I can't imagine having the same sex with same person for 30+ years. I get bored after few months.. Are there really men who have no desire to cheat? How do they do it?

And only started p4p in the last few months of my 2nd 16 year marriage, because I was working out how to end it. Which I did.

I could never understand the statistics that say that men cheat more than women.   Aren't men cheating with women?  So it isn't 1:1.   The only explanation I can come up with is that some women have multiple affairs -- or are sex workers.  

This might not be the right forum for such a poll to yield meaningful results.  This is, after all, a website devoted to helping people find and book escorts.  Chances are pretty good that any married men on these boards cheat on their wives regularly or they wouldn't be here.  Personally, I have never cheated on anyone, but I also haven't been in a serious relationship in a very long time.

In many cases the married guy is seeing a single gal, often telling her that he is single or at least available somehow.   In that case the guy is cheating twice:  Once on his wife and the other on the gal he is deceiving.   She, on the other hand, is not cheating.

and the other half lie about it.   8o)

Yet , the OP didn't ask and probably doesn't care.

That this forum and lifestyle leave the door of honesty wide open on that matter.

I agree with you. I am open, just ask me. Hahaha.  
But, I am always surprised at the number of really closed minded, fearful  humans we have here.
Every now and the, ugly jealousy pops up among mongers and sex workers alike.  

I don't care if the OP cares or not. I put it out there,  like it or not.

I’m not proud of it, but I cheated in my marriage.  I think more people do it than admit it. I am in awe of those that have never done it.  

I hobby with consent of my wife, but during my first six years I was monogamous and never was remotely   interested in cheating. Even after I had a full green light to hobby, it was over a year before I was comfortable bedding pros even with my wife being more than OK with me doing so and playing herself.

Please don't ruin my fantasy

That said, the guy is as authentic as they come and thoroughly decent.  But fun?  LOL!  Not hardly.  But hard not to like.

I was just stating my reality.

Cheating on someone is betrayal, and none of the women I've ever been committed to did anything to me which would warrant betrayal.

but authenticity lasts forever.

Paid fantasy with strings.

It's just that back in his "fat fuck" days, someone offered to trade him some McRibs in exchange for his sense of humor. lol

I especially like cheating with a woman who is also cheating.  It's really hot.

I may be the rare exception on here.
I like reading the reviews (as a VIP), but I don't use providers.

My first marriage was a total disaster.  I was miserable from year one to year 15.   I was completely monogamous until about year 12 or so, then I cheated.   I remarried later and the sexual relationship with wife #2 was terrific until she inexplicably  lost interest in sex.  I didn’t want another divorce so I just endured a sexless marriage until I discovered “the hobby”.   Once I started, I could not stop.  It’s just too easy to find beautiful, intelligent, sexually interested women in this environment.  

My wife took very good care of me.  Had no need to date or touch another woman, although I did go to strip clubs for the scenery.