Lets say we are on a date.....and By mistake it finishes a little to early....Do you get up and get dressed? or do you take a breather and lay down again for some stimulating conversation?Or perhaps a rub?
In the past I have found that many of my "friends" get nervous and want to leave when the deed is done!
Your take on this.........

I would take offense if I were a chick and a dude walked out early. That doesn't say much for the girl does it?

The provider is being compensated for her time...  so SHE should expect to spend the full amount enjoying each others company.   Not withstanding the action proceeds quicker than expected...   SHE should still expect to kiss, cuddle, chat, within the compensated time UNLESS the client signals that he wants to get back to where ever he's supposed to be.  
There's no one answer to this...  you just go with what the gent wants.  Now if things are routinely happening very quickly, you might want to fine tune your activities to more nerly fit the time allotted.  
Providers must be skilled time managers!  gents don't want "clock watchers" yet everything should be accomplished yet feel natural.  Some manage time by music tracks, TV (unless porn) is a big NO NO in my book.  After multiple visots to a Favorite lady, I've noticed a small clock to the side of the bed...  moves to what ever room we are using!   But she does not rush so how she manages is of no concern.
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....First of all, most hobbyists understand that we are paying the provider for their time, not pops, so if you pay for an hour of her time, then that is what you should get imho.  If you are late, need to take a shower once there and other misc. that usually counts against your time.  But the idea you are done with 1 pop and she only allows another with an upsell and you have time left in the session you paid for, means that time should be used to relax, lay on the bed, talk, make out etc.  Since this is always YMMV, it helps to clearly communicate with the lady (especially if you you are seeing her for the first time) what your expectation about the time is.  That should be done at the start of he session after the intros and payment of the donation.  Some 1/2 hour appointments are more or less get your nut and get out of there and that means cum and dash, it is the nature of a 30 minute appointment (which I never schedule...it takes me 30 minutes just to warm up, but then I'm an old guy, only 2 hour dates for me).  There may be times when the provider and hobbyist just don't click and getting out right after the pop is the best action to take, but I think both parties usually feel when this is happening  and the gent should be polite when leaving.  It is quite rude for a guy who scheduled an hour to just up and leave early once he got his nut.  But again, I think the short dates are partially responsible for this.   The Golden Rule should be the order of the day with any of us...Treat her/him as I would like to treated, with kindness and respect.

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I would agree with other replies. It is TIME people pay for, not of certain physical act.

I would certainly be pissed if my math tutor charged me $300 and left early cause we were done with the chapter.

I'm not offended by that. Why would I be?

I don't feel a need to squeeze every last minute out of a session.

If so, then don't sweat it.

Some guys are the "wham, bam, thank you maam" kind of guy where they feel they want to run off right after coming.

Other guys (and I'm in that group), will spend every last moment whether chatting or cuddling or both.

To each, their own.

If your friends are not repeating however, you better find out why, and the reasons can be anything from some offensive odor to some signals you might not be aware of giving off.  For example, in conversation, do you talk about how busy you are?  That could be taken as a hint to the guy that he ought to hit the road.  Or, maybe you mention a topic that would gross out a guy like how'd you like to settle down and get married.  I even had one gal tell me that she hopes her boyfriend doesn't show up unannounced.

Not being totally faceious here, but I've experienced just those kinds of situations, and they made me anxious to pack up and go.

of providers who only offer ONE pop, and that is it? Most providers allow a guy to get the entire time he pays for regardless of when he finishes pop one, so I guess I am confused by your question. Why is it a mistake for him to finish early?

-- Modified on 11/25/2012 2:09:39 PM

I have never felt the need or urge to leave right after the pop.

What would we hookers ever do without you so graciously telling us how to do our jobs? And lucky us, on a thread about dudes even.

To answer your question - rarely happens! Most of the time people go over. But it occasionally does happen. If we have time, I'll try to get him off again unless he tell me to stop. But if there's not enough time for another pop, I'll usually make conversation or offer him refreshments.

Sometimes a body rub  or chat leads to more, which is awkward if you are approaching the hour mark (I am assuming we are talking about an hour appt). In my agency days, sometimes the guy would cum in 30-40 minutes and ask for a massage...then he would get hard again when he had, like, 5 minutes left. I don't want to start something I can't finish, or be put in an awkward spot. So maybe the girls who get nervous assume that you will end up going way over time.

On another note - those men who just make every excuse to overstay, just chatting - I honestly don't understand it. The men I see have are busy professionals, have families...why would MY company distract them for hours beyond the time they allotted? I am much younger than the people I see and can't imagine that I am all that fascinating.



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Posted by London Rayne, 11/25/2012 6:07:59 AM
of providers who only offer ONE pop, and that is it? Most providers allow a guy to get the entire time he pays for regardless of when he finishes pop one, so I guess I am confused by your question. Why is it a mistake for him to finish early? -


No,  it's not a mistake on his end it's something that he didn't want to happen that fast. The age range of my client base is more mature and alot better in my eyes...but sometimes the first one is the only one. !