TER General Board
Could be better; could be worse
Didn't I read about this same question in Psychology Today a long time ago?
I'm seeing a gal at MY hotel room, a gal I've known for over 10 years (doing an overnight, in fact.) I need to take a leak, so I go into the bathroom and don't shut the door all the way. She calls me on it and says it is rude.
Was I out of line?
Does anyone ever earn open door pee privileges?
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To some people, golden showers in the bathtub is a sexual act but peeing in the bowl is a private, disgusting personal sanitation issue that should be kept private. Go figure.
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Not every couple or 'best friends' share ALL b'room privileges. Some do tinkle while the other uses the sink. Some do not. I have shared the b'room (as both tinkler and sinkler) with some hostesses who do not mind at all. One time, when I said something apologetic and was going to excuse myself to give her privacy, she said something like, "I've just been sucking your dick and eating your ass. Do you think I mind if you pee in my presence?" But some do prefer not to be involved in those things.
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It can be a fine line to be in of or out of. I'd have to say that you were out of line because you were out of line to HER, but I hope not catastrophically. "I'm sorry. I was testing the limits of our relationship. Next time, I'll close the door ... unless you want a golden shower?"
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Remember the trough at Fenway Park? You would never be out of line to pee in the trough side by side and face to face with 20 other guys.
I'm seeing a gal at MY hotel room, a gal I've known for over 10 years (doing an overnight, in fact.)
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To some people, golden showers in the bathtub is a sexual act but peeing in the bowl is a private, disgusting personal sanitation issue that should be kept private. Go figure.
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Not every couple or 'best friends' share ALL b'room privileges. Some do tinkle while the other uses the sink. Some do not. I have shared the b'room (as both tinkler and sinkler) with some hostesses who do not mind at all. One time, when I said something apologetic and was going to excuse myself to give her privacy, she said something like, "I've just been sucking your dick and eating your ass. Do you think I mind if you pee in my presence?" But some do prefer not to be involved in those things.
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It can be a fine line to be in of or out of. I'd have to say that you were out of line because you were out of line to HER, but I hope not catastrophically. "I'm sorry. I was testing the limits of our relationship. Next time, I'll close the door ... unless you want a golden shower?"
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Remember the trough at Fenway Park? You would never be out of line to pee in the trough side by side and face to face with 20 other guys.
Re: Actually, she's cool with that. Go figure.
My farts sound like a beautiful opera aria and smell like a bouquet of roses ... and in the presence of an ignition source, flame like Bananas Foster. 