I am new to USA (about  months here now) and it is the most expensive place to hobby of all the countries I have lived/worked. I have primarily spent my time in Asian, South/Central American (Pura Vida Costa Rica) and also a few European countries with legal escorts systems...

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Special deals can be worked out for special johns. If you are lining their pockets to the degree you say, it should be easy.

But as the saying goes "never gamble with scared money", you shouldn't hobby with scared money. It sounds like you have a healthy hobby budget though, $3k is pretty good. There are plenty of quality women that you could see on that budget.

and if you were spending $1500-2000 a month in Ticaland, there is no way you'll be able to maintain both the frequency and the quality for anything less than $5,000 a month here.  

Had to call out as Costa Rica is one of my two favorites country to hobby (along with Thailand), Holland and a few Europeans countries are good as well, but I prefer petite latina and asian girls...

I have been able to work out deals with girls I see semi-regularly (more than a few times).  I am guessing this is not uncommon.  

I'm assuming that the money you spend each month isn't cutting into other areas of your life.

much of it in Costa Rica and I too like petite Latinas and Asians.

Once a client attempts to negotiate, I feel cheap and don't want to see him even at my regular rate anymore.

I can't imagine how a woman who sees a guy 2-3 times a month would be made to feel "cheap" if the guy mentions how we would love to see her more often, but can't afford the freight? She can say no of course, but I don't see how that's the least bit offensive.

Because, I can't control my urges for pussy very well, don't care to and have the funds to finance them.

Why would a pussy hound further reduce his pussy budget by paying someone to tell him he has a problem?

Whenever one poses a change to any relationship, there is a risk of a "break up."

Well it would certainly make things uncomfortable.
Which would put a damper on the session, at the very least.

For that amount, you may be able to find a sugar daddie/sugar babe relationship that would be mutually beneficial.

When they agree to a lower than advertised rate, they, in my experience, provide a session that I expect. I have seen no discernible drop off in attitude or performance. If I did, why would I see them again and again?

Hahaha!

With a SB, you have to listen to and put up with the drama.

I never HAVE to listen to anyone's drama, and certainly not one I am paying.  

Is it really so odd for a guy to want to fuck a different woman every day? So what's wrong with only acting on your urges every other day?

Is there a good website/reviews on how to find sugar babes? Any pointers? When I Google - there is tons of stuff, any pointers will be helpful...

I'm simply in a different bracket than the OP and you.  

Its not like you can take it with you ...

Do those who are seeing clients on grandfathered rates tank their session also.
Do you have any of your original clients at a lower rate and do they receive less because of it.  
I am aware of a lot of grandfathering of rates and do not think that  those clients receive less effort and menu than a full rate new by.

There is one portion I care about and that is what does he want in return? Because I have heard from hookers that some bargain hunters act like she is an all you can eat buffet.

I said, and quite clearly, that if you get a SB you have to listen to and put up with drama. And that with providers you don't have to.

What about all that "connection" that hookers and lovelorn johns babble about ad nauseum here?

You DONT have to put up with drama from SB's either.

I was wondering after you reappeared, what kind of a prick does one have to be to get a time out from a fuck board. You have illustrated exactly, and now I know for certain.

And btw, in what country can school boys be car salesman?

I stick to the hour appointments...I can connect just fine in the hour. Not sure I really want to be "on" for more than that. Only so much I can take being with someone I am not attracted to. But the money is great!!!!!!!!! Leaves me plenty of time to have my fun with my choice

I have no personal experience with this, but it seems like this question comes up every now and then on TER. Do a search on the forums here. Or you could start another topic by asking.

You pay a hooker to show up...she wants to leave, and move on to the next thing in her life

Move to the MidWest

That if I was to agree to a discounted session and the trick took advantage of me, I would tank the darn thing. I would be very clear and actually say ...".the discount does not entitle you to act like a fat person at an all you can eat buffet...enough is enough...act like a respectable human being or get out".  

Or, you can get realistic. You seem to be trying to reconcile an apples and elephants comparison. You’re not in central/south America/Asia anymore. You mention the Bay area…..well….in the US it’s hard to find a more expensive city to live in unless you want to try NYC or LA? Seattle, perhaps?  DC?

Even with cold calling discounts from the favorites, deals and holiday specials from brokers, it means more funds available for the next. With lack of discipline, it's real hard to stay away from the temptations when they keep coming to you at will. Good luck on turning down on an overnight for the price of 3 hrs., 4 hrs for the price of 2 hrs, or come over for a home made meal for a price of one hour.

Believe it or not, except for rents and anything labor related, including P4P, most things in Costa Rica are every bit as expensive as here in the US. and yes that even includes tortillas although you don't see a lot of tortillas once you get south of Mexico.

But still…. baring a few types of items that will cost you the same---or, in some cases, more than in the US (like…water/milk/eggs/gasoline/buying a car or electronics or US brand-name clothing….), the cost of living is measurably lower in CR than the US, overall. Maybe not AR….or MS. But a few US cities are consistently at the top of the most expensive cost of living list.  

You admit to being dumb enough the be taken advantage of?

Rent prices are most definitely lower in CR than anywhere in the US, but restaurant prices are right on par with US restaurants and groceries are most definitely HIGHER than in the US.

All I’m saying is, the cost of living in CR (or anywhere south of north)---even with the increased prices of many basic commodities, as a result of gringo influence in some locations (like CR) and, yes, the general fuckery to the locals as a result, living in CR *still* costs less than living in SanFran (or, any major city, USA).  

I have an amazing sugar baby. And an amazing provider. I am broke and very happy.

I tried the whole sugar baby thing, because I figured I would be getting myself a "discounted steady provider" basically. And that I could ditch the provider eventually. Who am I kidding? I can't give up my provider. She's amazing and can't be replaced. Ad no way could I ever stop seeing my sugar baby. She is my Angel.