English word or definition !
What you meant and should have used was "right" . That means correct or something you agree with or also a sense of direction opposite of left .
Alot is not even a word ....
It should be "a lot" meaning a large quantity ....
Sweetie you are not very educated and it stands out to us that have just a basic education . It's in the words and spelling you have demonstrated here in this post .
It also determines the quality of the clients you are seeing .
Sorry but it is you own dong and fault .
No sympathy here !

From a guy's POV I can only assume that dudes who do this must be some sort of desperate losers with a stalker mentality. If I am a potential client trying to give business to somebody and get ignored for whatever reason, justified or not I certainly am not going to waste my time waiting around. There are plenty of fishes in the sea meaning plenty of providers/merchants deservedly desiring my patronage.

There are a lot of things that are important to me: look, menu, personality, pricing...

THAT was my point. I guess me being as mad as i was didn't help me get it across very clearly. When im around i answer promptly, but when im not and my phone is blown up by the same person over and over again, its stresses me out and i just needed to vent, not be attacked for a disability that has nothing to do with this hobby.  

because of grade inflation, even women with 9's and 10's can be rather ordinary. Seven's mean "plain Jane" at best, and five's mean downright ugly. A three?, well I am sure as a smart "cat" you can figure out just how homely that must be.

Obviously you can see her profile as well as the rest of us, unless you are scared to tell the truth, How do you think she rates appearance-wise? I am sure we can all agree her performance scores are between her and her clients. I have no way of knowing whether they are deserved or not, but based on her pictures, and stipulating that they are accurate, we can all decide for ourselves what kind of score she deserves.

So, are you willing to be honest and give us your honest opinion? Just saying.

I agree with you 1 million percent. But most guys see Providers as nothing more than a Sex Toy or someone to play with when their needs arise. For me I Respect the Provider I'm seeing. I see her as a person. Not just a Sexual Provider. She's really nice to me and I try to be nice to her. I've taken her shopping and to dinner. And she really appreciates that I do that for her. Just recently I took her to Las Vegas on my Dime because she wanted to go there. She had an Awesome Time and so did I.

but that doesn't mean that he is wrong 100% of the time, this is one of those few times that I actually agree with the pedantic putz.

Where are you from, West Virginia?!  How does me encouraging her to work on spelling and grammar make me stuck up?

are we talking dissociative personality disorder?    

You and others have stated, in essence, that but for grade inflation most common escort experiences should be graded 7s and 8s for excellent performance and looks.  Your position is that too many ladies get 9s and 10s inappropriately because those score are beyond stellar and "once in a lifetime" taken literally.  So your statement that her scores are less than mediocre implies that 9-10 scores should be more common for better than average.  

phone number in ads.  Who needs a phone call at 2am saying "can I come over"?  Or was it 50 calls?

And what's with the "dong" comment? Lol

There is no possible way someone as dumb as you could possibly be Asian or of Asian descent.

Oh well, Black people have The Dungbeetle, The Turdmeister, Ridgetucky and "possibly" NEG. Indians have AnnoyingFungus and C73, There are dozens, if not hundreds of stupid white posters here, so I guess one dumb Asian isn't too much to live with, but come on, tell me you are lying about being Asian just to make me feel a little better. PLEASE. lol

Sew eye no how ewe -phile.

Not even The green Or Purple people would Claim ROGM!

I don't do this for me.  I participate in this lifestyle for that little black kid out there that dreams of one day fucking a white woman.

I totally get that some guys can be rude...but when you rant on here about it, it kinda makes it seem like you are taking it out on all clients,  including the cool ones- which I know you didn't mean to do!  
Maybe the provider only board would be a better place to rant about clients...or, maybe even tell what you just posted on here to the offender himself lol!  
Good luck

I think most hobbiests like to avoid drama.  With so many great options, I am going to avoid ladies who give off this kind of vibe.  For the most part, people are either drama "dampeners" or drama "magnifiers" (or outright drama creators themselves).  Unfortunately I know all too many of the latter type in real life - which gets very tiring after awhile.  I think the best ladies in this biz have a talent for dealing with stressful situations, or with guys who are uptight or tense, and creating more of a relaxed, comfortable situation - which VASTLY increases the chances of a good session for both parties.  Fair or not, based on this rant alone, I have my doubts as to this lady's ability in this regard.  I'll pass on spending a lot on a lady who might bring too much drama-baggage with her to a date

Seriously.  

I dont think she will make that mistake again...lol..

but you are a rather entertaining board troll, and credit to your race. Keep up the good work.

but if you ever do decide to leave, could you please take that "fake Asian" ROGM with you??? lol

... English grammar?  

That’s about the best you are going to get from it.

You said, and I will quote

"as people sometimes (incorrectly) think you're not intelligent"

While that statement is sometimes true, in many cases we are NOT incorrect by assuming the person who can't write properly is indeed a moron. AnnoyingFungus is a perfect example of "The book being every bit as dumb as the cover" lmao

As for Skyfyre, maybe he likes it in the gutter with the BP trash? I suggest we leave him there.

Swallow an Australian slang dictionary and vomit it up o this thread? Seriously every Aussie reading this tripe is eye rolling and head shaking. You about as good a job pretending to be a black thuglette (not even good enough to be called a fully fledged thug)

Come on, snobs. Going after Megan for her spelling? Respond rather, as many have, to what she was trying to get across.

I'm sure what she's trying to say is somewhat common and perhaps comes with the job?  I hope she takes your advice and also realizes that every "job" has its downsides.  

I hate to disappoint you but I lived in Australia before.

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Jinxie is just too chicken to say out loud that the OP is rather homely. His silence on the subject along with his comment that "maybe she just doesn't photograph well" speaks volumes,

However it's not her external "beauty" or lack thereof that has me and the rest of the board "picking on her" we all know why she is getting such a hard time and it has nothing to do with her looks

you're smarter than I thought! lmao

with this amateurish regurgitation. And I lived on the international space station....LOL

I work outside the hobby and have a family as well.

Not taking the bait.  What I think she looks like is off topic and avoids the issue of your hypocracy.   Responding in the face of your accusation of my cowardice would itself be cowardly.  But since you know nothing of honor and bravery, you wouldn't know that.  I replied to your post, said my piece and don't need to say anything further.

You say you do this and do that...but one thing you can't do is spell.  

If staying in the gutter means I will occasionally find the rare diamond that condescending patronizing sanctimonious windbags do not appreciate and value I'd be happy to scoop her up at bargain basement price.

It doesn't mean "to work." That's a verb. It means "a maker or a builder." It's a noun. Y'know, (that's a contraction) Conan really hates it when someone corrects someone else and gets it wrong.  That's just embarrassing.  Or wuz that em-bare-assing?
Do you even know what a verb is?

I stand corrected. Thank you for a well-deserved comeuppance.  

I agree. BP works, but BP is chaotic. A lot of volume and a lot of flakes. You sound like you want less inquiries and more successful dates.

"Honor and bravery?" Omg this is pathetic even for your lame ass.  

a whole bunch of 'em with your proclaimed inflation makes their appearance on her scorecard horrendous. I already hit the ignore button on that fugly wendy whiner

you have demonstrated here in this post .  (here is superfluous)
 It also determines the quality of the clients you are seeing . (seeing is a dangling modifier, end at clients is sufficient,
 Sorry but it is you own dong and fault . "DONG" really?! : ) jk you established your point

Just ask GaGa the Punctuation Nazi.

There's nothing wrong with being a TER 5-7 furthermore as a 7 avg for looks myself, I wouldn't want people saying I'm a 9-10 in the first place as that's setting people's expectations way too high for a busy provider like myself & it's impossible to maintain.
You DO have it backwards though,  a 5- 7 is akin to a real life 8- 10, someone you couldn't possibly approach in public without embarrassing yourself due to your awkward boner.  
As someone who gets cat called on a daily basis in real life to the point where I sometimes have to wear a full hijab so I can shop in peace, I'd say I'm fairly accurate in this assessment.

here of email?