they owe you nothing. you paid for a service which you seem to feel you got. End of story...

we do have lives expecting too much in many cases is Too Much!

you got what you paid for.

No, you are not wrong to expect a courtesy reply. In any other business what would you do? You would move on.
Throw them out like yesterday's garbage and find a provider who appreciates your business.

They are probably thinking that you will call them back since you repeat so much with them. You are being taken for granted.

while I do understand that a lady can be busy, if a lady whom I established a good client-provider relationship with stops responding or habitually gives me a half ass, well she becomes "yesterdays garbage".

fortunately I've been lucky because vast majority have treated me well and have not ignored me.

Maybe she is on vacation with her husband or banging a wife fucker .

Maybe she isn't  sure if she will be in town this week end, or she's hoping someone else will call.

If I played email ping pong with every wife that solicits me I wouldn't have any time for fucking wives .

If his wife sends me more than one email and I haven't replied, I put her on my no do list.
Don't need no clingy demanding wives.

Next time call once , if she doesn't answer or call back , call someone else.

Tried to contact 2 of my ATFS to see them this weekend on wednsday no response tried again on Thursday No response These are both girls I have seen over 20 times and it has been great. So if I spend 350 plus to see them am I wrong to expect a reply. I understand they have a life and might not be available but a simple email sorry I can not meet you then would be nice.

When they decide to come back to their escort career, they will check it and respond.

I doubt they are ignoring you on purpose.  You're taking it personal and it's most likely not.

Do you see evidence that they are currently around ? are they posting ?

Yes, you are wrong to expect a reply.  The client/escort relationship ends at the end of EACH session.  We owe you nothing beyond that.  Just like it would be wrong for us to expect you to send us an email stating, "hey, I know I've seen you 20 times in the past and you probably have gotten used to me and my money and might even be stupid enough to rely upon it for your income but I'm not going to be seeing you anymore".

for reasons you're unaware of.  Why assume they both just don't give a shit?

Or they had Aunt Flo around...or they are busy with guys that are scheduling multi-hour appointments.

Or maybe you're not their favorite?

Or perhaps your email ended up in a spam folder?

Dozens of possibilities...but if you feel they have wronged you as the customer...plenty of others would love to take your money.  And then they will be your NEW ATF's.

But seriously, if they couldn't find a couple of seconds to send you an email/text you do need to ask where you stand in the priority queue...and I think you now have your answers.

I try very hard to answer email within 24 hours during the work week. But from time to time. I have a CE class, or as an example last month, My computer died, With the holidays coming, family will be in town etc, etc, I can not always get to my email every day..

If I am not Working, which is typically nights and weekends) I don't answer my email..

I understand your frustration and wish you the best of luck.. Hope this helps?

Especially when I'm feeling randy or know I'll be in town and free awhile.  

I understand it's more polite to answer every email and I apologize profusely for not doing so.  Nevertheless, I think I make up for it when a date takes place.

Are you wrong to expect a reply?  Well, to each his own.  But life is far more relaxed and happy with without such expectations.

If I'm judged based on communication, I fail miserably.  If I'm free and our schedules mesh, we go play.  If not, I'm sure the potential client moves on to someone else.  No harm, no foul.

Nevertheless, if I sense discontent (as you've displayed here) I often elect not to have the date ever take place...  Because if you are unhappy BEFORE the date- well... that's simply no good...  

XOXO,
Destiny Delight

Variety is the spice of life, motherfucker. Broaden your horizons. Better yet, broaden some other lady's legs and you might find a better ATF or two.

Providers are terrible with email. If it ain't straight out text or PM, you're fucked.

They check email when they're sitting at home, ice on their pussy, makin' dates for the next week. Don't you fucking know that? Fuck.

Dude. Get on BP, or WTF ever you troll for girls on, and find some strange. You'll get your pee-pee wet and thank me in the morning.


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as businesswomen.  After sending two emails to each of them, it was time to move on and find someone else, at least for this time.

these were text messages wich is the way both the ladies want from guys they know

I was POd at a Fav lady...  I moved on for the immediate time but later phoned & found she'd not received the messages.  I learned electronics are not fool proof.  I do not write off until I've spoken to a live person...  
There are times when ladies are not available...  sick, vacation, family in town, out of town for family events.
On another occasion I had booked with a Fav lady a few days ahead...  I called her that morning and she picked up... she was really curt with me.  I was POd as I lost an opportunity.  I found out later she was out of state because her sister had died suddenly.  Then I felt like a jerk.  

You describe your ATFs as "girls"...  and it is possible that younger providers are less business like then more mature ladies.

I have 3 Favs at this time whom I rotate...  while I am not interested in notching my six-guns (or head board) as many times as possible...  I am interested in those who have Fav potential.  I have a few in my bucket list.    
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best thing you've said this week. lol

This is why its a good idea to have an agency in your mix.  They understand this is a business and that you are the customer.  If your previous fav is not available you can bet that they'll have an alternative.

Perhaps consider it a fall back position.  But at least you would not be home this weekend with Rosie (palm).

if one of my vendors misses a call, or a certain time has gone bye, they damn sure give me a call

You pay them to leave. It is their right to decide not to come anymore. Maybe they were both busy, or taking some time off. They have a right to their life, and don't have to explain anything to you.

That said, if they value your business, when they do get back, they might say something "sorry I didn't get back to you sooner, my mother was dying in the hospital".

try one, you might like it!

The fact that you've seen someone 20 times or a hundred times does not make them beholden to respond to you on your terms and in your time frame.  You're the customer and I hope you are appreciated for that but you are not the boss.  There's been a time here and there that I have simply put the laptop aside and not looked at an e-mail or taken calls for a week or so.  There's a calendar on my site and it will say NOT AVAILABLE during those rare times (though folks rarely look at it) but it's my right to take a break from it all as I wish.  It's my business.  If you don't like their business practices and it's a deal breaker for you as you expect a response in what you consider a reasonable time frame - move on.

And if I seen them over twenty times, I would follow up with a phone call.  If still no response, then it's time to implement Plan C.

In the end, I would not hold this against them, but would not be in a hurry to reschedule.

I am not a provider but I do the same thing and I call it my “back to reality” time. It is like Yoga, clears your mind, body, and senses.

You're right, when both parties walk out the door the session ends and is completely over. The op stated that he was spending money and felt that he was entitled to a reply but he's spending no more than anyone else that may just want an hour of her time.

Hell I've had ladies that I spend 80K to 100k a year with not respond to me for a week. It doesn't bother us, or me for that matter but we would rather hear that you can't make it than to hear crickets! We can always book someone else but don't sometimes because we've already asked one and would rather not have to say, sorry I already booked someone else.

At what point does it become good business to respond in a timely manner? I would think that even if you're busy, you'd want to respond. Not that you're going to cancel on anyone for a bigger client but I for one would think that it's just good PR. In my business that's how our employees would handle it but everyone runs their business differently

Exactly, thats why we have calendars on our websites. If you don't look at it then you will have that disappointment you are experiencing.

The other thing that bothers me is that if you are trying to set up an appointment for the weekend why did you wait so late to contact them ? Many of my appointments are booked weeks in advance so if you contacted me on Wednesday and I already had my 2 clients for the weekend, you would be out of luck. This is one of my pet peeves. Yes I have regulars and repeat clients that I will try to accommodate if possible. But...if I am busy on a trip with a client they won't hear back from me until I have returned.

The comment "you pay us to leave", is so true.

Just my opinion...

Yes it's a business but it's not the utility company, the only doctor in town or the only grocery store.  It's pay for pleasure and a one person business.  My chiropractor takes time off and closes the office and so do many other professionals who have small business:  tree surgeons, carpenters, lineman, I could go on.

For me to comply with your opinion, I would have to have someone handle my affairs OR never take more than a few hours off.  There isn't one person I would trust with answering my e-mails or giving them my passwords.  This is a business of safety and discretion first and I don't trust anyone with that info.  I support people who have assistants and I have used them in the past but,, right now, it's just me and me.   I've received e-mails in the past that say "please do not respond to this e-mail" and so I don't use auto-responders.  I post on my calendar NOT AVAILABLE and when I return I answer e-mails and calls letting them know I was taking some time off and it was on my calendar "sorry for the delay".

So yes, we are a business and should do the best we can to communicate properly as well as to be discrete - this is fun, not life and death for chrissakes.